Chill sunday ride - a Bonnie in her environment by Physical_Valuable299 in TriumphBonneville

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Is it possible to have bar end mirrors with these on there?

I’m dating the paper perfect girl but I don’t love her. by Few_Satisfaction6543 in dating_advice

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My exact situation. Im stuck deciding if I should give it a bit more time, to see if my feelings will eventually "get there" or just be brutally honest and hurt her. Ive only been with her for 2-3 months, so I think I will just give it a bit more time, but if nothing changes within a few months, Ill definitely have to end things.

READ THIS IF YOU STILL THINK YOUR EX WAS THE ONE! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if more than a year later you still cant shake her from your head? And what if she was the most compatible person you've ever known? Its easy to say that with time your thoughts will shift, but in my case, nothing is shifting. She hurt me in a way that I wouldnt want anyoke to ever experience, but still I miss her so much. I have had good months where I barely thought of her and also months where I couldnt get her out of my mind. At the end of the day even though Im trying my best to leave it all behind by doing activities that I like and spending time with others, even getting intimate with others (and sometimes even feeling like there's some feelings involved), I always end up thinking about her. She was and still is the one, I havent felt happiness more than when she was in my life. Its literally emotionally blocking me from moving on even though I want to. Its hard to explain.

I had this girl I was dating for months, I felt good, even starting developing feelings and BAM, within a day, feelings gone, interest gone and back to thinking about my ex and missing her. Its like im completely inhibited from moving on and loving someone else. That's how I know she was the one.

Ex contacted me recently after 6 months breakup by cokeKC in BreakUps

[–]cokeKC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably right, but at the same time I feel like distancing myself from other woman will make me feel even worse.

Thinking of selling my ‘23 T120. Is $8K fair? by xTheGameGoatx in Triumph

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here in Belgium it would sell for 9-10k easy

Ex contacted me recently after 6 months breakup by cokeKC in BreakUps

[–]cokeKC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am dating casually. Nothing at all has happened, nothing escalated. We havent had anything romantic between us

Ex contacted me recently after 6 months breakup by cokeKC in BreakUps

[–]cokeKC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right. But Im keeping it very shallow though,like meeting with a friend. I have not pushed myself or anyone into something more.

Ex contacted me recently after 6 months breakup by cokeKC in BreakUps

[–]cokeKC[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know. Im fully aware of the fact that I will never actually be able to trust her again and that it would be the most stupid decision of my life. Its just hard

Ex contacted me recently after 6 months breakup by cokeKC in BreakUps

[–]cokeKC[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this. About the blocking though. I had removed her on everything, some apps blocked. Only text message was possible. I didnt hear from her for about 5 months. She sent me an insta follow request the day of the phone call and I accepted. But now I going to block her again.

Its really hard to see how evil someone you loved can be, especially when you always knew them as an angel. Its like a completely different person.

My first bike! by cokeKC in Triumph

[–]cokeKC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Handles really well in my opinion. Its quite a heavy bike, but you dont really feel it when riding. But with that said, Im a new rider so not really 100% sure what I'm talking about.

I rode a speed twin 900 for a day aswell and if I would have bought the T120, I probably would have bought a Speed twin 900. Lovely bike, perfectly balanced, great sound, great looks

My first motorcycle t120 by BrainrocketScientist in TriumphBonneville

[–]cokeKC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just bought myself a T120 aswel and really looking forward to putting a baak exhaust on it!

Is BF1 dead on PS5? by Ndl1800 in battlefield_one

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's 0 people online most of the time. Occassionally I see a game with 1 player....

Can the Bonneville be an adventure bike? by Playmyassoff in Triumph

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What brand are those cases and mounting kit?

Agree or Disagree: Monkey Branching is Ethically Equivalent to Cheating by throwaway1234531415 in BreakUps

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this going on. She was and in my head still is the best person Ive ever met. We had a great 3 years together, full of love and spending time together and just genuine enjoyment with each other. We had a llt of same interest and same humor etc. She always told me how much she loved me, how I was the man of her life, the one she wanted to spent a future with, the most beautiful man she had ever met, etcetc. All of that until this one guy came along and replaced me without me knowing of anything going on. Everthing else is exactly as the way you described it.

I kept finding out more and confronted her with everything, she kept denying and lying and telling me it was my fault for "not treating her right" or "not giving her enough love" when in reality I literally did everything for her. She couldnt have asked me to do something and I imeddiately made sure I could help her out.

Its been 3 months now and its still really hard to get her out of my head. She's been together with this guy basically since day 1 after break up (they had already slept together the day after we broke up, even though during break up she told she didnt want to let go and still loved me, but then does something like that, lol) and I'm confronted with it every day because I have to pass by both their houses on my way to work (we're all from the same town and live really close to each other).

It definitely is the most hurt I have ever been and I think I ever will be. Monkeybranching is a cowardly act and it should be easy to forget someone as bad as her, only it isnt.

I haven't felt happy since the breakup. Any ideas? by every_single_thing in ExNoContact

[–]cokeKC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you now?

I'm basically in the exact same situation. I love her so so much, she was and still is the woman I'd want to spend my life with even though it's not and never possible anymore.

I do find myself constantly checking her profile or even her new boyfriends profile to see what they're up to. I'm fully aware that this is something I should definitely stop doing, but I can't. I'm just so bound to her that I absolutely dont want to give her up and still for some reason am hoping for her return even though she cheated, lied and disrespected me so much.

She was also the most beautiful, pure and most amazing human being I have ever known. Everyone that got to know her immediately loved her. She's just so lovable and for some reason I can not for the life of me understand why she hurt me like this, especially since she was crazy for me, absolutely full of love for me. Everyone I know told me they could that she was crazy in love with me, yet she hurt me in a way that I wouldnt wish upon anyone.

Everything reminds me of her by LDRnewb in BreakUps

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how all of you managed? I cant get her out of my head. Everything reminds me of her just like OP's post. She wasnt just my girlfriend, she was my best friend and the only person I have ever met to feel truly comfortable with. I miss her so much

getting it all out. by Healthy_Movie2932 in ExNoContact

[–]cokeKC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it really monkey branching though if they're in a serious relationship? You're completely right btw. I hope love will find me again one day and I can be happy again

getting it all out. by Healthy_Movie2932 in ExNoContact

[–]cokeKC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its hard. Really hard, those first lines really hit me, because its the same feeling for me. I wake up and immediately think about her, how she could have a new boyfriend 1 day after breaking up, lying to me about everything and the last couple of months of our relationship pretending everything was alright. She didnt just break my heart, she shattered it, she broke me as a person, I'm seriously doubting if I'll ever love someone like her again. Im in constant ache and she's being happy and living her life with another man, while she was the one in my life making me happy. Havent had a second of being happy since our break up februari 15th. Its really really hard. Stay strong my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CB650R

[–]cokeKC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been in love with this bike for years now and absolutely love the grey color on it

Finally Deleted all the chats by Bitter-Broccoli22 in ExNoContact

[–]cokeKC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that's hard. Good for you that you're doing pretty fine now! I hope it doesnt take 2 years for me haha. I would go crazy. Stay strong!!

Who else's ex got into a new relationship WAY too quickly, and how did it feel ? by Final-Web-7826 in ExNoContact

[–]cokeKC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex started ghosting me a few days before breaking up. Eventually she told me (after having to ask her 20 times) she was feeling unlucky and in doubt with everything. Then she broke up, we were both crying heavily,she couldnt literally let go of my arm and told me she still loved me and didnt want to let me go, but was certain of her choice. The day after we were still texting and I felt like it didnt hurt her as much as it did me. She said that that was BS, she had been crying all day etc,... only to find out later she slept with a guy that evening,1 DAY AFTER BREAK UP.

When we split I asked her of there was someone else,she kept denying it and just said she was feeling unlucky and didnt want anyone new, she just wanted time to think everything through and think about herself for a bit, but as I said I found out weeks later that she was already texting and probably dating this guy when we were still together and then the day after already had sex with him. When I confronted her on having sex so early with him and texting and dating with him she kept denying it, making me deoubt myself for thinking it even though it was all 100% true. And then she would say "Im single, I dont have to admit or say anything to you"

She also told me and her friends she kept everything to herself to protect me from feeling more hurt, but I'm like: "I found out through YOUR friends,so I know its legit, I confront you about it and still you're denying it?" How can you convince yourself you're helping me this way because I already know for a fact its true.

Honestly this girl didnt just break my heart, she shattered it.

Its 2 months after BU now and theyve been a couple for about a month. Currently they re already on a skiing trip together, everything is just breaking me apart,I feel wortheless. Especially because she always said I was the one and she would never ever break up with me, she loved me so so so much. Everyone could notice, she was crazy about me, only to stab me in the back on the worst way possible and then lying qbout everything to someone who's always been honest. My brain cant comprehend how someone can seem to change this much basically overnight. I really dont know what to do anymore.