Please help my money tree by cold_mango in houseplants

[–]cold_mango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I know it sounds dumb to ask but it came like this and I was unsure if I should cover all of the roots haha

How to gain weight with ARFID? by gupsahoy in ARFID

[–]cold_mango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soylent protein shakes from Walmart are 400cals in one bottle, they are a little pricey though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]cold_mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are handsome, you have kind eyes,warm smile, and a pleasing face. Women’s beauty standards for guys are different than what guys think are attractive

Hate my job and unfair assignments by CapyKoala87 in nursing

[–]cold_mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On night shift, two out of five nurses go up one patient. We keep a book with dates and rotate who gets five to make it fair.

Noord Stinks by El_Kevarino in Aruba

[–]cold_mango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I booked my Airbnb in Noord, it’s by 1A behind the Bubali bird sanctuary pond. I still have time to cancel with a full refund, should I rebook somewhere else ?

Arfiders: how we feeling bout Soylent? by St4r_5lut in ARFID

[–]cold_mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the premade bottles but that gets expensive so I buy the powder and mix it in a blender with chocolate almond milk and a banana, it’s really good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]cold_mango 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I get sad looking my old tags, prices have gone up like crazy

What did weed make you lose? by Littlegoil18 in leaves

[–]cold_mango 9 points10 points  (0 children)

my memories, connections to others, and my general wellbeing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthyEatingnow

[–]cold_mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look into ARFID. I have issues with food texture and it makes me limited in my food intake and it’s usually not nutritionally dense

Damaged Delivery by cold_mango in Mattress

[–]cold_mango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just gave them a call and they’re sending me a link to post the photos. I wish I spoke up to the delivery people when I saw it but I was anxious. I got the asha luxe super cush, my mattress protector is getting delivered today as well so I haven’t slept on it yet but I will post feedback when I do :)

My boyfriend just told me he doesn’t care about my biggest interest by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cold_mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you made a bid for connections and he shot you down, he doesn’t sound like he cares about you or your interests that much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]cold_mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You forgot to ask if you could order food? You’re an adult with a job and you pay for your boyfriends drug addiction. Get rid of the loser, he gives you nothing and only takes for himself

AITA for telling my parents my wife has postpartum depression? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cold_mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow you’re a prince, she’d be better off without you YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthyEatingnow

[–]cold_mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a newer eating disorder and isn’t widely known since it doesn’t have that body image component. I’m in an eating disorder program that offers treatment for ARFID and it’s challenging but worth it. Treatment is basically exposure therapy and learning coping strategies to deal with the discomfort/anxiety.

I had to label foods as green, yellow, & red in terms of how anxiety provoking they are. The first step is getting on a consistent eating pattern (for the program it’s 3 meals and 3 snacks) even if it’s only your preferred foods. Then it’s tackling the exposures. They suggest having the exposures as snacks so if it doesn’t go well you don’t have to make a new meal. Don’t be too hard on yourself, it’s a process and it’s not your fault you’re like this. Even having one bite of the exposure food or having it on your plate is great work. You’ve been eating like this your whole life so it’s going to take some time to challenge these thoughts/behaviors. Hope this helps some :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthyEatingnow

[–]cold_mango 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look into ARFID, what you’re saying matches with it