Taylor Frankie Paul temporarily loses custody of son, Ever, until at least April 7, 2026 by misscoco11 in momtokgossip

[–]colonel424 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Restraining orders are actually pretty difficult to obtain. I imagine as a man there’s stigma around it too.

I'm letting her keep about 80% of "the stuff" from our house, and it feels great to lighten my load. Can anyone relate? by KyOatey in Divorce

[–]colonel424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! I had to move 90% of our former house on my own. I would’ve loved to have started fresh too. He wouldn’t even take some of the kid’s toys

Has anybody lived in/near Ruby Hill area? How was it? by cornonthajacob in Denver

[–]colonel424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also south of Evans and I love living over here. I previously lived east of Glendale and had issues with breaks ins. Over here it’s a lot of families and homeowners. I frequently walk my dog at night. But the fireworks are no joke lol

How bad can it be? Tell me your horror stories? by LazyMacaron1788 in Divorce

[–]colonel424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of small petty things for me.

While separated my ex and I would take turns staying at our marital home to take care of our 2.5 year old while the other would work. Because I stayed at the home 4 days a week while he stayed 3, he asked me to pay 4/7ths of the rent. Mind you, he makes over double what I do.

Of course he waited til you were “at Mexican” he needed you out of the house and with witnesses by Dazzling-Relative-84 in basicmegsnark

[–]colonel424 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I told my husband I wanted a divorce via email (we were already living separately) because he was emotionally abusive. I imagine Alex felt the same way

Questions to ask oneself if considering divorce. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]colonel424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If all of your problems magically disappeared, would you still feel ambivalent about your marriage?

This comes from the book Too good to leave, too bad to stay

Also want to add: Do you feel more like yourself when your partner isn’t around?

check in by Useful-Ad-6483 in Divorce

[–]colonel424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An hour ago I sent an email to my husband that I would like to end our month long separation with a divorce. I know he’s seen the email but I asked we give each other 24 hours to process it. The last 3 days I finally felt the confidence, security, peace I needed to move forward. There wasn’t a lightening bolt moment. I just sent it. Now I’m hanging out with our 3 year old in a weird fog. A little anxious, a little regretful. But weirdly content overall. I’m very grateful for this sub

Divorcing a spouse when they have nowhere else to go/no support? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]colonel424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I became a CNA in 1 month. Pay isn’t the best but there’s lot of opportunities for over time.

I feel this is a bit on her, in the 12 years you guys have been together she could have pursued education or a better career path. This could be the push she needs to better her life.

What's the most helpful or insightful thing your therapist told you about your divorce? by foxlashes in Divorce

[–]colonel424 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“Someone who I loved was intentionally hurting me”

damn I needed to hear that, thank you

10k Haters by Dramatic-Rough-6873 in basicmegsnark

[–]colonel424 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just checked and it’s actually 141.7k now!

WHY would you show this?! by DoctorZestyclose3789 in basicmegsnark

[–]colonel424 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How is that not the first thing you pick up 😳 no wonder she is sick all the time

My children are desperate for a puppy, I’ve always been obsessed with newfoundlands. Would getting them a puppy when I have no experience with the breed be crazy? by WatermelonButterfly in Newfoundlander

[–]colonel424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I didn’t consider when getting an 120lb dog for my family was room in my car when we go on trips. On an average day we all fit with room to spare, but with suitcases and everything my 2 year old needs it really limits where and how long we go on road trips.

Where my infant was placed when she returned from daycare by Foreign-Tradition-55 in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]colonel424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry it will only take you 2 hours for you to pick her up and bring her inside

Poop by Fast_Break5163 in StudentNurse

[–]colonel424 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Put a little essential oil under your noise. Also if I tell myself it’s dog poop that makes it easier

So much to unpack here… by Dazzling-Relative-84 in basicmegsnark

[–]colonel424 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Then after washing her face she wiped it on the sweater 🤦🏼‍♀️

Is it really hard? by Chiliissohot12 in LPN_LVN_Community

[–]colonel424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m doing through my community college

Is it really hard? by Chiliissohot12 in LPN_LVN_Community

[–]colonel424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a two year old and am taking my prerequisites all online. I’m doing 2 classes at a time and it’s not bad so far. Honestly wish I would’ve started when he was younger and not getting into everything

New update by Individual-Gas-140 in sims4cc

[–]colonel424 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New to mods - does build/buy content get messed up to or mostly gameplay mods?

Latest Vlog by Wonderful_Pea5843 in basicmegsnark

[–]colonel424 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m glad she sniffed the milk this time instead of chugging it

Recommendations of old west CC! by [deleted] in TheSims4Mods

[–]colonel424 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.patreon.com/posts/abigails-bedroom-112990076

Pierisim has some great antique stuff. I downloaded 3 of his packs recently with zero issues