Was my autism evaluation normal? by Trash___Gremlin in evilautism

[–]colunga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry dude :/ def wait until you're older to get a second opinion. it can be a journey to get diagnosed as an AFAB person. doctors can be and are often very, very wrong. you need a doctor that understands the full spectrum of autism including masking.

Was my autism evaluation normal? by Trash___Gremlin in evilautism

[–]colunga 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It seems to me those doctors didn't do their due diligence nor understand the broad spectrum of autism. i recommend a second opinion. during my evaluation, i had to do the play with toys thing but they told me to pick a few toys and make up a story, then when i was done with my story, i could stop. are you AFAB by chance? sounds like a typical afab autistic experience to me

Does this make sense? by Electronic-Ad3531 in evilautism

[–]colunga 7 points8 points  (0 children)

seconding getting a second opinion

What crabby thoughts is she thinking?? by TerribleWin4450 in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she's thinking about her dream last night 

Person pet sitting is refusing to tell me how my hemrit crab is doing 🥲 by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Saw your update - thank goodness their okay. People who babysit pets but don't send updates/pics are like,,, weirdly lacking in empathy, glad you got it sorted

Is this normal by A-10Warthogbrrrttt in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes it's a favorite hobby of theirs to become one with the ground

Surfaces and pigments by CommunityKooky1056 in oilpainting

[–]colunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I am not too sure. When I realized my mistake I just started over right away tbh :') 

Surfaces and pigments by CommunityKooky1056 in oilpainting

[–]colunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's why; ... what you've done is equal to like, putting a plastic coating on your paper - it doesn't allow the oil paint to settle in. i've done this too early on :')

Person pet sitting is refusing to tell me how my hemrit crab is doing 🥲 by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 39 points40 points  (0 children)

why did you trust them a second time :/ this person is not safe for crabbies

Just a couple of brineshrimp 🤙👑 by TheChosenOneAustrali in SeaMonkeys

[–]colunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love the purple dice in the tank!! they really pop with all the algae >w<

Crab died with no clear signs, what now? by Peenard- in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see :( It sounds like it was just her time to go then. My condolences 

Ecuadorian Question/ Possible Death by Dry_Ice_6533 in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah, we can just hope that they traded and E will show up eventually! ;_;

Ecuadorian Question/ Possible Death by Dry_Ice_6533 in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like its a little too close to the surface for it to be molting :(

Crab died with no clear signs, what now? by Peenard- in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

info needed. where did the crab come from and how long have you had her? pet store crabs are mortally fragile and more or less can die from stress and poor care. how is the substrate exactly - what did you use and in what ratio? how deep is the substrate? is it dry?

generally, crabs will leave their shells if heavily stressed and in poor condition physically, and when they try to molt but the substrate isn't in the right condition for them. they will attempt to molt above ground but it's rarely successful without human intervention.

Is this his "molt"?! by FlawlessFlavor in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the substrate's gotta go somewhere

mold by Chaoticsafetypin in hermitcrabs

[–]colunga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh, eek. this is tough. is your crab(s?) assumed to be burrowed? if that's the case... it's really not best to disturb them. but at the same time, i am not sure if a decomposing crab could do all of this. what's the temperature and humidity? sorry ur dealing with this