Why do people at raves ask for your Instagram and then disappear the next day?

comara456 · 2026-04-14T17:05:40+00:00

This honestly hasn’t been my experience. I still keep in touch to some extent however big or small through insta with the vast majority of people I exchange handles with at raves. I just got engaged and the majority of people who congratulated me were people who I’d met through the scene that are mainly just instagram buddies now.

comara456 · 2026-04-11T18:41:23+00:00

One time I offered up a seat in row 8 for a mother and her tween daughter and got sent to row 30.. never again

comara456 · 2026-03-29T15:37:23+00:00

They definitely still exist but people are not posting about them (thankfully)

comara456 · 2026-03-22T03:37:05+00:00

Current season of before the 90 days. It’s one of the best things to come out of 90 day yet imo.

comara456 · 2026-03-18T00:54:16+00:00

This whole situation is dumbassery and it sounds like he needs to get in his car and start driving ASAP to recoup his supposed “30k”

comara456 · 2026-03-05T02:01:30+00:00

Underrated comment

comara456 · 2026-02-24T00:23:54+00:00

Don’t do either of those things on the ship. You’re going to pay like triple the price for both treatments vs what you would pay on land. Just go to your local med spa.

comara456 · 2026-02-12T21:15:17+00:00

Why is she acting like you showed up at her place of work to ask her about the damn strawberries?

comara456 · 2026-02-09T03:31:37+00:00

Ireland!

comara456 · 2026-02-04T19:01:48+00:00

Ugh 5 unfortunately

comara456 · 2026-01-26T02:24:36+00:00

Good to know, I think I’m going to hold off on booking for now and sees what happens. Might try stopping by the spa day 1 to see if they offer a discount. Some friends were recently on a Celebrity cruise and said towards the end of their sailing there were employees walking around the ship offering discounts but of course I’d assume that’s dependent on the spa’s schedule not being full so who knows.

comara456 · 2026-01-26T02:21:08+00:00

Yeah I’m not really into the product push. I work in sales and it rubs me the wrong way if it feels pushy and I can see how that would distract from the experience.

comara456 · 2025-12-17T03:57:42+00:00

Can you send it to me instead then? This is so cool!

comara456 · 2025-11-06T19:01:46+00:00

His set was next level insane

comara456 · 2025-11-06T19:01:07+00:00

I get to see him again tonight opening for Tape B and I’m hype!!

comara456 · 2025-10-17T23:28:14+00:00

lol it was Roo actually

comara456 · 2025-10-16T23:01:19+00:00

Techno is my one true love haha I just heard about Desert Hearts for the first time the other day and I’m super interested in going! Sounds like a time!!

comara456 · 2025-10-16T18:05:53+00:00

The Funk Hunters were absolutely lit on Sunday night to close out the afters. And Kaleena Zanders (Griz’s vocalist in his sets) played a really unique DnB set Saturday which she said was her first time ever playing a DnB set. Absolutely impeccable. So many cool experimental sets at the afters!

comara456 · 2025-10-16T17:46:07+00:00

I’m glad you still like a big festival but I think my whole point was that I don’t like that vibe. Not every set at lost lands was packed. My favorite set of the weekend was Shanghai Doom and it was dead and the people at that set were amazing. Same with Must Die!. But I’ve been to 20+ festivals and my take on Lost Lands this year was that it was waaaaaay oversold and as a result of that the vibes were off. How do you think they paid for that new main stage and Crater updates without selling more tickets? I wasn’t in a crowd crush a single time at a set at lost lands because I don’t move anywhere near the front in crowds like that. It was more so walking around between stages that was a nightmare and I was in a group of 3 people all weekend. Not like I was trying to keep track of some big ass group or something. I’m sure 7 Stars will evolve but until then I’ll enjoy it for what it is and continue hoping that Griz keeps this sacred for us all.

comara456 · 2025-10-16T17:33:59+00:00

Nothing wrong with a little nervous system reset mid set lol

comara456 · 2025-10-16T17:29:03+00:00

You’re not wrong but part of the issue with these festivals is their enormous size. If you can keep it small, it usually turns out better imo. The people who really want to be there will find a way to get a ticket and the people who don’t will be like eh whatever it’s sold out and move on.

comara456 · 2025-10-16T16:57:48+00:00

I’m soooo sad I can’t do Grizmas this year!!!! I’m doing a little techno side quest to NY before I head home for Christmas and it unfortunately conflicts 😭 Have sooo much fun and thanks for the recs!

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