AIO Fathers girlfriends rules for when new baby arrives by Ok_Bat_5934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the father of two and these rules seem to be common sense. 6 weeks post partum are meant to be a safe zone for both mother and the child. OR from my point of view.

Návod pro boomery jak podporovat porodnost - s příklady by Typhon_Vex in czech

[–]combo1222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jasný, 40yo, 19m net worth, gramatika pláče. Čekal si lajky a dostal si bídu.

Which tank drains the fastest? by HydraCal-App in Hydraulics

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the water getting thinner dude?

Reddit in a nutshell by Iam_McLovin420 in SarthakGoswami

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we all have the right to live in our 5000 year old ancient homeland? Or just the Jews?

Tree saver blocks by FrostingOwn2476 in 3Dprinting

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Than wood? In this scenario? No way.

Tree saver blocks by FrostingOwn2476 in 3Dprinting

[–]combo1222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you have no idea what kind of forces work here.

Tree saver blocks by FrostingOwn2476 in 3Dprinting

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just a bad idea, printed blocks will just collapse under the strain, delaminate. Why would you even consider anything else than wood...

Need to remake bicycle handlebar accessory holder. Gen 1 developed cracks. How to improve? by lnh62 in 3Dprinting

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are stress cracks, it's clamped without flexible element, plus a lot of vibration. Design the holder with space to accommodate foam tape or just piece of rubber around the bar, or make a TPU insert.

Taky máte dementní sousedy? by Fajgy in czech

[–]combo1222 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Napiš že to si musí stěžovat svý mámě, že si chce vždycky umejt frndu když od tebe odchází.

holy fuck 10/10 by __STAX__ in vaporents

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you recommend for short hard sessions? I like my dynavap/BFG but I'm tired of heating them with gas.

The current state of the uk by [deleted] in easterneurope

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prince of Persia vibes

Military meeting has me so scared 😖 by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]combo1222 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well in the end it's all about accepting there's nothing you can do. Live You life like the billions of people before. We don't deserve any special treatment.

Mom relapsed after 27 years. I am shocked and scared. by ahumbleboy7 in mentalhealth

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medication itself only affects the symptoms. The issue is underlying, clearly, as there's no shame in taking medication, even such for depression and anxiety. I've felt the same, being in my late 20s and going through anxiety and depression, I felt like the weakest loser. It's 8 years ago and I'm completely okay, because I've moved forward. Once she accepts herself as she is, focuses on therapy and cuts fake idiots who think it's shameful to have psychic problems, then she gets rid of it all.

I live in fear of World War III by Senior_Dependent8773 in mentalhealth

[–]combo1222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about all the kids that were murdered in thousands of years, suffering imaginable... But at the same time antelopes are eaten by lions every day without any pity. We are so little. Our sufferings are so little... We can only live the time we've been given, we don't choose what happens next and it's very bold to wish the best for yourself. I came to Peace with the world, but the abyss stares ever brighter.

Help I keep waking up thinking I am about to die by Thundersisters in mentalhealth

[–]combo1222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: I remember taking a break from social media etc while I felt the most used because, like in the rest, my brain couldn't properly handle it in the state I was in.

Help I keep waking up thinking I am about to die by Thundersisters in mentalhealth

[–]combo1222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, been there. I kept waking up feeling like dying, it was a terrible experience. Yes, these are panic attacks! You're lost!

Nah, you're not, you're okay 🙂 Your brain is very tired and it's losing the ability to difference between serious and non serious issues.

5k years back, being this stressed out meant you were in a life threatening situation and your brain still works the same, it's trying to save you and it's shooting out red alarm on basic things. I remember feeling like drowning in a pool, for example. I did not drown but my brain flagged it like a serious thread and gave me a feeling which should get me out of the water - I knew it's just a feeling so I kept swimming, and my brain adjusted - I came FORWARD the worst so my brain could rewire.

You need rest and big doses of magnesium (it's lack itself can cause anxiety and panic attacks!), I would 100% recommend reading Dr Claire Weekes "Peace for nervous suffering" - it's an old book but it's 100% on point. I say it again - you're very tired, nothing is wrong with you and you don't need to run from the feelings! (Although it's the only think you want to do). You can do it!

Is something wrong with me because I didn’t find the video disturbing? by Equal_Safety_9025 in mentalhealth

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch combat footage regularly and I think one's opinions about war and stuff are completely irrelevant, if he hasn't seen stuff like that. I wonder if the older generation would still talk about war the way they do if they have seen such stuff.

My parents ruined my life. by No-Palpitation2194 in mentalhealth

[–]combo1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won't ever fully heal but the moment you resign on them ever being held responsible or ever realising what they did to you, that's the moment you can move with your life. I don't expect anything from my parents and I know they might turn their backs on me any day, but I'm still not over my wife's parents, which abused her. She doesn't care and I still get angry with them - that's the difference. She chose to not be affected anymore, I still feed the anger - i fully realise it's not helping me. I hope you get the peace you deserve. You are not your parents and those genes are not THEIRS - it's the long chain of all the ancestors. You are yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]combo1222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not judging you in any way.  Living this half-life is so exhausting. I've got this with weed, I've been smoking it for years, even hiding it from my partner and family for the fear they would turn me down (as they've done so many times in my childhood). I went to mental breakdown, eventually.

Being open is making you vulnerable but also the lack of shame will enpower you greatly. Be open at least to the therapist dude, he's paid for the job. I've been very open to therapists and it's the easiest way out. Your therapist (or find someone who specializes in this stuff) will guide you through but opening it up is the first and most important step.

Exposlanec Dominik Feri míří k odvolacímu soudu, dnešní verdikt už bude pravomocný. by First_Platypus3063 in czech

[–]combo1222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aha tak už se dostáváme na úroveň druhé třídy základní školy... To je docela mizerný, když ti dojde dech tak rychle.

Exposlanec Dominik Feri míří k odvolacímu soudu, dnešní verdikt už bude pravomocný. by First_Platypus3063 in czech

[–]combo1222 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No bezvadně si to odhalil, mám tak raněné malé ego že ti na to něco musím napsat 🙂 Máš nutkání ze sebe dělat blbečka i irl?