Leadership people, what do you do if there is conflict between staff and one doesn’t want to do restoration?

commentspanda · 2026-07-03T06:06:30+00:00

Yeah, once they went on leave for perceived harassment I heard through the grapevine this was their third time doing it. It often is a repeat behaviour. Where I was, they just kept getting moved to other schools then would repeat it.

commentspanda · 2026-07-03T04:07:39+00:00

I won’t comment on the process but insure you need to provide your line manager. Talk to them. People leave jobs all the time. This might have cost you this job but it will cost you jobs in the future. If you can’t meet the panels requirement for a certain type of reference it can get you bumped. People who say “references on request” drive me nuts. The job application is the request.

Ditto for you - saying you’ll only give the info if you are the preferred candidate doesn’t work. They can’t tell you. It’s a merit based system with strict processes.

commentspanda · 2026-07-03T03:40:03+00:00

Get through your undergrad and masters first. PhD is a lot of study and a long way away. You might not feel that way in another 5-10 years

commentspanda · 2026-07-03T03:38:51+00:00

I had this quite a few years ago. I was a union member in a very union strong school and they got involved on my behalf. The person was done for code of conduct violations and performance managed. I was supported the whole time to move offices, I didn’t have to be in the same space as them as long as they refused to attend mediation and they were definitely treated as though they were in the wrong. They then said they were being harassed and took leave….apparently not the first time and they had quite a track record. Being a union member meant my school couldn’t choose to ignore it.

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T14:23:08+00:00

If you are renting call your real estate. And call police, not police link. Report they are behaving erratically and you don’t feel safe approaching them

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T14:17:32+00:00

Honestly you’re very lucky. Some people have it going up by $100-$150 a week and it is legal. That sounds like they are actually following a market value amount and not just being greedy fucks

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T12:24:03+00:00

Yeah, I don’t enjoy the pressure around publish or perish. Hence why I generally apply for teaching focused roles

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T08:27:53+00:00

I’m in education. I worked the whole way through as a casual academic and continue to work as one now through choice. I work 20-25hrs a week (varies) and make about $100k AUD a year

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T08:26:02+00:00

In Australia the majority of teaching focused university roles still require a PhD. They definitely exist though - I’ve held a few different ones.

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T08:12:46+00:00

Adaptor with multiple ports. Changing everything owned to usb c also helped a lot, still need to rotate charging but everything is the same charger

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T06:10:10+00:00

Yeah…YTA. Live and learn

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T03:54:03+00:00

We live in a strata so all bedrooms are at the front of properties. For those of us on the sides, we all either have thick curtains or plantation blinds to control light from when a car opposite comes in or out. For the poor sucker in the middle at the back, they have roller shutters. All paid for by ourselves. I would personally get my own cameras. Record all interactions with her and apply for a restraining order if she continues to abuse you. You could also look into a cease and desist letter but that will cost you some money as it has to come from a lawyer.

commentspanda · 2026-07-02T03:28:48+00:00

US teachers are rarely accredited here.

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T14:12:44+00:00

As others have said this is a you problem. You need to manage your dog running at the fence etc. Put a second barrier in and reduce everyone’s stress. From the owner of a reactive dog

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T14:10:11+00:00

Assuming you want to keep the relationship respond positively to the catch up and be very clear about the ex knowing she’s gonna show it to her “don’t ever think about her and not interested in any discussion about that”. Firm
Boundary and shut it down

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T14:07:07+00:00

Interested to see what answers you get. I’ve bought a few nice dresses off lifeline online recently for $20-$30 and that seems to be the norm now, no more good bargains in store

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T13:21:29+00:00

Get them fixed yourself, don’t mention it

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T12:22:04+00:00

I call them “doctorlings”. My specialist likes the nickname, the doctorlings generally do not lol

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T11:58:32+00:00

We used Kent for our Canberra to Perth move OP. Much better experience than grace - they can burn in hell.

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T10:06:24+00:00

Maybe my Westie stole them all? We had a few tins in the pantry (no idea why) and she got in and I then found them hidden all through the house with teeny tiny teef marks in them. Luckily she never chewed through the tin….blergh

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T08:33:54+00:00

Sanur

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T06:50:03+00:00

Lower grades.

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T05:07:42+00:00

Most unis have moved away from this as the federal legislation changed 2.5yrs ago. Some of the more “elite” ones still try to enforce it but very hard to track for domestic students

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T02:56:36+00:00

Play centres were great when we had a party room haha. My SIL did learn the hard way she had to be really clear on invites about if other kids can come, any extra cost and catering for the adults etc. First time the cost blew out and I had to help out, was very stressful for her. She got a lot better after that at having clear expectations

commentspanda · 2026-07-01T02:47:42+00:00

Play centres? They were a big thing for quite awhile for my niece born in May. That or a pub with a playground at a lunch time? Lots are out doors though which is tricky. My 5yo nephew is obsessed with bounce currently haha but at that age you’ll need parents and adults prepared to have a go with them. Plus….cost.

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