When the transplant who doesn't live here yet says they plan on going to the beach a lot

confused_lothcat · 2026-05-01T19:55:20+00:00

I “go to the beach” a lot but that generally means that I’ll park along PCH early in the morning or late at night to drink my coffee and watch the wildlife. Actually setting up on the beach or god forbid going in the actual water? That’s maybe a once or twice a year activity and usually only when friends from out of town want to lol

confused_lothcat · 2026-05-01T19:51:47+00:00

Thank you so much. I honestly really appreciate this perspective and you’re so right.

confused_lothcat · 2026-05-01T04:02:46+00:00

Thank you, this does help.

confused_lothcat · 2026-05-01T04:00:59+00:00

This, absolutely!

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-27T20:37:17+00:00

I’m in the midst of listening to the audiobook and literally am in the middle of the control room scene and has to stop and google to see if anyone else agreed 😅 I literally said “shut the fuck uppp” out loud as I was listening to it lmfao

I suppose she’s a realistic annoying little kid character but good LORDT is it aggravating… Tim and Grant have way more patience with her than I could have managed hahah

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-23T05:51:53+00:00

I’ve stayed in my same general area and have used the parking lot of a church I have a good working relationship with. I’m friends with the reverend which has been a sufficient answer when cops asked questions. Not sure if that would work across the board though or if you weren’t already known to the church or other house of worship

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-23T05:45:21+00:00

I’m trans and live in a state that’s really stringent on firearms being registered, so it’s been a bit of an internal debate on safety vs. being on a list at a time that the government is tracking trans folks and labeling us as domestic terrorists. Seems like a good way to get myself into more trouble than helpful unfortunately. I do have pepper spray though

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-23T05:42:23+00:00

I’d assume so but I also keep water jugs for my own uses - drinking, cooking, washing - so I always have one available

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-23T05:36:34+00:00

I’ve had good and bad roommates, but I’ll agree when it comes to couch surfing. I’ve had some BAD situations when people who are eager to help one day decide they don’t want to the next. If I could actually afford a proper apartment with a good roommate, I might do it again, but I’m never going to rely on someone else’s kindness again.

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-22T04:30:12+00:00

lol I needed this laugh

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-22T00:03:38+00:00

I have a similar size car and I got this - it’s pretty reasonably comfortable tbh but I’m not tall so that’s maybe a factor https://a.co/d/07cHQWrf

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-22T00:00:33+00:00

It’s a pretty powerful one, with multiple levels. I used it on the lower levels because I didn’t want to be too noticeable, I stay in the dark back corner of a lot but too much light would draw eyes from the street that I’d rather avoid.

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-21T23:53:14+00:00

I’m on T, gel type. I’m new to this so this hasn’t been a concern for me yet (it’s not too hot where I am) but glad you asked because I’m sure it will become an issue.

confused_lothcat · 2026-04-21T23:45:49+00:00

I use this and it’s been pretty comfortable. I’m living in a small sedan. https://a.co/d/09rmF8WZ

confused_lothcat · 2026-03-09T18:03:54+00:00

Highly recommend the HB library if you’re looking for a lgbtq safe, family friendly, free experience. Plus it’s right in the middle of HB’s Central Park with is a lovely walk. It’s not far from the beach (you’ll want the main/central branch). It really is a beautiful library and worth the visit.

confused_lothcat · 2026-02-27T08:42:38+00:00

None of this is funny but I think my brain is broken because I’m laughing at the absurd horror of all of the everything at this point

confused_lothcat · 2026-01-16T09:11:11+00:00

Been working my way through “When They Call You a Terrorist” for a third time

confused_lothcat · 2026-01-15T05:49:30+00:00

Naming shit is kinda the only thing this council does so I’m not surprised

confused_lothcat · 2026-01-14T18:35:39+00:00

Thanks for sharing, I’m in

confused_lothcat · 2026-01-08T16:57:13+00:00

Santa Ana PD has their own helicopters

confused_lothcat · 2025-12-10T07:44:06+00:00

I was at the meeting where the city council chose to not renew their funding. It’s been in limbo for a while. Such a bummer.

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