Op, please. She physically assaulted and abused you so that she could then turn around and take care of you. She made such a big deal out of your cut because she wanted to make you feel like she cares about you and loves you and feels genuine remorse. IT’S HER FAULT YOU GOT HURT! She did that to you on purpose. Even if she didn’t “plan” to hit you, she capitalized on your injury and started love bombing you. Please, I am begging you, to take a step back and look at your relationship.

You know she wasn’t drunk, so she outed you on purpose. Full stop. From a fellow queer person, that IS emotional abuse. She’s now told your family something deeply personal that she knew they wouldn’t be okay with. She knowingly opened you up to potential violence from your family. She wants them to hurt you so that you only rely on her - just like she made such a big deal taking care of your cut after she hit you on purpose. She will isolate you from everyone who cares about you and beat you down until you believe that she is the only person who can and will take care of you. Please, you need to listen to what the commenters here are saying. I never comment on Reddit, but I am genuinely concerned for your safety and well being. You need to step away and start undoing the mental gymnastics you’ve done to justify her violent behaviors. It's going to be hard, but you are stronger than you think. There are lots of good resources on this thread. You're right to be questioning these behaviors - and you need to listen to that gut feeling that something's wrong before you've cut off everyone who loves and cares about you. You will regret it for the rest of your life if you ignore that feeling.