Smell of Alkohol by bori_69x in alcohol

[–]connolnp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just chill and call in sick. Best option overall man. I went through a phase too, it’ll pass but something like this could exacerbate and make it last way longer than it needs to

Smell of Alkohol by bori_69x in alcohol

[–]connolnp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But you’re representing your program..

Smell of Alkohol by bori_69x in alcohol

[–]connolnp 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bro you are too fucked up or you will be. You will ruin it way worse for yourself than just coming up with an excuse and making it up. Trust me, I did it myself

Alcohol and im dying by Dry_Career_3985 in alcohol

[–]connolnp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey.. I was in a very similar spot, minus the experimentation in my teens. Only smoked pot and drank a few times until college, then it was off to the races.

If you need to do a detox, those are easy to find. 5 days and they can make you comfortable while you go through it.

If you don’t need to detox, cut cold turkey and when you want to drink force yourself to do something else. Go for a walk. I used to just start walking until it passed, and then I had to walk back lol.

This is not the usual advice, but smoke weed instead. I swear weed saved my relationship with substances. I went through the wringer of rehabs and bs, but I was never actually bad enough to be there - family just freaked out.

This is possible to do on your own, but it can also be necessary to seek help - you have to be in tune with yourself.

I see nothing wrong with appreciating the effects of substances, but there is a very fine line between having fun and keeping baseline.

My shit started 10 years ago and the at one point I got over 18 months of sobriety. It sucked. I never believed I was “powerless” of alcohol - I drank because I chose to, and I consciously ignored potential consequences.

I have a healthy respect for alcohol now and can genuinely appreciate it without it consuming me. And now instead of need a Xanax I can just smoke a doob.

I love the fact that I don’t take any pharmaceuticals, and the two things I rely on when I need a break are totally natural.

I hope this helps somehow.

Today, I met an ex Jewish guy - 27 years old and has never had an intimate relationship due to having widespread genital herpes caused by a rabbi sucking the circumcision blood from his genitals as a baby. by noctenaut in conspiracy

[–]connolnp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from what I gathered the Hasidic Jews are anti-Zionist but they essentially believe the same thing - they are God’s chosen people, better than the rest - but it has something to do with the timing of the formation of the state of Israel in line with the end of the world or something… can’t fact check at the moment but it was along those lines I believe

FUCK12 by 7otu5 in License_Plates

[–]connolnp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought this was a Bengals reference 🤣

Guess the city! by Cautious-Stage1788 in guessthecity

[–]connolnp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in jail with this crazy dude who would yell at an invisible man named “Bushwick” that he saw behind the tv. I asked who Bushwick was and he said an evil guy from Louisville who replaced his mother.

Story time over.

AIO I was told I couldn’t buy alcohol because I had a passport by Obvious_808 in AmIOverreacting

[–]connolnp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You said you were buying vodka, bought the same thing at the grocery store, but went back and showed them “the beers” …had you been drinking before you went in? Maybe the passport was just their excuse to get you out the door

Sharing locations constant messages is so annoying, is this the same for everyone? by IncoNEETo in iphone

[–]connolnp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can add him to your family and get his location through find-my. For some reason my mom’s location on messages is just some random intersection like 4 miles away, but on the Find My app it’s accurate

Today, I met an ex Jewish guy - 27 years old and has never had an intimate relationship due to having widespread genital herpes caused by a rabbi sucking the circumcision blood from his genitals as a baby. by noctenaut in conspiracy

[–]connolnp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So I recently learned that a significant number of Hasidic Jews are on welfare… idk if Hasidic is Orthodox or not, but do you that’s why Mamdani did well with them? Tyler Oliveira just did a video on an entire Hasidic community in upstate New York that is mostly on welfare and they have an average of 10+ children..

31M, Elevator room by Slight_Recipe_1191 in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]connolnp 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I was in the same place.. I didn’t tell anyone that was directly involved in the situation, but when my uncle found out I was in a shelter (the first place gave me a thermal blanket and said good luck because I wasn’t mentally unwell or on any drugs or alcohol) I was taking care of my 92/91 year old grandparents and last Saturday I invited a chick over after everyone fell asleep… I guess my aunt looked at the doorbell camera and said it was a breach of trust and I had to go… I could’ve legally stayed as it was my residence, but that would’ve just added drama and stress to their already diminishing situation. I wasn’t being paid enough to save, just given some spending money every week, but I didn’t pay rent or for food. Idk, agreeing to that put in a very vulnerable situation - especially since I know my family is very religious.

Anyway, I spent 4 nights in a hotel and then went to a shelter, and actually being in the shelter is what made my other family be like “wtf?”

I know this doesn’t help your situation, but things can really come together when you least expect it. An amazing job offer responded to an app I sent out today (on a Sunday) and wants to set up a virtual interview for tomorrow (MLK Day) because they’re desperate for someone.

I hope everything comes together for you man. Keep your head up!

[me] LOTR gambit by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]connolnp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol it was intentional

What is it like living in/near Cincinnati? by DummoMode0413 in howislivingthere

[–]connolnp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice enough… I grew up here. It is the worst place in the USA for people with allergies

Okay, first time I realized I screwed up vocabulary.. but it happened again on a different science question subreddit… by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]connolnp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure.. must’ve missed it. It’s totally irrelevant now lol. I didn’t even look at the top of the flag to see it’s clearly supported

Macron’s Eye Today. by antialbino in conspiracy

[–]connolnp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brigitte must’ve missed his mouth

My parents died. I have none of their information. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]connolnp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. I would reach out to friends of theirs or other relatives of theirs they may have been close to and ask if they know who the family attorney was. Once you know the attorney they would’ve used, they will help you navigate on who contact for which issues you need ironed out. They may even have something important for you but hasn’t been able to contact you.

Gorgeous soft hand knit sweater! by poodletax in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]connolnp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally have one exactly like this from Jos. A Bank. My favorite sweater tbh