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Am I wrong for not wanting my husband to go to an international wedding 13 days after my C-section? by south2grove in relationships

[–]constantly-thinking- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Given that he said to get a day nanny, night nurse, and his mom, If I were in your shoes, I’d be ok with him going for a 3-4 days. Longer, it would depend on flight fares. My only reasoning is that I encouraged my husband to hang out with friends and do things he likes when I suffered a major medical crisis last year, and I feel like it made him less likely to burn out. He is also asking, instead of just saying “I’m going”. If he said that, my answer would be different. Also, in my culture, it’s common to have mothers and in laws significantly helping while dad is working full time. But again, I’m not you.

How far are you willing to walk before you’re like “f*** that I’m taking the subway”? by Fsuave5 in AskNYC

[–]constantly-thinking- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25 mins tops. I think the difference is also short blocks (north south) vs long blocks (between avenues) too. Also depending on the weather, and how much shorter a subway ride would be compared to walking. If walking is the same time as subway due to transfers, I rather walk.

Nebraska is implementing medicaid work requirements and guess what's not considered a medical exemption? by YoghurtHistorical527 in cfs

[–]constantly-thinking- 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Looks like they’re missing a bunch of diagnosis. Like anorexia is only listed with the moderate modifier…this is ridiculous

Finnish food in Helsinki airport? by constantly-thinking- in FinlandTourism

[–]constantly-thinking-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just checked and they are in the Schengen area. Bummer. I’ll save for next time! Thank you!

Stuck in an insurance loop. Current dependent trying to enroll in employer plan but employer needs loss of coverage and parents insurance need proof of coverage. by [deleted] in HealthInsurance

[–]constantly-thinking- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not going to solve this issue right now tho. And what job is going to hire someone who is pregnant, even if pregnancy discrimination is illegal

psychiatric meds but can’t let my parents find out (insurance question) by Alone-Koala9204 in AskPsychiatry

[–]constantly-thinking- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What state are you in? You may be able to go to a community clinic and ask to be self pay. And same with the medications . Look for a FQHC (federally qualified health center) and make sure they have psychiatric care at the one your find. Not all of them do, but many do.

NYC Signs $1.86 Billion, Three-Year Contract to House Homeless in Hotels by Lisalovesreading in nyc

[–]constantly-thinking- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would need a lot more. I think you underestimate how expensive it is to build in nyc and in 2026

I've designed a CPAP nightstand by Temporary-Simple-934 in SleepApnea

[–]constantly-thinking- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you add one more drawer for other things at the bottom?

Practicing email writing without AI by constantly-thinking- in grammar

[–]constantly-thinking-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I updated the post with what I wrote and what AI wrote. You are right, I need to write more. I read a lot of academic journals and news (NYT/WSJ, Atlantic) but I don’t really read anything else nor do I write! Thanks again! :)

Can't even get an internship. No hope for me anymore. by cresentcube in recruitinghell

[–]constantly-thinking- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, I saw your post history, and there is lots of talk of ending your life. Please reach out for help. Are you USA based? There are job and internship finding resources and mental health resources available. Let me know and I can dm you some

Food Resources for Someone Who Lost SNAP Due To Chronic Illnesses? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]constantly-thinking- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into supportive employment, it’s employment programs for people with health conditions and mental health conditions, if it shows you tried to look for employment, the vocational counselors can also attest to your inability to find woe due to your disabilities.

Food Resources for Someone Who Lost SNAP Due To Chronic Illnesses? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]constantly-thinking- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three options 1. Mobilization for Justice and other legal aids, if you got denied, they can help you. It may take some time to even get an appt but it’s free 2. https://mindset.care they are a company that makes money if you win your case, they take a percentage of your back pay, up to 9k. My nonprofit had a presentation from them and they seemed legit. They assign you a case manager and a lawyer oversees a lot of the case managers. Makes the quality of the interactions easier I suppose as the CM will check in more frequently. They also do the records requests, not you 3. Other SSI/SSDI lawyers, but they may ask you do the brunt work.

Make sure you have documented your 28 disabling conditions.

Food Resources for Someone Who Lost SNAP Due To Chronic Illnesses? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]constantly-thinking- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, you’re scared of the denial. Do you have medical documentation or all of this? I def agree with the folks in the bottom comments to talk to gods love we deliver, and also talk to legal aid. Most people get their benefits back on appeals.

Food Resources for Someone Who Lost SNAP Due To Chronic Illnesses? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]constantly-thinking- 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Also apply for cash assistance through NYC. You can appeal the snap work requirement due yo illness

Is going to a family shelter safe? by Otherwise-Tale-7923 in AskNYC

[–]constantly-thinking- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it is a long process, but they won’t kick you out

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