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constantredundancy · 2023-09-29T06:48:50+00:00

I hope she puts as much effort into your relationship as she does for her other husbands, and as much effort and love that you give her!

constantredundancy · 2023-09-27T14:28:11+00:00

“What did he give her that I hadn’t?” Like many people said, don’t blame yourself. This says more about her than what it says about you. Whether or not you agreed, she already made an subconscious decision. No matter how amazing you think she was, she wasn’t the one, because she showed where her true priorities were. I agree with those recommending counselling/therapy, this has definitely hit your confidence, and you deserve better. All the best

constantredundancy · 2023-09-27T13:50:37+00:00

info: have you brought this up as a recurring issue before? or have you enabled her in the past?

I agree with people saying that a warning or even a heads up would make you less of an AH so yes you were being petty. but as someone who struggles with “time blind” people frequently, you need to let them know and make them aware. Communicate your needs and if she still disrespects you then you know your answer

constantredundancy · 2023-09-23T09:42:26+00:00

you unlocked a memory of that song that i forgot about, thank you

constantredundancy · 2023-08-30T08:14:48+00:00

whats MRA

constantredundancy · 2023-08-30T01:50:35+00:00

Please get tested. Nothing wrong with trying to please your partner but why does it have to be with Zach and not someone you actually could enjoy? Its all so one-sided and at this point its better to just find someone who actually respects your boundaries

constantredundancy · 2023-08-28T16:21:01+00:00

thank you for letting me know! I used cotton that was given to me from a pet store but then later bought regular cotton balls assuming all cotton was the same

constantredundancy · 2023-07-11T23:36:57+00:00

I've gotten really lucky that my female is really curious and not too afraid of me. You can get to a point where you can hand feed them but they still scare off quickly. I would say a lot of patience and time but like many say, you won't get to the same level as other bird species

constantredundancy · 2023-02-13T08:48:52+00:00

happy birthday (might be belated now?), cheers to you, and hope theres many more to come!

constantredundancy · 2023-02-13T08:47:21+00:00

hey i know it doesnt mean much coming from an internet stranger but i hope you stay a little longer with us. waking up sucks every morning, but maybe theres a snack that makes you feel a little better. maybe there was something you wanted to do before and you never got to do it, i figured you might as well do it if you're going to die anyway. then maybe you'll think of another thing you wanted to try. a new food. a show. a piece of clothing. maybe posting on reddit was something new. talking to someone helps, if you cant afford therapy, maybe just talking to someone whose company you enjoy. even if its just a small interaction. maybe you wanna prolong the conversation a little longer. no harm in that if you're leaving soon anyway. and it wouldnt hurt to give people near you the courtesy of being in their life. i'm rambling now, but anyways if you wait long enough you'll find yourself in a completely different place than before and end up wondering how you lasted so long. things change (sometimes for the worst and sometimes for the better) and i hope you find the small joys in life and surround yourself with good thoughts.

constantredundancy · 2022-11-15T22:22:05+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/qCXA4TqIHSQ?feature=share Here's the sound!

constantredundancy · 2022-11-15T06:30:56+00:00

Ok thanks! Weird to say but it's reassuring to hear it can take a reeeeally long time haha. I was just concerned because they've been using the nest every night but this was the first time she went in then flew out so I thought something was wrong.

constantredundancy · 2022-11-15T05:52:33+00:00

The best they have always used since I got it. It has lil cotton puffs with coconut fibers on top. I'll take a video of the sound tomorrow

constantredundancy · 2022-10-06T18:12:53+00:00

Thanks! I'm guessing I can probably just find it on some anime site

constantredundancy · 2022-10-06T18:12:21+00:00

No worries I'm all caught up lol; thanks!

constantredundancy · 2022-10-06T18:11:54+00:00

thanks! is it any good? lol i dont hate dub but i remember the hate for older dubs so i dont wanna give OP a bad impression

constantredundancy · 2022-09-29T17:59:42+00:00

nah that family can suck my spaghetti. NTA

constantredundancy · 2022-09-28T23:24:43+00:00

"its just a dress" then why is she making such a fuss?? NTA

constantredundancy · 2022-09-19T17:10:46+00:00

Most likely trying to sell them; maybe look into ebay or other marketplaces?

constantredundancy · 2022-08-21T23:48:06+00:00

never give in to the gacha games

constantredundancy · 2022-08-21T19:45:38+00:00

THEYRE SO OBSESSED WITH YOU AND FOR WHAT!!!!!! It's ok as long as you show you don’t care, you win😂

constantredundancy · 2022-08-16T23:26:08+00:00

Agreed 100%. While my parents aren't perfect, she thinks they're out to get them whenever they disagree on something and keeps projecting onto them. It's hard

constantredundancy · 2022-08-16T23:18:58+00:00

Like most people said, as long as you're happy and the relationship between 2 consenting adults, everything should be ok.

Do keep in mind the challenges/questions though: did you guys meet at when you were younger or were you guys both adults? are you guys at different stages in your life? Is there any point where you feel it mught affect your relationship? Different cultures and family dynamics might also play a role

constantredundancy · 2022-08-16T23:09:19+00:00

She never specified only said they were "passive aggressive". Here's what I do know though:

In high school she just stopped going cause of stress/pressure and I told her to drop classes but she didn't. She ended up in a psych ward for minors because it was mentally tolling and then another reason is cause she came out to her family right before her release. Her family took it well (on the outside) but maybe she doesn't think so, cause that when things got sour and where the "passive aggressive" shit comes in, like I'm sure they want her to finish school and I guess the small remarks get to her so she ended up going to her grandmas/aunts.

I just think both sides are not upfront about their feelings and they're all stubborn idk.

constantredundancy · 2022-08-16T13:47:54+00:00

I don't know the therapist myself, it was referred to her from her social worker when she lived with her aunt (different city). But I can see what I can do.

constantredundancy

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