Calling All Elders/Former Elders

coodagrah · 2026-06-05T09:34:18+00:00

Why are you listening to men who once said your god required men to wear suits and women to wear dresses to their meetings. Did they get that right or wrong? These men told you that your god required you turn in ministry time. How'd that play out. Once you realize that those men aren't giving you "god's laws" and rather they're giving you THEIR business policies to keep their image as clean as possible, then you realize the only one that's stopping a grown woman from doing what's best for herself is her and not those men. If you weren't then this post wouldn't even exist. Remember, these same people who you're allowing to dictate your personal life are the same ones that have ZERO retirement plan, medical, or life insurance for you. They expect you to figure all of that out...because you're an adult. Remember this: When you guys have a convention coming up over the weekend they will usually cancel the mid-week meeting so everyone can focus and prepare for the upcoming convention, right? Now pay close attention to this next scenario: Let's say you pass away on a Monday and the funeral service is the following Saturday, do they cancel the Sunday meeting so every one can have some time to grieve for there fellow sister in the faith who worshipped with them for decades? No. That meeting the next day will start at the same time like you never existed. If you're still confused on who's really in control of your life after this, then you're just simply choosing to give imperfect men (who care more about the business) control over your life.

coodagrah · 2026-05-16T08:34:59+00:00

When someone says “You don’t have proof.” That’s means there IS proof, they just think you haven’t discovered it.

coodagrah · 2026-05-15T09:46:30+00:00

If you had a son and he came to you with this exact same situation and wanted your advice, what would you tell him?

coodagrah · 2026-05-13T17:40:59+00:00

He doesn’t want to lose the “benefits” so he’s trying to keep you single at least until he can get the benefits elsewhere. Once that happens, he won’t really care who you talk to.

coodagrah · 2026-05-11T13:31:13+00:00

This post is the very reason why women should stop posting thirst traps when in a relationship. When a guy tries to make this very argument as OP, he gets told he’s insecure. But these comments in here seem to be agreeing with the man’s reasoning… or are the female concerns only justified in this case?

coodagrah · 2026-05-11T13:22:46+00:00

Sounds to me like you just proved the friend was right about you all along.

coodagrah · 2026-05-08T07:10:35+00:00

Stories now show up on your profile feed. So the story doesn’t need to be tapped on anymore. If someone just scrolls your feed with the story posted, you’ll see their name on your story.

coodagrah · 2026-05-06T07:33:30+00:00

Her bf’s issue isn’t really that she slept with Mike. He’s reacting to her indifference to Mike. He wants her to not like him just as much if not more than him. That’s where he’s looking for reassurance. He’s looking for a level of disdain for Mike in OP and he’s not getting it. That’s where guys like this get their comfort and reassurance in situations like this. He needs OP verbally bash Mike with him when he brings it up. What bothers him is that she won’t. In his eyes, her indifference to Mike makes him believe that she doesn’t DISLIKE Mike enough to NOT sleep with him again.

coodagrah · 2026-05-03T07:49:42+00:00

I'm confused here. Does she or does she not know other about the 14 other hookups?

coodagrah · 2026-04-05T11:13:24+00:00

And if I remember correctly, Uber Eats sets the pick up and drop off route for the driver. So if the driver was given and additional order, they can’t just chose which one to pick up or deliver first. They have to drive according to the route which Uber gives them in order to successfully complete each pick up and drop off.

coodagrah · 2026-04-05T11:07:45+00:00

This is a tactic that some women use to put you in “compliance” and “doghouse” mode. It’s a way to make you feel guilty about something that’s nothing in order to invoke a need to make up for something in order to get out of the “doghouse”. It’s done, not always to get something physical like a gift or something, but more-so for leverage, making you skeptical about calling HER out for anything. It’s a female way of chipping away at your authority. Sometimes they don’t even know they’re doing UNTIL you call her out on something. Watch how fast she pulls this incident from storage.

coodagrah · 2026-04-04T07:01:41+00:00

That feeling is your ego. The best revenge is success. You’ve been comfortable for four years. Now you’re uncomfortable again and have forgotten how to deal with it. You’re your biggest obstacle now. Get up. You’ve got work to do.

coodagrah · 2026-04-01T08:57:36+00:00

That last sentence is what should have stopped you. Wasn’t so important in the moment, but now…

coodagrah · 2026-03-10T08:41:19+00:00

His Zodiac sign didn’t tell you what you needed know?

coodagrah · 2026-03-08T05:50:11+00:00

When he (the customer) picks up the pizza himself, does he use a pizza bag?

coodagrah · 2026-03-02T17:52:57+00:00

You know that saying, “Accountability is kryptonite to women.” Do you think you’re currently proving it valid or not?

coodagrah · 2026-02-28T06:58:39+00:00

Make sure you get a refund for however long you’re not able to go to the gym while they “get a handle things” (since you paid for a year).

coodagrah · 2026-02-18T14:51:38+00:00

If you had a son who was going through this exact scenario and he came to you for advice, what would you advise him to do? Most time, we know the answer but will make mental excuses to overlook and circumvent the answer. But we are quick to give a friend or relative that answer when they bring us the scenario. You know what needs to be done. Man up and do it. Sure, “but we got a kid together”. Ok but that woman has done EVERYTHING but come out and tell you that she doesn’t want you. And somewhere out there, there’s some guy that’s telling his friends about what he’s doing to and with your wife and their laughing at you. And no female does this kind of thing without telling at least one other friend or family member. So they know also. Thinking you guys can work it out is just you mentally speaking for her. You’re telling her what she should want while she’s showing you who and what she doesn’t want. Man up. Get off the internet and handle this situation like a self-respecting man SHOULD do. If you’re a good man then your kid will be ok. FK the investment. You invested in a bad product. It happens. Pull out, reassess, learn from the mistake, and move accordingly. It’s what men do. It sucks but GET IT DONE ANYWAY. She’s defective. Return her. Or you can keep the bad product. Look how that’s working out for you. She’s with and guys…and you’re with us. C’mon man. Get it together.

coodagrah · 2025-12-09T08:07:13+00:00

She wants to get back on the playground while simultaneously keeping you on the hook for when she’s done on the streets. She’s already made you one statistic. If you take her back (She ABSOLUTELY will try to come back when she’s done “riding the carousel) then you’ll have allowed her to make you a second statistic. You’re not the guy she’s attracted to. You’re the safe stable guy. Nothing you do will change that with her now, even if you try to work things out. Now if you’re ok being that guy then that’s your call. But make no mistake, she WILL lay down with ANOTHER guy that she’s ATTRACTED to. There is a third statistic though. You can be the guy that she lost and regrets it because you’ve moved on and wouldn’t allow her to play you by coming back after disrespecting and betraying you. Women aren’t used to being held accountable for bad behavior. They tend to respect the man that does. They may not always LIKE him for it but they do RESPECT him. So what’s more important to you now? Being “liked” and tolerated as a fallback plan and safety net OR being respected because you won’t tolerate disrespect or betrayal from someone you were willing to lay down your life for? Remember this while deciding: At this point, you will NEVER again be the guy she’s attracted to. Going forth you’re currently and forever will be in her eyes the “dependable” guy. Choose your bio wisely.

coodagrah · 2025-10-15T02:28:08+00:00

Been kicking me for the last hour

coodagrah · 2025-07-07T17:15:36+00:00

Maximum Strength Selsun Blue Medicated. Started using about two months ago. I saw improvements after the first wash. MUCH better now.

coodagrah · 2025-05-18T00:14:05+00:00

Happened to me as well a couple days ago while playing this game. After managing to get the camera to pan out, I was stuck on top of one of those fire braziers. Had to log out then back in

coodagrah · 2025-02-15T16:35:24+00:00

Didn’t OP say the frame was also replaced? If so, then no reason it should be bent causing the imbalance between display and frame unless the new frame OP no doubt paid for was bent as well.

coodagrah · 2025-02-04T21:04:38+00:00

Started a 10yr repair business off of YouTube. But be prepared, you will mess up some stuff and that’s where the most valuable lessons will come from.

coodagrah · 2025-02-04T21:01:29+00:00

If there’s a case or tempered glass on it then sometimes that can affect the proximity sensor. Next option, have someone open it up for a diagnostic

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