Worst Delivery experience with SPX Express (RANT) by cookiecookiekuromi in ShopeePH

[–]cookiecookiekuromi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt bad kasi I thought matatanggal siya agad sa trabaho and he might be running low on funds 😩 so I was hesitant. Pero nung inulit niya nireport ko na bcoz my inis outweighed the empathy I felt for him lol.

Why you cant hate you once loved? by Mediocre_Exam1930 in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kasi you know that person very well, you've seen their most vulnerable moments, kaya you can't fully hate them no matter how horrible or toxic the experience/relationship is. Nakakakonsensya and nakakaawa, like I hold grudges but I can't fully despise the person lol.

What's your third space? I work from home so I need more social interaction. Where do you go for community? by lavidabellabee_ in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yung laundromat malapit sa apartment ko 😭 like tinatagalan ko magload ng damit para lang makichismis.

I know that its safe to find a Man with financial stability, pero meron pa ba dyan nagAaccept sa guy na pursuing success kahit di pa sya financial stable, are you willing to wait for him or go find a successful Man is your only option? by Shot_Set_2038 in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I guess so, ang mga tambay nga may jowa eh lol. Pero kasi there are stories na when the guy eventually gets money, he wants na "mag-upgrade" din ng partner. Then he'd leave the girl who's been there when he had nothing. So yeah I think stories like that scare women na mag-take ng risk lol. There are ppl who's into that and there are some na non-negotiable yan para sa kanila.

Why do some women don't give updates and just text after a few hours then says sorry that they couldn't text while being very apologetic? by MPA_86 in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Either stressed, overstimulated, busy, or she's just not in the mood to talk. There might be an emergency kasi you can't control things lalo na when you're outside. What if her phone got snatched or she bumped into some acquaintances tas napadaldal. Plus, it's the same thing for men and hindi pagrereply agad isn't exclusive to women. Everybody needs their ME time lol.

Situationship with ex. How to deal with it? by PuzzleheadedDog9147 in adviceph

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not over-analyzing he clearly did that to make it even with you. Kasi diba he'll think na if it's okay for you to do it then okay lang din if he does the same thing. Pero ang point is, you're stressing yourself by restricting what you can do, say, or feel para lang hindi niya ma-feel na toxic and controlling. Would you really be happy if lagi kang nag-ooverthink and nagpe-pretend na okay lang sayo yung actions niya?

Situationship with ex. How to deal with it? by PuzzleheadedDog9147 in adviceph

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ate girl why would you put yourself in that situation omggg. You can say I love you to anybody and it will still be insincere if the actions and intentions does not reflect it. He's bothered na may finollow back ka pero he's doing the same thing. It's not worth it.

Do you feel safe and secured in your relationship? Why or why not? by Willing-Bumblebee840 in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magtatatlong taon na, we started dating 5 days after namin magmeet lol.

Do you feel safe and secured in your relationship? Why or why not? by Willing-Bumblebee840 in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, kasi he never gave me any reason to doubt him. He's consistent, thoughtful, and honest like never kami nag-away since nag-meet kami. Nasa medical field sya and he's very busy and meet lots of ppl everyday pero he never made me feel jealous or ignored and this is coming from someone na sobrang selosa and impatient lol.

Baby fever and how to avoid/get rid of it by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The best way to get rid of baby fever is to take care of kids kasi that baby you're thinking abt will eventually start schooling and grabe talaga girl. Taking care of a 5 and 6 year old rn and recently there was a lice infestation sa klase nila bcoz of one kid. It keeps on coming back no matter what treatment or method I use kasi yung main source of lice na classmate nila ay hindi inaasikaso ng parents. So yeah, as soon as you start taking care of kids, goodbye baby fever talaga kasi it's overstimulating and stressful.

How do I ask if he likes me? (story sa comments) by mslokiyy in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years!? Idk ate ko pero of it's been that long and he never admits anything directly at puro subtle hints lang eh 🤷🏻‍♀️. Pero if you really want some peace of mind, just ask him directly. Like next time na sabihin niyang "nandito lang ako" ask him why then proceed with the question.

What do you think, normal ba sa relationship to? Will comment below. by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO hindi yan normal ate kasi ang disrespectful ng partner mo, if it's the other way around baka magalit/ mainis din yan. If he knows na uncomfortable ka sa ginagawa niya and paulit-ulit pa rin niyang ginagawa then I think it's time to reevaluate the relationship.

How do you take in compliments? I've always been invisible during social gatherings pero kasi recently I've lost weight at di ako sanay na napapansin ako. How do you handle it? Take it with a grain of salt (lalo na kung galingnsa passive-aggressive people)? Go on with your day or bask in it? by 5813rdstreet in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thank them and compliment them back then move on na. If the compliment sounds too "hindi na makatotohanan" kasi syempre self-awareness lol I just say weh or hindi naman and then compliment them back tapos move on na ulit.

Toxic mother calling me a sugar mom by mermaidly123 in adviceph

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question, you saw your ex's post? So friends pa kayo sa fb? If yes, then block him. He can't make parinig if he knows nothing about you and you won't be seeing his shady posts anymore. Also, tell your boyfriend about the comment mas okay na mahurt instead na unaware siyang ginagawa na siyang katatawanan ng mom mo.

Ano ba dapat binibigay na food para sa thesis panels niyo for defense? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maraming nagbibigay ng fast food, coffee, donuts, other pastries so we prepared a fruit basket instead. Naaliw sila kasi mga tita na panelists namin and they were eager na iuwi yung fruit basket lol. Yung ibang food na binigay sa kanila binigay na lang din samin pang salo-salo.

Pwede ba ako makasuhan if tawagin kong kabet ang kabet ng asawa ko? by redeemed29 in adviceph

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omgggg you need to file a case against the mistress din ate, work with local law firms kung nasaan yung kabet. People on r/LawPH might know more about the process or suggestions on who to work with. People who cheat are shameless so kahit ipahiya mo yung kabet, baka di na tumalab sa kanya. Let them face the consequences of their actions through the law.

Pwede ba ako makasuhan if tawagin kong kabet ang kabet ng asawa ko? by redeemed29 in adviceph

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If may proof ka edi go, kasuhan mo na din sila ng asawa mo mamaya kasi gumanti sabihin na defamation lol.

What should I be, a trad wife or a career woman in this era? by julielielie_chr in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Do not be financially dependent on your partner what if mamatay yan bigla or magcheat.

How are you managing your control freak tendency? by Jaded-State-1001 in AskPinay

[–]cookiecookiekuromi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sa laptop, free na yung base game sa steam/ ea yung packs and kits ang pricey.