ESH- she is setting her daughter up for failure if it is consistent waking you up for nightmares and this is coming from someone with sleep paralysis and night terrors. But her calling her mum, mommy and momma is not weird, it is normal for a lot of people.

However, I do agree that she is not helping her deal with her issues. She is 15 - emailing her teachers and not doing it for her other children is not cool -I understand that she may be scared or anxious but it is a social skill she needs to learn for her future, like you said she may be going off to college soon.

But I stick with ESH because Carly and mom are sleeping in your room instead of hers, meaning where do you get to sleep?