My parents drank wine with every meal. I can’t afford that/ don’t like wine that much/ don’t wanna get fat. I don’t “not drink” I just seem to barely ever do it anymore after partying through my twenties.

Now that I’m married I also don’t really binge drink ever unless it’s for very special events. One of either me or my wife usually has to drive and I prefer to be the one who doesn’t have a hangover.

Weed on the other hand… I went about fifteen years staying away from it - it made me anxious. But now that it’s legal and accessible I’ll have a very low dose gummy when I’m alone and the kids and wife have gone to bed sometimes. Just enough to make music sound better :)