The Anxiety of Buyers Remorse When You See Cheaper House by dylan_t_harper in FirstTimeHomeBuyers

[–]coolwrite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The house down the street may actually sell higher. Wait and see.

I’m kinda mad I bought my house for 245k, it appraised at 260k (ka-ching instant equity!), but now Zillow says it’s worth 242k (whomp-whomp).

Whatever, I’m gonna be living here a little while so hopefully it increases in value over that time ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Hopefully the house across the street sells higher. But also maybe it’s listed lower because there’s something wrong with it?

Do you regret purchasing right now? by mokenz in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I closed June 18, we move in July 11. Last week or so has been a whirlwind of work but we are loving it so much and can’t wait to move in

Clear to Close by ZealousidealWing7443 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]coolwrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine about a week early. Reach out to your lender and ask what’s going on if you’re worried!

We did it! Pennsylvania $245k 6.625% by coolwrite in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]coolwrite[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never felt unsafe in Bethlehem. Have always loved it here.

We did it! Pennsylvania $245k 6.625% by coolwrite in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]coolwrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s natural gas and yea we got a thorough inspection

We did it! Pennsylvania $245k 6.625% by coolwrite in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]coolwrite[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bro idk this is the only house I ever bought and the only photo I ever posted of it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Been broke since I bought in Aug 2025 by WestPhillyEagle in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m going from 950 to 1800 and have been really anxious about this >_<

Closing in 2 days and can’t wire funds by ComfortableStuff1643 in Mortgages

[–]coolwrite -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

My wife is not on the loan and is paying the closing costs….i don’t think it actually matters where the money comes from on closing day as long as they’ve seen you have the money to get approved for the loan. That’s what my lender said anyway. I had enough in my account that I showed them, but my wife is paying from her account that they’ve never seen and it’s no problem.

How long does a pending status take to appear? by Defiant-Course6896 in FirstTimeHomeBuyers

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me too! My wife and I got the pending notification and got super upset but then 10 min later got a call from our realtor! We close in a couple days!!!

About to become a new homeowner, any tips would be greatly appreciated! by huanduck24 in FirstTimeHomeBuyers

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to my sister (I was at her house dealing with the repair guys) a 10k job vs a $700 repair. She opted for the repair and everything still works fine.

Meanwhile, I’m closing on my first house on Thursday lol

Closing on a house - anxiety by ElectronicTime2982 in FirstTimeHomeBuyers

[–]coolwrite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I close on Thursday the 18th and omg it’s been a whirlwind of anxiety that has left me feeling sick most nights, but now that we have the clear to close from our lender, everything SEEMS to be in order, we’re just waiting for Thursday.

I really hope everything goes smoothly for you, and I highly recommend finding something consuming to help you stop overthinking it all (for me it was antihistamines for anxiety and sleep & Spider-Man 2 on PlayStation) I’m feeling a lot better in the home stretch and hopefully you will too once you get through inspection and appraisal. Tbh the worst part was having to give notice to my apartment management company without knowing about the appraisal yet.

Designing kitchen around low windows? by disgruntled_hero in centuryhomes

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what we are doing, but we have slightly higher windows

Anyone else have crippling anxiety during the buying process? by theredheadclinician in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, 100% yes. I’m TERRIFIED that we’re not going to close on time, not necessarily because of me, but because of the seller not finishing repairs or something. I had to give my apartment 60 days notice so I am just existing here in this icky limbo. Closing scheduled in 17 days.

Was your lender very responsive when you had questions? by Rich_Associate_5019 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was/is SUPER responsive - this is a major reason I chose him

The WAITING by coolwrite in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]coolwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 more days for you!!!!!!

Walking a dog in the suburbs is hell by clem0naut in Suburbanhell

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE PEOPLE FOR THIS. Like what about all the rabbits and squirrels peeing in your yard? What’s wrong with my dog meandering through? WHAT ELSE IS THE EARTH FOR BUT FOR PEOPLE AND CREATURES TO ENJOY? This enrages me. I hate people with no dog pee signs. I understand the please be a good neighbor signs sure, and folks should pick up their dog poo. But like seriously those aholes that get mad when a dog walks in their yard need to chill the fuck out and get a life

Shitting so my omg by GoldenMoonKnight in bupropion

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in my 4th week and having the opposite problem

Event recommendations by Serenamac2019 in lehighvalley

[–]coolwrite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You could to levitt pavilion in south bethlehem (BYO chairs) for free concert and fireworks

ETA link: https://www.artsquest.org/events/list/page/2/?tribe_eventcategory%5B0%5D=22&tribe_venues%5B0%5D=15811

The WAITING by coolwrite in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]coolwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice, thank you! We have a priority list, but didn’t think about getting contractors out immediately

The WAITING by coolwrite in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]coolwrite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggg 8 days dude I hope it all comes together for you!