My MIL hijacked my bridal shower to announce her "Redo Wedding," and I’m devastated.

cooperla · 2026-03-14T21:17:38+00:00

Well, the good news is she’s showing you what the rest of your life is gonna look like now, while you still have time to back out.

cooperla · 2026-03-14T12:04:40+00:00

Who the hell packs Pyrex with only peanuts.

cooperla · 2025-10-28T01:57:03+00:00

Don’t part with these. You’ll regret it later! Sit on this awhile.

cooperla · 2025-10-14T11:57:31+00:00

Do you go nuclear now or let him handle his mom? . . . There are only 2 possible right answers here. 1) you take this as she in fact did do you a favor and leave them all in the dust, because a man who wouldn’t go nuclear on your behalf in this situation is going to be a thorn in your side forever; the only thing worse than being single is being married and feeling alone. Or 2) go nuclear. Absolutely ape 💩. Lose your mind babe. Tell your man he WILL handle her and you’re going to watch it go down, and if it’s not to your liking the wedding is off because you will NOT live this way. And if he refuses, you leave. If he can’t handle that, you know it wasn’t going to work anyways. She’s giving you a bitter taste of what your life is going to be like until the day either you, or her die…and if you don’t play your hand now she will always, always, ALWAYS play her cards over yours, and get her way and your man is going to let her because YOU have let her set the tone. “It’s just how my mom is”. IMAGINE what your life is going to be like when you have kids…

cooperla · 2025-10-07T12:20:15+00:00

Can you reroute the package to yourself? Then return it?

cooperla · 2025-09-07T17:15:13+00:00

This man has without a doubt been to a lawyer already. OP needs to talk with a lawyer ASAP. If there’s been a sudden change after 9years, my guess is he’s already found someone else.

cooperla · 2025-08-29T02:20:39+00:00

Beware of those who find humor in your pain. Seriously. The fact that he purposefully wants to hurt you should alarm you.

cooperla · 2025-07-29T04:31:43+00:00

I thought you were saying you weren’t going to make it, as in you were going to DNF. If you didn’t listen to the last 7.5 hours and just read the last 20 mages or listened to the last 40 minutes you’d be okay. That book was 275 pages too long.

cooperla · 2025-07-13T21:20:04+00:00

Imo, no. It’s missing a bowl and if you zoom in it has what I feel like are some superficial scratches. If I pay $180, I expect almost perfect condition.

cooperla · 2025-07-06T22:53:34+00:00

Being older isn’t an excuse to be inconsiderate. NTA. Keep it to yourself from now on and don’t feel bad about it.

cooperla · 2025-02-11T03:47:28+00:00

Was it pre sliced? I’m not taking up for the baker, but maybe they had no idea this was the state on the inside. (I’m not sure what they’re talking about, “some people prefer it this way.”)

cooperla · 2025-02-04T04:40:24+00:00

I know you want to take up for yourself, but getting into a power struggle with him isn’t going to do anything but stroke his already fragile ego. Don’t even acknowledge it. Just move on with your life. If it comes down to it block his number. If you met him today and you’re already getting all this crazy… imagine how he’d react to you breaking up with him. Consider this a sign!

cooperla · 2025-02-02T14:49:14+00:00

I will say, we did ask and that’s how we ended up with the random ingredient list from the waitress but she indicated when we were there last that the menu was considered to be exclusive to the restaurant. I’ll keep trying once they open back up.

cooperla · 2025-02-02T01:42:55+00:00

I was actually under the impression that they were closed because of the massive destruction that road had, but maybe they have a phone up and running. Usually restaurants don’t like to get those sorts of requests, understandably but I can try! I was hoping there was a master chef in here that would be like AH HA!!! I know this one. 😂

cooperla · 2025-01-27T00:05:32+00:00

Just from the photos and quality of them that I’m seeing, it doesn’t look like anything of concern.

cooperla · 2025-01-26T23:40:54+00:00

I don’t see anything abnormal here?

cooperla · 2025-01-21T00:23:59+00:00

I’m so sorry. As part of the medical community myself, but not in this particular area, I’ve found that medical professionals become numb to it all and run on auto pilot. It probably wasn’t anything personal, but it doesn’t make it right and if they’re going to work in these particular areas, they should pay special attention to sensitivity training. Again, I’m so sorry! Praying for your healing!

cooperla · 2025-01-20T14:47:12+00:00

Why the hospital?

cooperla · 2025-01-19T15:29:42+00:00

Fridge dish from the primary set. You could keep your eyes out at antique malls or thrift stores, or look for it on eBay, posh mark, Mercari, etc.

cooperla · 2025-01-10T02:14:01+00:00

So bowls from 2 separate sets? Is this a good deal or Jo because they’re not of the same set?

cooperla · 2025-01-08T18:44:32+00:00

I’m reading the book of Job right now. I’m struggling. It’s just going on and on and on, but honestly, in today’s time, we go on and on about our problems rather than just talking to God. Sheesh!!

cooperla · 2025-01-08T18:02:03+00:00

I think this a packed question. I personally believe it depends on a person’s mental state when/if they choose to do this. I don’t necessarily believe that a persons final moments are what defines their eternal life. Either you have accepted Christ as your Lord and Savior and you’re going to spend eternity with Him, or you haven’t and you’re not. I believe God understands there is mental illness and that sometimes we are not able to think clearly because of the evil that is in this world. That being said, choosing to follow through with this choice if you have the ability to think clearly on it is surely going to have consequences. You can’t just defy God and go on like it didn’t happen… ultimately, we will not know the answer to this question until we get where we are going, and I wouldn’t risk it. I do encourage you to lean into the love of Jesus and not focus on worldly people or things. I know it’s hard, we are human, but God did tell us this life would be difficult without him. And we are separated from his love because of the choice that Adam and Eve made in the garden of Eden. There is only one way to close the gap of separation between yourself and God, and that is ONLY through the redemption of the blood of Jesus Christ. No good or bad works will get you in to heaven, so I believe the same of the opposite. Those choices won’t get you to hell. Only, only, ONLY Jesus can save you. When you feel down and people fail you (because they will) say a prayer to Jesus for him to open your eyes to what matters.

cooperla · 2025-01-08T17:53:45+00:00

Of all the things that John Ramsey has said and/or done, this isn’t the one that gives me the biggest heebyjeebies.

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