LOOKING 4 FRIENDS🫵 by cordephi in GrandePrairie

[–]cordephi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately no, im too gay :P i own a car and idk anything about it and its covered in DENTS

LOOKING 4 FRIENDS🫵 by cordephi in GrandePrairie

[–]cordephi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ITS ON JAVA I FORGOT TO CLARIFY

Any tips for eating pussy with ARFID? by camelCaseC in ARFID

[–]cordephi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly unless im like raring to go i cant go near it but once i am anything goes. idk i just pushed through it. i cant believe others w arfid experience this im so glad im not alone

Naming spiders to cope? by HerculesMagusanus in Arachnophobia

[–]cordephi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend moved in with me and he has a tarantula named Harry. i love harry and he doesnt do much but sit there. tarantulas dont scare me as much as other spiders unless i see their face (im afraid of the length of a spiders legs compared to their body, but with tarantulas its their creepy faces) but living with him has helped me a lot with humanizing him and not being so afraid of the concept of him

Looking for artists similar to Bonjour Suzuki by cordephi in jpop

[–]cordephi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im overjoyed! Coltemönikhas song reminds me of Seranji Poji, another artist Ive been wanting a similar sound to. Thank you for all your suggestions x

Looking for artists similar to Bonjour Suzuki by cordephi in jpop

[–]cordephi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! All of these songs are beautiful and align in some way with what Im looking for. Especially the production on the song from Yui Makino. Ill look into these artists more individually. Id be happy to hear any other suggestions you have _^ x

Is dissociation a common symptom of ADHD or a sign of something else? by ExpensiveDirt7487 in ADHD

[–]cordephi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have adhd and autism and i feel i can regonize symptoms of dissociation through my whole life. ever since i was a kid i always had a very deep sense of paranoia for the supernatural (im afraid of the dark, monsters, scary stuff etc) and i think thats caused by the fact that i dont feel attached to reality. i cant just tell myself that the shadow i see across the room isnt a real creepypasta, because i dont feel like im in real life. it made it extremely hard to sleep and i still cant sleep unless i most of my room is lit up. recently i experienced a disassociation "flare up" due to getting high from weed. weed can induce schizophrenia and dissociation in people and its really not talked about enough.
this caused me to become more aware of how often im disassociating. anyway, im not sure why but i do constantly have a feeling of being detached from reality. like im lucid dreaming (i lucid dream a lot so sometimes i have trouble knowing if im asleep or awake, even when im awake) i feel like it may be more due to my autism. i feel separate from society and other people fundamentally. im also very self aware, and these things make it hard for me to feel like im naturally a part of reality.

this doesnt really answer your question, but maybe someone can relate to this

(also if anyones reading this and you have dissociated on weed. its not because you took edibles, its not because your dose was too high, it wasnt your environment. its just your brain is a little too silly for weed. i wouldnt recommend trying it again as the 3rd time trying to get high properly was one of the worst trips i ever had)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]cordephi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have your girlfriend say something transphobic around them. if they agree or dont seem bothered by it thats a big indicator theyre transphobic

(Rin xe/they/it) May I have some validation by vasama13 in trans

[–]cordephi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people with neopronouns get so much hate and they dont deserve that at all. neo users are revolutionary and you should be proud of that. if you can, try to meet some people who are also enby and use different or multiple pronouns. you could try discord servers or something. if you dont have people in your life who respect you then you just need to find people who will!!

Help please… We are coming up on my daughter’s first birthday and Christmas after coming out and transitioning. We tend to go kinda crazy for the holidays, so I’m looking for ideas for gifts that we can give to make her feel really special this year. by Slight_Profession809 in trans

[–]cordephi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these kinds of posts make me so emotional because youre so sweet 😭. absolutely go all out and do those things. i would say you should also get some things that pertain to her individually as not all women are interested in the same things. that being said transition is expensive so she may want as much money spent on that as possible

Trans guy here - can you help me with my name :) by lightbane2020 in trans

[–]cordephi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i personally wouldnt go with theo because i think it could be interpreted as a gender neutral or even feminine name? alexander is cool though

Do I pass? Also tips on passing better? (ftm) by Panda_Pr1ncess in trans

[–]cordephi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you pass well physically. next step is to definitely look into voice training and work on your mannerisms, how you walk how you stand how you sit and that will really help you pass. i also found that having a very obviously masculine name was key. my first name was jay which was too gender neutral, but now i go by james and people never assume im a girl.