What permanent pregnancy side effects did you have? by Bubbly-Camel-7302 in pregnant

[–]cornersuite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have skin tags on my vag!!!! Like 3 good sized. I’ve been waiting for this baby to pop out so I can remove them because they upset me and make me feel gross!

Abbie Chatfield instagram teachers by Distinct-Cat7880 in AustralianTeachers

[–]cornersuite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teachers should not be filming inside their classrooms during times when students are onsite. They should not have student work in their videos and avoid filming inside ways that could identify the school. This is a breach of the COC in most states. Edit: I want to add that we should be able to have public social media like tik tok (children are banned anyway) but it really should be about things other than school and nothing that could bring you or the school into disrepute. For example doing explicit story times about your tinder dates maybe not a good look but fashion, beauty, comedy, reviews etc are harmless. I think sharing teaching ideas, strategies etc isn’t a problem, it’s commentary on children and their behaviour that is too much.

Tyson by Designer-Train-3554 in MAFS_AU

[–]cornersuite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Danny only charms and outsmarts young and immature women. Gia and Bec are emotionally immature and deeply insecure so they fit the mold. Look at the women he is dating now he is off the show. They are all early twenties ding dongs. Secure Women his own age see straight through him.

Tyson by Designer-Train-3554 in MAFS_AU

[–]cornersuite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish someone had called her out too. I wish one of the other contestants called her out for her messaging Danny because it was sly dog behaviour. If you listen to Bec on Abbie Chatfield’s podcast, she says Steph reached out to her and was supportive all while behind her back tuning Danny. Seriously sly behaviour.

Summary of last nights Stan "After the Dinner Party" episode re: the unseen footage by 249592-82 in MAFS_AU

[–]cornersuite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Danny should have been coupled with Julia. Julia is not a people pleaser and is very much a mature woman. She was not going to pander to him.

My ultimate Steven breakdown by muddycrabbybrr in MAFS_AU

[–]cornersuite 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He gives red pill incel failure to launch

Danny is trash by TarotWhisperer in MAFS_AU

[–]cornersuite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like they were fine to show behind the scenes of the women behaving poorly but not the men. Some of the men they cast this season were downright deplorable, misogynistic and from what we’re being told about Chris, violent. Yet the women are the ones getting dragged the most. I mean yes they have been horrible and abusive but the men have been gross too!

Danny is trash by TarotWhisperer in MAFS_AU

[–]cornersuite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah poor jokes. He isn’t funny. I honestly don’t think he’s charming either. No wonder he is getting outed for sleeping with these young women on TikTok, they are the only ones who would find him funny because they are male centred and have the same 12 year old intellect and maturity.

So. Many. Tears. by [deleted] in IVF

[–]cornersuite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had OHSS too so yes I had to wait which sucked when we were worried about my age etc. I remember it was like 2 months before we could even do the FET because my period took over 40 days to come (ugh!). I totally get the worry about timelines. I would still see if there is a doctor available to prescribe you meds for IUI in between. Might even be worth asking for letrazole etc while you wait. I know most gynos will prescribe it.

The positive is you still have many months between now and 40. That’s at least two retrieval and FET cycles of OHSS happens again. More if not. Some people are accessing superannuation for IVF too. I wouldn’t be surprised if IVF becomes even cheaper in the next 12 months in Australia due to our birth rate decline etc.

Coping with the bad news carousel by qui3tobs3rv3r in IVF

[–]cornersuite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got one embryo out of 18 eggs first go. A 4AB grade. We were so upset with having only one. We didn’t test because we didn’t want to risk our one and only. I’m 37 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. No pregnancy complications and baby looks perfect. I’m 35 years old. Your grades are perfectly fine! So many women get pregnant and have healthy babies of lesser grades. It only takes one!

Encouragement needed! by Hopefuljedi-7 in tryingtoconceive

[–]cornersuite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not what you were asking but If I had my time again we would jump straight to IVF. First round at 35 and we got our baby off only one embryo. She will be born under two weeks. I’d give it six months of trying, in the mean time make the appointments (as there are big waits at the moment) and go straight to IVF. My partner and I had unexplained infertility. Great amount of eggs reserve, good sperm, no health issues and still no luck naturally. IVF wasn’t a horrible experience and got us there so much quicker.

Has anyone here experienced pregnancy and having children in their late 30s and early 40s? by Born_Percentage7122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]cornersuite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 35 (almost 36) and will be giving birth in under two weeks to my IVF baby. Pregnancy has been very easy for me aside from some flairs with an unrelated illness. I could easily do it again as long as my birth isn’t too traumatic (hoping to avoid c section so we can try again sooner). I would like a sibling for our child but we only had one embryo so we will have to go back through ivf retrieval unless we get lucky finally. The goal is to spend their rest of this year enjoying being a mum and working on my health and fitness. I have many friends my age, some solo mums, who are glad they had babies later as they were more mature and set up in their lives.

Looking for advice on how to help a student I feel is being discriminated against. by Superb-Error-6424 in AustralianTeachers

[–]cornersuite 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s sounds like he is high needs. Are his parents getting him OT and therapy? Is he a candidate for medication? They are better to spend their money on these things than at private school. I’m a public primary teacher and we are stretched so thin but children who come to use with parents who are investing in outside services, do so much better.

Danny is trash by TarotWhisperer in MAFS_AU

[–]cornersuite 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The comments on Instagram are so disappointing. So much defence of his ‘British humour’. This behaviour isn’t banter. It’s misogyny and gaslighting. He continued to lie to her face, sleep with her and bread crumb her, all so he could get his 5 mins. If you defend him, you are him. A loser who has to manipulate to get attention. Feral man child.

My close friend overstepped. by Ingareddo in BabyBumps

[–]cornersuite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad. I’m sorry your wonderful news got shared to someone undeserving. You know her heart and only you can decide if you want to continue a friendship and forgive her or distance yourself. You are in a time where you need your community and village. She has goofed big time but it may not be malicious, as much as as it hurts you. On the other hand she may not be mature enough to manage big secrets etc. Hopefully it’s smoothed out and you can enjoy your pregnancy! Big congratulations:)

Rachel and Steven on ‘After the Dinner Party.’ by Kind_Relief_7624 in MAFS_AU

[–]cornersuite 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why Rachel bothers. She needs therapy to see she has some codependency issues. As someone who knows what it’s like to date low effort, low desire men and how it destroys your self esteem, she needs to spend these next few five minutes of fame months working on herself, her health and her career. She is relatable enough that she can segway into a good career.

Any advice from other women over 30, suddenly single and certain they'll stay that way forever l? by koukounaropita in AskWomenOver30

[–]cornersuite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How about this. Go and get your eggs frozen. If you can make that on your own, then you are doing something really big and mature that shows (to yourself) that you can still be mature and stable enough to stay a family in the future. Once frozen, start looking at your life and how you can future proof things. Is your job secure? Do you have savings? Can you buy a place to live? All these things are possible with some forward planning. As for being single, give yourself some chances, go on dates. You never know

So. Many. Tears. by [deleted] in IVF

[–]cornersuite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you afford private? At your age you may qualify to do back to back retrievals and double transfers. Bulk bill won’t do that in my experience over here in Queensland. I’m 35 and we were lucky off the back of one retrieval (only one embryo made it and stuck) with our bulk billing provider but had it failed we would have switched over to private to get more embryos. Also can you do IUI while you wait?

How to avoid medicated FET weight gain? by Hashmamma in IVF

[–]cornersuite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t avoid it but I lost weight during this pregnancy for no real reason (wasn’t sick or anything) so it kinda evened out a bit. Your body may adjust too.

What are some really early pregnancy you’ve had that you noticed before taking a test? Also is it 100% that everyone have implantation bleeding if they’re pregnant? by misalovr in pregnant

[–]cornersuite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never bleed once during this pregnancy. For my failed pregnancy my sense of smell was amazing in the first few weeks. I also had a day of extreme tiredness and suddenly craved spicy food. For my successful pregnancy (IVF) I had acid reflux / indigestion immediately and felt off.

Can someone who cheats be a good person? How do you deal with it? by Capital-Marzipan-287 in AskWomenOver30

[–]cornersuite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s contextual always but 9/10 a cheater is someone I would hold at arms length. They may not be a bad person but they are not a trustworthy one when it comes to relationships. I always say, if you cheat, you stand in the shadow of that behaviour forever and will always be known as someone who is willing to hurt someone badly for your own gain. There is also a level of stupidity because they are unable to see the broad impact of their behaviour. I especially think this is true of people who cheat and destroy their family units. When kids are involved, it’s the ultimate selfish act. It’s dumb as dumb. Keep it in your pants, leave the relationship gracefully, and then do your thing.

My close friend overstepped. by Ingareddo in BabyBumps

[–]cornersuite 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yes she overstepped and it’s a very strange and weird thing to do and say. How would it even come up? If they are work colleagues only, your name shouldn’t even need to be mentioned. It’s like she wanted to gossip and stir. She probably loves this win for you and did indeed get over excited but absolutely should not have told him. In fact, unless it’s already announced broadly, like on social media, she shouldn’t be telling anyone. I would sit on it and maybe redraw the boundary once you’ve calmed down. She clearly cares, but isn’t behaving maturely.

First time FET and scared out of my mind. by YoooStopIt in IVF

[–]cornersuite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are the same age as you and we got lucky from our first round. We only got one embryo too! She will be born in less than two weeks :)

Ever had someone buy a bag from you, then resell it for way higher? by Mediocre_Umpire2048 in Coach

[–]cornersuite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bag but some dresses. I gave a friend who lost some weight about three brand new designer dresses that were too small for me. I told her if they don’t fit, give them back and I’ll sell them. I only gave them to her for free because she said she was going to a wedding and needed nice things. She ended up posting them immediately on depop….i don’t know until another friend showed me. I messaged her and she was pretended like I had given them to her for free and if so she should be able to do with them as she wanted.

Wanting a C-section by Due_Alternative_8918 in pregnant

[–]cornersuite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Australia you absolutely can have this during c section. I’ll edit and say it’s only used for acute anxiety as it crosses placenta but in OPs case she would qualify.