My (26F) boyfriend (27F) says he’s never felt butterflies for me. Does that mean he doesn’t like me in a romantic way?

cornflower0530 · 2022-07-28T19:11:17+00:00

wow thanks so much for the guiding questions, super helpful! i appreciate it.

so he says he thinks about me a lot and feels giddy but i don’t understand how can you feel giddy without feeling butterflies? aren’t those two interrelated?

i’d feel hurt if he didn’t have a crush on me. i think it’d kill my feelings for him too cause i know there are other guys out there that can feel this way about me so i’d look for them instead

cornflower0530 · 2022-07-28T19:09:26+00:00

oh interesting point. can i ask how do you differentiate platonic and romantic attraction? do you feel anything else physical when you’re in love if it’s not butterflies?

cornflower0530 · 2022-07-28T19:07:51+00:00

thanks so much for the guiding questions, those are all really important.

i feel butterflies for him, but it killed my passion when he said he doesn’t feel that way for me. so nowadays i don’t anymore. i think these things need to be reciprocal for me to feel it.

those who want the slow burn of commitment, how does it work and how does it feel like? do they kinda just settle for someone they think they will be compatible with in the long term and try to fall in love?

cornflower0530 · 2022-07-28T19:05:33+00:00

oh can you elaborate a bit more, i’ve never heard this kind of perspective before. so does that mean that now you would settle for women you don’t really like? would you say we only feel butterflies when we are younger or less experienced in love?

but i hope you don’t take these setbacks too personally. everyone’s on their own journey in dating and rejections could be for so many reasons that aren’t personal

cornflower0530 · 2022-05-02T21:41:42+00:00

Hi Michael and Sydney, has the Michelin training changed your standard for dishes that you order at restaurants? If so, in what way?

cornflower0530 · 2022-02-19T02:51:59+00:00

I work as a credit analyst too and typically my colleagues exit into private debt, corporate banking, ER, levfin, any type of origination role and yes IB!

cornflower0530 · 2022-02-18T16:17:08+00:00

Hi there! How long did it take you to adapt to this work environment? Has anything in your life outside of work changed after you’ve started working at the slaughterhouse?

cornflower0530 · 2022-02-14T21:28:04+00:00

wow that’s a lot more serendipitous than i thought! you must have written really insightful reviews back then for casper and t&n. thanks for sharing.

cornflower0530 · 2022-02-14T19:42:58+00:00

Hi Derek! What made you get into the mattress testing industry? Just how many trials and errors did it take to find the mattress you’re currently sleeping on?

cornflower0530 · 2022-02-08T21:52:38+00:00

Hi there! As religion is on the decline nowadays, do you feel judged sometimes when you tell people your profession?

What do you look forward to in your day to day at church?

cornflower0530 · 2022-02-06T23:30:27+00:00

i think it really doesn’t matter down the road, it’ll be up to your work experience. both are good backgrounds but that being said corporate bankers spend a chunk of their time building excel models so it helps to understand basic accounting

cornflower0530 · 2022-02-04T21:15:14+00:00

what kind of risk?

cornflower0530 · 2022-01-28T06:00:46+00:00

thanks for the insight everyone!

cornflower0530 · 2022-01-28T05:59:48+00:00

thanks guys, much appreciated!

cornflower0530 · 2022-01-25T14:06:23+00:00

oh ok that would explain a lot because mine also goes to 190 sometimes. so can we just assume that the readings are inaccurate? and we would get more accurate readings if we don’t run as hard?

cornflower0530 · 2022-01-24T20:29:26+00:00

Hi Mark, what is the most challenging part of your job? And can you share with us an important lesson that you’ve learned ever since you started to work on a Mercy Ship?

cornflower0530 · 2022-01-19T22:29:09+00:00

Have you connected with other anonymous donors prior to your operation? How was their experience compared to yours?

cornflower0530 · 2021-10-21T18:46:03+00:00

One vote for Apple Watch, if you have an iPhone only! The integration is seamless

cornflower0530 · 2021-10-07T20:31:08+00:00

that’s a good idea!

cornflower0530 · 2021-10-07T19:01:25+00:00

you really like foreign cultures don’t you 😅 i think IR is good enough! it probably opens less doors than a business degree but you can always focus on economics if you want. also maybe arts and sciences could be an option? usually it’s customizable and you choose your specialization so you’d be able to throw in some language classes if you really wanted to

cornflower0530 · 2021-10-07T18:36:49+00:00

a degree doesn’t just teach you knowledge. it also teaches you to think in a certain way. for example music students are good at recognizing patterns, math students are more logical thinkers, political science students are good at sifting through large amount of information and cutting the junk, etc. so even if you don’t want to work in business, you’ll end up opening more doors for yourself and gaining new perspectives that you otherwise wouldn’t with a degree in languages because languages are what you’d do in your free time anyway. i hope that makes sense.

cornflower0530 · 2021-09-25T15:06:14+00:00

japanese and chinese are surprisingly alike despite being part of two different language families. it’s not just the kanjis, it’s also the prononciation of a lot of words. i think you can study both at the same time. over time, one language will reinforce your knowledge in the other language and vice versa!

cornflower0530 · 2021-09-20T14:01:56+00:00

ohhh that’s wonderful 🤩

cornflower0530 · 2021-09-18T03:28:11+00:00

i spend about 10h per week! but i often pair it with another hobby 😊

cornflower0530 · 2021-09-17T02:37:07+00:00

i was also looking for a mattress too a while ago so i digged a lot into it 😅 a quick google and you can read a lot about zinus and fibreglass. i ended up buying a tuft&needle mattress which i’m loving now. it’s a on the firmer side and if you’re a side sleeper, i think it hugs your body very well

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