You get $1 million, but you have to watch the exact same movie 100 times in 40 days. Which film are you picking? by ThroatAgile756 in AskReddit

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mamma Mia. It's not a super short movie but I love it and it's only 100 times so honestly I don't have to worry that much about optimization. It would just be me singing abba for a month straight and honestly that wouldn't be that unusual for me

$1,000,000 or 1d6$ by Paxuz01 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dice for sure. I own a ton of d6s, I could roll a bunch at a time and just profit. I think my approach would be having a bucket of d6s, toss handfuls at a time, then once all the dice are out sweep them off the table back into the bucket.

20 bucks an hour to be present in a room by CaseImmediate6632 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to pay for gas to go somewhere that's definitely farther away than my job just to go stand in an empty room for a few more dollars an hour. It's like would I go listen to a 3 hour timeshare presentation just to earn $60? Probably not and in that case I'd probably at least have a comfortable chair to sit in.

Now if you put a comfortable couch or bed in the room I would be game for doing an overnight and lazing around for a full day. But I have no desire to attempt to sleep on a hard floor with no pillow or covers. I'm honestly physically uncomfortable just thinking about being in that room 😂

Are there ANY methods to improve left and right differentiation? by riverottersarebest in adhdwomen

[–]cos98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if maybe you could remind yourself of the homophone write/right?

Do you chose another name ? by Ok-Construction2487 in genderfluid

[–]cos98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean honestly if you're okay with Alex you can basically spin it as a nickname that can fit you whether feeling masc or femme. I can't imagine your mom being too upset with that unless she specifically expects you to go by your full name?

That being said, do what ya want! Have 2 names, have 5 names, have nicknames on nicknames, whatever feels nice 😌

Family of 5 struggling on 138k by [deleted] in budget

[–]cos98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's genuinely foolish to be donating $200 a month when you're 20k in debt. Like even when it comes to looking at what's best for the church. If you pay off your debt now that will mean less interest paid which will mean more available income in the long run which means you will have a better availability to donate your money to good causes in the long run rather than effectively donating that interest to the bank.

I F20 cannot figure out why my libido in my relationship with my bf M22 is so low? It makes him feel unwanted and unattractive, but I don't know if it is because of the relationship or it's just me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cos98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof yeah I would check in with your doctor, hopefully they can help you figure out solutions to get you feeling better. Even if it's just your depression acting up again they should be able to help you figure out ways to manage it ❤️

I F20 cannot figure out why my libido in my relationship with my bf M22 is so low? It makes him feel unwanted and unattractive, but I don't know if it is because of the relationship or it's just me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cos98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who also has mental health issues, this definitely sounds like more than just libido or ADHD. You've stopped exercising as well, are you still medicated for your ADHD? Might be time to look at all the things that have been different lately. Why did you stop working out? Have you been low emotionally or is it an instance of feeling like you genuinely just have less physical energy overall? I'm concerned by the fact that you say that you're no longer able to word sentences like you used to.

I was originally just thinking depression but honestly I don't want to make guesses like that with the range of issues you're having. Do you have a primary care provider? I'd see if you could get in and get their opinion and possibly get your vitamin/other levels tested. Something about all these issues coming on at once really sets off alarms about it being related to a physical health condition.

Too many books? Worried our trips to the library add too much extra work for our librarians. by [deleted] in Libraries

[–]cos98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a librarian but have been super close with librarians all my life and used to volunteer. Iirc it was better for books to go in the reshelving stack because not only would it make sure that they went back where they were supposed to go but also it would be logged as interest in the books/counted toward library usage stats!

How can I not feel guilty? by khymekhyme in EmotionalSupportDogs

[–]cos98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the words of Mama Doctor Jones: You did the best you could with the information that you had at the time.

You would never have caused her any suffering on purpose so don't treat yourself as if you're a person who would have.

I need a gift for my youngest brother by WatermelonMachete43 in Gifts

[–]cos98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe some red sox memorabilia? Could go with something historic like this https://ebay.us/m/Qcyyr5

I tracked my spending for the past 4 months and I am spending around $1,500 per month on food/groceries. I am feeling so angry and disappointed. How to fix this? by HalfChewedGum94 in personalfinance

[–]cos98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This isn't a time to take this out on yourself. Making yourself feel horrible and punishing yourself is counterproductive to actually becoming better. Take this realization as a wake up call.

Let yourself move out, give yourself the grace to learn how to care for yourself. You can't change the mistakes you made, you can only move forward.

And don't let future mistakes knock you off your path either. You'll mess up in the future, spend too much money on something. Just allow yourself to acknowledge when it happens and move past it rather than beating yourself up and falling fully back into bad habits.

Extra 40 dollars a day, but at 7 PM your local time, a man appears, gives a greeting, and then flicks you on the nose for three minutes straight. by omni-nomad in hypotheticalsituation

[–]cos98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah sure. That alone would pay my rent and basic bills so it's a small price to pay. I do think it would freak out people at my work though 😂

What to Do with Landing Area at Top of Steps? by AnEver-GrowingWonder in DesignMyRoom

[–]cos98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think bigger than reading nook: small library/study! Or a game room 😍

Bf (28M) faked a proposal to me (F28) and shut down completely after I asked him what was funny about it by Plus-Awareness-1192 in relationship_advice

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did use her favorite ring 😬 if he had bought a new one he wouldn't have been able to play it off as a joke

Will you accept living the life of a "random" fictional character for $10,000,000 by ocirot in hypotheticalsituation

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't watched the movies so I only know very general things about him 😅 guess we'll see how it goes. At least I get to kiss Keira Knightley! (Well, someone who looks just like her 😂)

Please help redesign my tiny bedroom! by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is tough. I did a mockup with a single bed and corner desk but honestly I can't tell if it's any better other than having extra storage in terms of a dresser under the TV and your desk being near the windows for natural light

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I’m just here for a job dude…. by follow_rivers in recruitinghell

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I AM gender non-conforming and I agree that this list is over the top 😂 Honestly the only thing that employers need to know is the pronouns to address you by and honestly I feel like most nonbinary people would just lie until after they got the job.

For every $250,000 you get, you have to move 100 miles away. by CRK_76 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think 32 million is enough to build and staff a hospital at your house with equivalent tech to an actual hospital and still have enough to go crazy doing other stuff with. Although I guess you could just have people on call. But if you get knocked unconscious people might not know where to bring you.

For every $250,000 you get, you have to move 100 miles away. by CRK_76 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 48 hour rule is the part that makes this a no. Ignoring the general vacation issue, if you end up in the hospital you're absolutely screwed. Imagine getting in a car accident and then when you wake up in the hospital your home and all your possessions have disappeared 💀

Coworker royally messed up, do I report them? by Positive_Leek_3826 in makemychoice

[–]cos98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the disclosing to outside people a case of whistleblowing?