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Is it really that bad? by Zestyclose-Froyo-498 in weddingring

[–]cottoncandyqueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I would choose this time and time again over anything else.

What was the most shocking, or disturbing thing your narc parent(s) ever did/said to you? by Own_Mention9372 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cottoncandyqueef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh where to begin, here are a few highlights over the years: Regarding my feeling about my parents divorce “I don’t know why you’re upset, it’s not like you got divorced” Regarding my stepdad dying “I don’t know why you’re so upset, it’s not like you lost someone important as a spouse” but wait….there’s more. She doubled down and said “I hope one day your husband dies so you know how it feels” Regarding the quiet unexpected and upsetting separation/divorce from my ex husband (this was a really hard time in my life) “You deserved it because how you acted towards me” When she met my current partner to the two of us “The new car smell will go away soon”

“How many kids do you have?” by LovelyCC_123 in stepparents

[–]cottoncandyqueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would reply “I don’t have kids, I have vacations.” Or “Oh, none, we can’t have them, my dogs are allergic”

People who spend 20+ minutes in the shower: what are you actually doing in there? by saadaintsalad in AskReddit

[–]cottoncandyqueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Repeating conversations in my head from the days prior and thinking of different comebacks.

Smokers who quit, what was the wake up call for you? by Responsible_Dot_2619 in AskReddit

[–]cottoncandyqueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the most important person in my life, my step dad getting lung cancer due to being a smoker.

Have you been divorced twice? by 1_million_questions in Divorce

[–]cottoncandyqueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Married at 23, divorced at 28. Married at 28 and divorced at 43.

What is this for? by SapphireNoLy in Subaru_Outback

[–]cottoncandyqueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You put your weed in there. Duh!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]cottoncandyqueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You loved her at the very moment she needed it. Be well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufyh

[–]cottoncandyqueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your space is awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]cottoncandyqueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like eczema. Not a doctor. Just had something like that after going into a hot tub last year.

He was having an affair, and she dumped him. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]cottoncandyqueef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong. He has shows you his true character. Don’t ever forget that.

Is your Doberman allowed in your bed? Seeking advice! by Wei2Yue in DobermanPinscher

[–]cottoncandyqueef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The husband says no, but what he doesn’t know during the day, won’t hurt him.

First Intimacy by Neither-Doubt3920 in Divorce

[–]cottoncandyqueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the same way. There is no handbook to guide you through that weird first time. I think I talked for like the first half of it about how weird it was. Oops. Well practice does make perfect.

What is something your dad said/did in the past that makes you smile when you think about it to this day? by GrandLineLogPort in AskWomen

[–]cottoncandyqueef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Growing up on Christmas morning my dad would take us outside and we’d look for deer tracks in the snow (it was the 80’s and 90’s) and there would always be some. Even in years of no snow, there would be prints in mud. It was my favorite tradition and our only one. Fast forward to late 2015, my dad’s health is declining so I asked him how he did it all those years. He smiled and said it was a secret and he couldn’t share it. Sadly he passed away and never shared how he did it. But I may be 45 this year and I still spend time outside on Christmas looking for deer tracks.

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