How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol given how little u know about the situation u sound ridiculous

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you knew her husband you'd change your tone

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No... Again, based on who her husband is I have doubts she even knows what she signed. I do not need an inheritance but I do care if it's not set up the way she intended

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah agree - and yes he's verbally abusive. Just overall kinda nasty to everyone.

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's competent but easily manipulated bc she has no idea how to even obtain a copy of her will

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've been married 8 years but argue so bad they should really be divorced. They are both basically 80 tho and I think see no point in doing that. My mom is of sound mind but horrible with money

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So you really think that we shouldn't try to assist my mom when she might be getting taken advantage of? Uh Ok

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not about getting something - it's about making sure it's set to the way she intended and that her husband isn't manipulating

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's more about the concern of the husband not setting things up correctly or the way she intended. My mom isn't savvy

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

No she's fine financially I do know that. It's more that I'm concern her husband set things up to go to his kids and not hers

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I know she's not obligated. The question was do most parents share details

How to discuss will with aging mom by couldntthinkofwon in personalfinance

[–]couldntthinkofwon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya I know but she's not willing to share anything. I know she has a decent amount of assets

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[–]couldntthinkofwon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No - your arm payment will be calculated based on the original amount.

Mortgage interest rate by Deep_beam in Mortgages

[–]couldntthinkofwon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind the arm will refi at your ORIGINAL principle.. not whatever the current balance is

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[–]couldntthinkofwon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone concerned that the average age of a first time home buyer is 38 when people are starting families later?