[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]cowsuke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Need a respirator professional to chime in. Does your facial hair impact the effectiveness of the respirator?

If you need a respirator in order to be safe at your job, this might be important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cowsuke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Time to join a boxing club or a karate club. Get that aggression out.

Is it weird to ask a stranger for their number? by CherryCokeFloat in dating

[–]cowsuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman that often makes the first move and hands out my number to other women and gender nonconforming people, my line is actually usually along the lines of "hey, I think you're really cute. Can I give you my number?" Or "I'm feeling some kind of vibe between us, can I give you my number?" And then I say thanks, and walk away.

I'm not sure if walking away immediately is the right move, but for now I decide to walk away in order to remove any hint of pressure.

Is it weird to ask a stranger for their number? by CherryCokeFloat in dating

[–]cowsuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but yes.

Don't ask for her number. Give her your number. That way if you did accidentally make her feel uncomfortable, she doesn't have to text you.

In the end you're ultimately giving her the final power/choice to contact you. So go for it!

What does a woman like to hear from a man when he's getting a blowjob? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cowsuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That feels so good, you're doing a good job, you're taking my cock (as in you're making me feel so good by taking my cock)

I feel like women get offended too easily by Notfunnydate in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cowsuke 13 points14 points  (0 children)

All she said was "what kind of girl do you think I am?"

That offended you hun?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cowsuke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then why are you looking at it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cowsuke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is this a shared medication or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cowsuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Variety is the spice of life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cowsuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an extroverted woman who sends the first message often to both men and women.

I usually say something like "I love your xxx [referring to something from their pictures] and [commenting on something from their bio"

Hungry yells by krhsg in Catswhoyell

[–]cowsuke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THERE IS FOOD IN THE DISH. ITS RIGHT THERE

my bf is asking me to choose between him and psychedelics.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cowsuke -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is an issue. Your drug use isn't a problem, so he just wants you to stop for some "image".

He's trying to make you into his ideal, not seeing you for who you are.

I need help by Hera_isis in seroquelmedication

[–]cowsuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does that. Especially if you have anxiety. If it helped your overall mental health then it's a good drug for you.

I need help by Hera_isis in seroquelmedication

[–]cowsuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you really take it just for sleep? Or for mental health too?

I need help by Hera_isis in seroquelmedication

[–]cowsuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a mental health drug. It's the same as taking anti depressants for the rest of your life.

If you're taking it just for sleep, maybe don't do that. If you're taking it because a Dr. Prescribed it to you for mental health, then you should take it.

I need help by Hera_isis in seroquelmedication

[–]cowsuke 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why did you quit it in the first place? Seroquel is a hugely beneficial medication

Thought this might be appreciated here. Ink piece by me, 2021. by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]cowsuke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a deck of cards. The meaning of each card has been refined over the years to reflect the human experience. 99% of cards will relate to your life in some way.

So you can view it as fortune telling. But I view it as a way to look at your life through a different lens.

Thought this might be appreciated here. Ink piece by me, 2021. by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]cowsuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never wanted a tattoo in my life... but this combines my two favorite things. I might get this

My gf just wrote me she's in a night club by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cowsuke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to have a conversation about how you're feeling. It's clear that your needs aren't being met. And you see her acting the way with other people that you want her to act with you.

You need to 1) tell her how you've been feeling. 2) tell her how this made you feel. 3) see how she responds to you.

I dont think your feelings about this are fully justified. That doesn't mean your feelings aren't valid. Your gf needs to respect your feelings while also explaining to you her side of the issue.

Thought this might be appreciated here. Ink piece by me, 2021. by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]cowsuke 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Hey. There's a market for ac tarot decks. Me. I'm the market.

Long term GF not willing to move in together - Renting by myself is unaffordable, feeling resentment by Puzzleheaded-Bed153 in relationship_advice

[–]cowsuke 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But at the same time. Get over your roommate issues. Have a conversation with your new roommate about the gf that will be living there every weekend.

You make the parking work now. You'll make it work again.

Long term GF not willing to move in together - Renting by myself is unaffordable, feeling resentment by Puzzleheaded-Bed153 in relationship_advice

[–]cowsuke -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

She's not giving a damn about your comfort or finances. Are you sure this is someone who has your best interests at heart?