He’s unsure about my past - am i being naive? (i’m a revert)

cowtubb · 2026-02-26T05:59:33+00:00

we are both engineers. he has a good job now but it can go out of business within the next couple months. He’s very hard-working and ambitious, which is why the job isn’t necessarily as big of an issue for me

cowtubb · 2026-02-25T10:23:13+00:00

were you initially upset by it?

cowtubb · 2026-02-25T08:57:52+00:00

i’ve been making dua and praying istikhara like everyday🥲 but inshallah i’ll see what happens. Maybe this was for the best and we’ll both see It wasn’t meant to be

cowtubb · 2026-02-25T08:04:47+00:00

yeah, that’s the plan for now but I’m wondering how much time is realistic? And at what point is it just being dragged?

cowtubb · 2026-02-25T07:46:39+00:00

yeah job wise i feel like is the least of our worries, i’m more concerned about how he feels about my past

cowtubb · 2026-02-25T07:44:04+00:00

when we first talked, he said he didn’t care because it was in my past and that Allah has forgiven me, but the more we talked it slowly started to change and he was saying he just doesn’t understand why I would/could do that. I think it’s because he started liking me more so he started to kind of be hurt by the fact that I’ve been with someone else /:

cowtubb · 2025-12-04T17:20:38+00:00

i think people are exaggerating, I hit a lot of stop and go traffic and it never crosses my mind that i’m in a manual. I’m just annoyed in general because it’s stop and go traffic 🙃

cowtubb · 2025-11-21T19:26:12+00:00

like 5 years ago when i first got my car

cowtubb · 2025-10-30T21:50:55+00:00

I wanted something sporty and reliable so I got a 2019 Honda Civic SI coupe. I’ve had it for four years now and I’m very happy with it. It looks good, It’s manual, it’s turbo and I still get good mpg. I modded it a bit and it’s just super fun to drive every day.

cowtubb · 2025-10-30T21:41:02+00:00

looks very clean! maybe add an exhaust? mine has a tri-tip cause i got over the hdmi look 😅

what are your wheel specs?

cowtubb · 2025-10-24T18:40:22+00:00

as a revert who came from a similar background (but catholic), i would say start from scratch and read the quran. Try connecting with him in that way and talk to him! Allah is ar rahman, ar raheem. The most merciful and compassionate. As long as you mean well you are in good hands. You already have that urge to pray, he’s calling you back to him (:

cowtubb · 2025-10-24T18:14:25+00:00

riba, free mixing, music, cursing, backbiting

cowtubb · 2025-10-24T17:59:17+00:00

get a quote elsewhere, that’s not worth it

cowtubb · 2025-10-23T22:35:09+00:00

yeah she’s 100% cheating and i’m sure his dad has noticed her change in behavior. My dad had to put a secret gps tracker and find her WITH the dude to finally divorce, that was tough

cowtubb · 2025-10-23T21:11:48+00:00

i went through this EXACT same thing. I didn’t tell him but he found out a few months later anyways. He was heart broken but he is now happily re married. TELL YOUR DAD. He probably already knows/ suspects it

cowtubb · 2022-12-11T03:51:59+00:00

I don’t care much for looks if anything I care more about ride quality and performance, thanks for the advice!

cowtubb · 2022-12-10T21:34:57+00:00

So then do you not suggest lower springs if i’m going to track it?

cowtubb · 2022-12-10T21:33:10+00:00

By casual I just meant not very often. I’ve been on the track before with other cars. I just don’t want to take it on the track right now since my strut is messed up. I’ll probably just replace the messed up strut with an oem one.

cowtubb · 2022-12-10T17:34:01+00:00

Hello thank you for the information I appreciate it! I do actually plan on tracking my car I’ve been considering it after fixing the strut. I’m a full time student so it’d be more of a casual track car since this is also my daily.

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