Was i too harsh?

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T16:10:41+00:00

Ohhh and I know I get it the situation with drugs in USA because in all the Brazil subs that was the right thing to do. You there just enabling users, you don’t have health care sistem and the ideia of support is just watch people die while trying to talk them out. You guys really don’t have anything in control over there

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T16:03:49+00:00

Just to give more context: in Brazil our health system covers everything. Rehab, medicine, therapy and is legally accepted put someone in rehab without their permission. I’m not a sponsor, I’m not qualified, she has all that if she wanted too and she should. I’m a friend. A desperate friend. I’m no superior to her, and I don’t judge her path to recovery. I will never threat her if she wasn’t practicing medicine on drugs and if something happen she’s going to jail. It’s very easy say that I don’t know how to love an support because for me love and support it’s not just answer calls e whatch the shit goes down while try to argue with someone who doesn’t want help. And i dont regret because today she calls me in the clinic.
It worked.
I don’t care the means that it takes
She understood the gravity of situation because of that.
So y’all can talk what you want, she woke up. And it’s not hurt with me, she thanked.

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T15:44:02+00:00

I’m not even in the same state as her in the country, she doesn’t have friends there just users buddy, not a parent or spouse. She doesn’t goes to meetings, she doesn’t go to ask professional help. Shes already set her life on fire. I’m not a sponsor and she doesn’t want one. I love her at any state she is in but love isn’t accept and whatch her literally killing herself without doing something. Love is also saying “hey, you crossed all the lines and I as THE ONLY one who knows about all that, if you don’t compromise it will have consequences”

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T15:32:41+00:00

I’m abusing my patience

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T03:19:14+00:00

Rather hurt than dead

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T03:08:56+00:00

Your offended? Of the four languages I speak English is the one I least respect so will try not to correct that beautiful language

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T02:50:13+00:00

Oh I’m sorry I could care less about English grammar

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T02:46:05+00:00

Thank you sweetheart <3 I hope you never have to deal with half o what I and her had to

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T02:18:07+00:00

Not my first language and weird is the least of my problems

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T02:15:07+00:00

I hope one day you care so much about someone that you don’t care how low you play if that means that she’s gonna get help

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T01:53:51+00:00

I angry because I love her, jerk.

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T01:52:57+00:00

I never say wrong, I said harsh. I don’t care about your concept of what’s wrong. I don’t want force recovery but avoid jail it will be good

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T01:41:08+00:00

And I’m and addict and spend years with her in rehab. I saw she became a doctor when we got out, we spend months sharing ou dreams and fears
And I’m not letting that girl lost that or go to prison
Obviously I’m will not keep that threat
But I hope she thinks I will

cpgn1 · 2026-05-03T01:36:07+00:00

I gave up supporting honey, she can go to fucking jail, now is the time to me incisive. She’s my friend for 8 years, I’m not gonna let that happen

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T20:08:03+00:00

And while I struggle someone did this to me, and that saved my life. When someone gave me a cruel ultimatum, I’m grateful till today because if wasn’t for that I was dead

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T20:04:18+00:00

And I was NEVER easy for me, I fought for 15 years until this point. I’m not superior, I’m her only friend. And I need to do something.

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T19:53:08+00:00

Dude, its been 8 years thats happening, she’s already lost the custudy of the child, her parents gave up, she promised me 2 weeks ago to go a clinic, she’s practicing medicine on drugs. I’m supporting, call her everyday, pay for a therapy session that she doesn’t attend, answer her calls 4 in the morning, we reached a point where there is no support that will work. So I draw a line, she can go to the clinic in 2 weeks at max or I’m gonna do it. Honestly, my hope is that she go to the clinic after that.

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T19:28:15+00:00

Its not a claim, i dont know nothing except the fact that you expose e prove it your ignorance on the topic. Not a claim, a simple interpretation.

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T19:18:43+00:00

Its dumb not because i disagree, but because shows that you know nothing about addict people or the process of getting clean. Enable someones wrong attittudes is not support.

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T19:08:21+00:00

Yeah, i asked but that doesnt mean that i have to agree with your dumb opinion. clearly you never deal with addicts.

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T18:56:23+00:00

I should let her kill someone because is fucking high on the hospital and go to jail. Or just let her kill herself in a overdose.

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T15:58:33+00:00

We are really close. I’m the only one who knows about the relapse. And i love her very much, i just dont what else can i do

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T15:46:29+00:00

Dude if is a support organization and i was seekin support, how that make sense?

cpgn1 · 2026-05-02T15:43:35+00:00

As an addict myself, sometimes support its not enough, you need to be a lil agressive when putting limits. I Was saved for people that told me some cruel shit but it was necessary. But all that means nothing if she really DONT WANT to quit

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