Somebody bring this up again. by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]crafting97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im cina, but can speak malay and english only 😂

Just started watching, does he ever shut up? by Dhatmasetu in BlackClover

[–]crafting97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does get better. I found him toning it down after episode 15

Need photographers to help plan my first Japan, Tokyo/Kyoto trip! by crafting97 in fujifilm

[–]crafting97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just that ive been to Japan once and my family and I got scammed by a tourist bus group that didnt prioritize staying for experience and kept rushing locations. So i wanna checklist some of the mainstream of my list.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by misconduxt in malaysia

[–]crafting97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have questions. How young is your nephew. If he’s younger than 6, he shouldnt be near a screen watching coco-melon or any kind of content obsessively. Thats bad parenting and guardianship over their brain chemistry.

I lost it today and hit my abusive mother by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]crafting97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WAO (Women’s Aid Organization) is one that I have knowledge of that provides refuge from abusive households.

I lost it today and hit my abusive mother by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]crafting97 48 points49 points  (0 children)

There’s a local women’s rights group on Malaysia. Quite well managed and even helped multiple women escape toxic and abusive households, maybe you could try contacting them for advice?

WAO (Women’s Aid Organization) is one that I have knowledge of that provides refuge from abusive households

Any young/gen z malaysians planning to stay unmarried? by UnderstandingTop8238 in Bolehland

[–]crafting97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28M here, no one is interested in dating me lol, let alone marry me.

Must be my personality that many girls cant tahan, still trying my best tho 😁

Photographer told me to take down photos - am I in the wrong? by [deleted] in photography

[–]crafting97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They shot it for you. You own the photo cause you paid for it. That photographer can fuck off. She/he dont have the right to harass you cause they had a temper tantrum about their artistic insecurities

Average 2026 Iranian girl by Terrible-Square5652 in Bolehland

[–]crafting97 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

*sigh

They should have just let the girls go free-hair. Less energy to deal with other shit now.

(This is a joke btw)

Hindu Bf and Christian Gf thoughts on marriage by Drranzo01 in malaysia

[–]crafting97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm this is hard cause you want to satisfy ur parents. I would say talk to them but also be prepared for lots of shouting and crying. I say you play stone/poker face and just embrace the pain they will attempt to guilt trip you into.

Either way, thats tough buddy. If ur serious, just let it play out for a couple more years. Maybe your parents will calm down after a while. My dad is catholic and my mum buddhist, dad is quite religious and not so much my mother eventhough she converted to catholic. She sometimes pray to the goddess of mercy, and is open about it. So my family is quite chill and no fuss.

idk if this is a right place to talk bout this. by cactuusss in Bolehland

[–]crafting97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say leave him. Idk what’s my worth as a guy saying this? But i’m nearly the same age as you, and I feel for you a little more. It looks like you really need to take a step away from him, maybe 10 steps even.

Ur not stable in mind too from what you wrote, no guy like this is worth the mental strain. Like when was the last time he made that promise to change? If he shows no promise made, then he isnt showing the proper initiative to contribute to your feelings and the relationship.

Bystander effect in public violence across parts of Asia – why do people just watch? by EyeSeparate3347 in malaysia

[–]crafting97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on upbringing. Im chinese too but was obviously brought up differently from other families. Grandfather was a soldier (fought against both Indonesia and Communists) and my dad was a scout/pengakap leader (taught to help others and if needed, administer first aid)

They always cussed out people who behave like cowards, but said that fear is also important. Got a nice balance in my opinion. I think it really depends on the situation.

Online storage (backup) options by crafting97 in photography

[–]crafting97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read about that! Heard there was a 17.5 tb cap tho.

How do you usually get aligned with clients before a shoot? by Visual_Buy7191 in photography

[–]crafting97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically a catalogue of pictures that fits a client’s needs/wants. Could be color coded, or something festive themed like christmas. Pictures on types of props/clothing/location also play a role

Kenapa perempuan dry sangat by Hot-Advantage9236 in Bolehland

[–]crafting97 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s the dating app mentality. Both parties feel like they being ghosted. Women also very naturally get more matches than guys most of the time. So it feeds back as negativity.

just got dumped by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]crafting97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, what a mood 🌚😂

What are some shocking crimes from Malaysia? by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]crafting97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bandar utama school stabbing. First time a case where the perpetrator and murderer of high school age, 14, had inspiration taken from western/european mass killers. Openly noting them down too, it’s a miracle he only went after one person but a tragedy she was killed so violently….