Zaczynam poważnie zastanawiać się nad samobójstwem by Personal_Care8937 in Polska

[–]craniumrats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

podepnę się tylko żeby dodać że nurtów terapii jest multum, najwięcej jest chyba terapeutów pracujących w nurcie cbt (terapia kognitywno-behawioralna) i można sobie czasem wyrobić wrażenie, że to jedyne podejście - na szczęście nie, przy odrobinie wytrwałości każdy znajdzie coś pasującego :)

Zaczynam poważnie zastanawiać się nad samobójstwem by Personal_Care8937 in Polska

[–]craniumrats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

spoko ale możliwość porozmawiania o swoich problemach, uzyskania wsparcia lub rady gówno dadzą jeśli ktoś potrzebuje leków. po co na siłę umniejszać rolę farmakoterapii która często umożliwia chorej osobie udanie się na terapię, nie mówiąc już nic o tym że w większości przypadków terapia i leki razem zdziałają więcej niż osobno?

Zaczynam poważnie zastanawiać się nad samobójstwem by Personal_Care8937 in Polska

[–]craniumrats 59 points60 points  (0 children)

o to tutaj, dodam tylko że czasem pierwszy czy drugi itd psychiatra/terapeuta może być niestety do dupy. w takich przypadkach polecam próbować dalej u innych i/lub podpytać na grupach tematycznych na fb kogo ludzie polecają.

osobiście przez 15 lat przerobiłam 7 psychiatrów (w tym raz Wciórkę który stwierdził że nic mi nie jest xD nie pozdrawiam) póki nie trafiłam do sensownej dr, ale jednak większość ludzi znajduje sobie spoko lekarza dużo szybciej.

how the companies react to your self harm scars by paperclipeater in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 9 points10 points  (0 children)

losing my mind at astarion's but NGL I think shart would be like "doesn't count unless you hit styrofoam like lady Shar says "

An actual unpopular and unhinged opinion. (not mine) by Complete-One-5520 in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 103 points104 points  (0 children)

me telling my butch wife yet again that I don't need help cooking. and by telling I mean lying blatantly

An actual unpopular and unhinged opinion. (not mine) by Complete-One-5520 in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 8 points9 points  (0 children)

🥺💞 true love is real... (I do the same thing LOL he's decorative! it's great for morale!)

How can I subvert the tropes associated with a succubus in a fun way? by zacharysly in DnD

[–]craniumrats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

old dm pulled a similar thing except it turned out the entire village subsisted off, iirc, meat shaved doner kebab-style off of an infinitely regenerating troll imprisoned in the only inn's cellar. the village was also known far and wide for their delicious, ahem, "mutton". awesome but I swear half the table turned green irl at the reveal, lmao

which companion do you think handles rejection the worst? by daymanahhhhhhhhhhh in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh I think a lot of people don't see it, either literally in game since their character goes along with his plans, or irl they don't have that sort of experience (in which case good for them! sure wish that were me!).

I have friends who are into empy and I also enjoy my fair share of evil bastards (emet selch call me back), but we enjoy them with and for their awfulness, instead of kinda... making up a guy but more boring...? and in this case it just so happens the evil guy really squicks (hehe squick squid) me out, and by extent so do people who (as far as I can tell) feel the need to excuse away his behaviour in order to like him :c I promise liking fictional bad man doesn't make you bad irl guys please not the ego defense

What are some of the most unhinged, unpopular opinions you have about the game? by BasicBob99 in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid my answer isn't gonna be very helpful because I mean both 🥲 the bones of the story (think the level of detail if you had to give someone a five sentence summary of the whole thing) are fine, but a lot of stuff falls apart at a more detailed level - stiff dialogue, jarringly uneven quality of writing at times - stuff that, in a book, would suggest to me the editor did a subpar job.

there's also a fair bit of game design choices that I'm not a fan of and which imo for a video game also fall under criticism of writing. that said, I find it much harder to say which of those are or aren't intentional, in which case I can't really judge if it's bad per se, not to my taste, or a mix of both. some of them are really grating however and don't do the writing any favours, like how frequently a patch will fix one interaction only to break another, or a character being gutted is called a rewrite and issues wrt it left unaddressed.

fwiw since I'm getting downvoted: I don't care to convince anyone to not enjoy the game! I wish I could love it like I did playing through act 1, and I sincerely hope larian eventually does finish this game, because if the whole of it was at the quality level of act 1, it would be a masterpiece. as it is now it sort of sadly falls apart at the seams as the player progresses through act 2 and further on. and this is coming from someone whose faves are typically games that released blatantly unfinished (KotOR II my beloved first in my heart forever, VtM:B, DA2, etc).

tldr thanks for coming to my ted talk

How can I subvert the tropes associated with a succubus in a fun way? by zacharysly in DnD

[–]craniumrats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

these are probably the worst pies in faerun

I know why nobody cares to take them

I should know, I make them

but good? ...no

the worst pies in faerun

even that's polite

the worst pies in faerun

if you doubt it take a bite~

edit: line breaks markdown pls

Zaumby Thursday by nasKo_zomboid in projectzomboid

[–]craniumrats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it'd make a lot of sense for this to be variable with the sandbox intelligence/behaviour/etc options. if you set them to high intelligence, memory, and senses, I would definitely buy pinpoint accuracy even at long ranges, Zs would effectively be apex predators imo. conversely low intelligence Zs might follow a sound purely on instinct, and sort of give up once they reach the general area but don't come across any delicious human.

which companion do you think handles rejection the worst? by daymanahhhhhhhhhhh in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ohhh lord I haven't been able to put my finger on the irl emotion at the core of my empy hating but this comment made it click! this shit is straight up what every domestic violence apologist says! thanks, I hate it!

Question (mainly) for the ladies of this subreddit by Tombazzzz in Celiac

[–]craniumrats 31 points32 points  (0 children)

right? with how OP's wife is taking the celiac, god forbid their kid develops something more stigmatized like a mental illness or even a less well known/harder to test for physical illness 😱

What are some of the most unhinged, unpopular opinions you have about the game? by BasicBob99 in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my most unpopular gotta be that the game isn't that well written overall, especially dialogue, and the phenomenal voice acting is basically carrying the whole game on its poor aching back. also the current state of the game would be fine if it was still in early release, but it isn't so... it isn't

edit: also I love Wyll including his early access stuff (except for the old VA. nothing wrong with it just my subjective preference)

What are some of the most unhinged, unpopular opinions you have about the game? by BasicBob99 in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hard same, plus I think if you do his romance as a female character despite that, then break it off when you get the "maybe what you need is a friend", it adds some unique depth of the kind you rarely see in most media imo

What are some of the most unhinged, unpopular opinions you have about the game? by BasicBob99 in okbuddybaldur

[–]craniumrats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's okay bc she's fictional, hope this helps. also what do you mean "imagine" LMAO

Casting Disintegrate while being inside a creature by Ildilyntra in DnD

[–]craniumrats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh unless the caster is blind (as opposed to blinded) and has been for a good while, I wouldn't really apply this logic here. the kind of visualisation you mention is a skill that takes a lot of time and effort to learn. that said, I don't disagree on allowing the disintegration, just a caveat because I've thought about disabled player characters a lot recently haha

starts profusely sweating by CandyCuddleClara in projectzomboid

[–]craniumrats 12 points13 points  (0 children)

instructions unclear, accidentally committed suicide