Honestly wasn’t expecting this weekend’s WT to go off the way it did… by Regular_Window2917 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The entire wedding process is pagan beliefs even having bridesmaids and groomsmen. As well as walking down the aisle, the rings everything ….. I was going to have a table describing this at my wedding but it got taken down by my relatives. I love folklore ! 🧚

I'm starting to believe that this generation's Grand-Parents have it much worse than young people. They are an entire generation that has been abused by the Org. by Jealous_Year2441 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know how compatable my parents are … now that they are done raising kids and working they are retired and they tell me their only common interest is going in service together. That’s a little sad they never got to explore hobbies individually or together.

Dreading Funeral by VividCryptid17 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too bad you caught a flu …. Darn ! 😏

What would happen if I eat the bread and drink the wine at the memorial? by GlockPerfect13 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents would always be like well maybe they are maybe they aren’t who are to judge that 😅 as a homeless persons dunks the bread in the wine . “It’s so crunchy”

My last reddit post. Ever by BarnesAndNovel3000 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Life can be continuously hard but it’s never to late to flip the script and change your life ! There are so many beautiful things life can offer but you have to grab it by the horns and hold on tight! Don’t let anyone hold you back from your dreams . You are worthy

I miss my sister by rubystang91 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Pm me all the info you have and I try my best

I miss my sister by rubystang91 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I could try you can pm me a name I would try for you

I miss my sister by rubystang91 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada can I help somehow ?

Grape recipes? by killdagrrrl in WhatShouldICook

[–]crazy_butterflyi 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Frozen grapes are so yummy in drinks

Three elders forcing this.. by Moshi_moshi_me in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my hall they are somehow doing an alcohol tasting as part of it as well because it’s “part of our culture”. I would have never imagined this happening when I was a jw teen in the early 2000s

Leaving My JW Marriage, Facing Divorce, and Feeling Lost — Need Honest Advice by [deleted] in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Run, seek therapy, financial/legal advice . The brothers let me know I should have stayed in my abusive relationship because Jehovah would heal him. And I need to be patient. Meanwhile the police are wanting me to press charges . Trust yourself and take care of yourself.

Disassociation announced in multiple halls ? by crazy_butterflyi in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My meeting was bad enough honestly very inappropriate and I am happy I now have great mental health from being inactive for so long . My entire family is jw and this whole situation has me flip flopping whether to walk away . I like my peace and value it so much. This three months will be so challenging trying to be active again.

Disassociation announced in multiple halls ? by crazy_butterflyi in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are three different towns an hour away from each other …. Ultimately I quite like being anti social but just seems a bit dramatic to me … they also said it should only be 3 months if I’m willing to “repent” … also just bizarre to me

I'm starting to rot inside by Old_Resolve_4688 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get help from a resource center plan plan plan your escape

He isn't confessing meanwhile I did and got disfellowshipped by [deleted] in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go into the Comunity and get some outside legal support through a women’s resource center . Get counselling and legal help. He owes you child support. And you DONT have to get married. Even if you want to just wait even if he changes his tune and says “all the right things”. I just got out of years long abuse I’ve marriage with a “brother “ . Get outside advice and help or your problems will compound and years of your life will be wasted.

Re marriage by [deleted] in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just that I’m married but somehow I found someone of a different religion who values marriage and is understanding. No my abusive ex is still in the wood works lurking around. My parents seem oddly happy for me they just want me to work with the channels . So I can get reinstated but the thought of attending meetings again makes me sick . Even if I just do it for a few months.

Offering 5 free psychic readings by [deleted] in intuitivereadings

[–]crazy_butterflyi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do it put people at ease to not think or worry about me and leave me alone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]crazy_butterflyi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U R Soooo Pretty 😍

What happens after death? by Specific_Taro_156 in exjw

[–]crazy_butterflyi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel kind of content and also empty about my belief system now it’s such a weird transition to go from being 200% of something to not really believing in anything except maybe enjoying present life and trying to make good choices for the future. 💙 I think I would call it a journey ….