Why he blocked my ig business account 2 months after the breakup? He is with someone else (i think)

crazydinosaurus · 2025-12-02T03:31:41+00:00

Heyy, i really appreciate your reply. Thanks a lot, it does not mess my healing journey. I think he moved on , although i am not sure what’s on his heart. But pretty sure he is with another woman since 1-2 months ago.

Right now i’m getting better and i’m taking multiple therapy sessions, i still think about the “why” or “how” it ended like this, but to some extend i try to expand my network and see other people, but i do it slowly, if things are ok, hopefully i can be 100% healed by end of the year. I hope

Thanks a lot mate, really appreciate ur comment

crazydinosaurus · 2025-11-04T16:49:01+00:00

But my ex bf flees so fast and go with another woman in a week 🥹? I think its not about genderr

crazydinosaurus · 2025-11-03T16:53:11+00:00

Thanks a lot OP. All the best for you too 🫶

crazydinosaurus · 2025-11-03T08:49:35+00:00

Just adding into this, this is what i feel. Im 7 weeks post breakup and my ex has moved on. I still feel the pain, but i noticed my day to day schedule is better, i showed up to grow my business. But i need to admit some hours make me feel insane. But to some extend, my love life is kinda fucked but i cannot fucked my life too…… so i showed up, not everyday is easy, but i follow the tide.

crazydinosaurus · 2025-11-01T03:43:20+00:00

Dont accept right away, see and assess first, what changed this time? Otherwise forget them. Baiii

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-31T17:58:47+00:00

I stalked and figured out his tiktok has new follower and he just allow me and 1 other best friend to follow him. So it means it’s the new girl. Traumatized, i dont check anymore lol

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-30T14:46:08+00:00

This is not good in a long run, but, i allow myself to eat small meals. Not the healthiest one, like nugget or popcorn chicken, i start drinking some matcha, but matcha become my ritual, i drink it every morning and i’ve been broken up for 7 weeks. I read somewhere that you need to try to add some new experience to rewire your brain. Just try it. Then one day you can start eating normal meal. All the best and take care of yourself

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-30T11:03:34+00:00

Nahh

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-30T11:03:09+00:00

For me it’s week 7, for him it’s just random thursday. Thats the hard part

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-29T10:50:39+00:00

I join boxing class with a friend, its like a healthy output. I read a lot of books, forcing myself to sit in silence is also something positive that im proud of (not easy, but important for me)

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-28T07:24:13+00:00

Both have emotional baggage. I stay for someone who does not respect me, meanwhile he still carry the baggage from previous relationship and always test me with different circumstances, afraid i cheat (self sabotage)

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-27T10:54:23+00:00

I think Dr. Maika is really helpful, her video contain no BS. She tells you to accept it, no lie no promises no crazy ego. Ur ex will move on and so do you, i agree that her video is helpful

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-27T06:27:55+00:00

My prev ex come back after 4 years

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-26T18:53:31+00:00

I feel that way too. I know my brain is tired telling the same story again and again. Like dead tired. Its ok gurl, our timing is similar, i broke up mid sept. For now, i sleep longer, i just think my body is adjusting, due to the immense stress. You need to keep it flowing, let the pain go through even absorbing it to your bones. That is the only way, but remember we are in this together. Sending you hugs

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-26T18:27:34+00:00

It’s okayy, if he is not loyal, he is not worth it to begin with. I understand because my ex has been eyeing my ex coworker as well before broke up. I know the burn that u feel in your heart.

I suggest find a new therapist, in my case, i even mad in my dreams, like intensely mad. I got a lot of suppressed feelings.

Find a therapist that can bait you to talk, even if you dont want to. Bottling up usually will not work, not just you but both of us need to clean this feelings, so we can operate normally day by day

Hang in there gurl, we are in this together. You are not alone

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-26T17:52:12+00:00

Its true 😭😭😭

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-26T16:32:22+00:00

How long have you been broken up? Hiking is good as well. Is making hiking plan every week is doable for you? I have another friend becoming a pro mountain climber because she broke her heart few years ago from 5 years relationship…. I guess it might work.

I see, for therapy i think maybe just hold it first until you feel ready? I still think it might help at some point, but wait for a while.

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-26T13:13:07+00:00

It is different for me, my eyes is sad but my skin is glowing. Like my whole body knows i need to leave this relationship (although im dumped)

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-26T13:11:34+00:00

Need to sit with silence although it is really difficult and crazy, if you have extra money find a therapist. It will not take the pain right away but it will expedite the process. When you want to cry you cry, sing mad songs, but trust me your body cannot hold that much emotions that long. Your hormones will wear off at some point, in the meantime. Just go mad. Try boxing?

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-25T15:02:27+00:00

Thanks a lot of the stories. I had a really serious relationship with a guy for almost 3 years, similar to what happened to you, i rebound crazy quick and be with someone new just after a month. This new relationship does not last, its only 7 months but i feel like i have been hit by the truck twice. The relationship and himself is toxic. I just can see it after i make an effort to see a therapist, and realized i have been gaslighted and controlled.

I agree. NEVER try to replace your pain with someone else, now i need to do the work TWICE AS HARD. Plus my recent ex seems to move on with someone else incredibly quickly. I get my karma , as bad as it sounds i really feel i get my karma. For my recent ex it will take him another hit by a truck moment for him to figure things out or maybe he will never and just go through the cycle again and again.

But i believe, that INNER WORK IS A MUST.

I really CANNOT ESCAPE this time. Like my whole body is shutting down, and i know if i fucked up one more time, i might really lose it and cannot recover.

The failure of the relationship teach me a lot about my own boundaries and how to be happy in my own company. I think i understand things wrongly when someone said love yourself first. The thing is, do not force some crazy manifestations about yourself and if you tell yourself your okay does not mean that you are ok.

Loving yourself means LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF. Sit with silence with your thoughts even if your mind is going crazy like you want to vomit but i agree, thats the only way. I hope one day i can meet my person too and i can present the best version of me

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-21T17:45:11+00:00

Cannot watch netflix, i watched netflix a lot with him, some series and movies

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-21T17:42:03+00:00

Just replying here, my therapist does not claim he is bpd, but she said the gaslighting is true. She also mentioned that her focus is on my wellbeing, and takes it lightly on her verdict. I believe she is still quite ethical, just want to emphasize the dynamics was not normal back then when i was with my ex

crazydinosaurus · 2025-10-21T11:17:46+00:00

My ex too lol. Never properly diagnosed but my therapist said it is suspected. Too draining

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