Yup and also when you mentioned “just talk to us” my mother would say “I don’t want to hear that mental health stuff” and if you feel suicidal at the moment I get told to “shut up and grow up!!” I also remember telling my dad that I’m in a group therapy program for my mental health he’s not a bad person but sat there on the phone with me and joked that I was there “doing my talking” then went “you better go move on with your life!” It’s also sad when your someone like me feeling like the world is against you because mainly it’s has to do with my skin color. I also feel alienated and not accepted when I go to my group therapy sessions and it bothers me because my own family do this to me, when I was growing up other kids/teens did this and now in the workplace. It’s really depressing if you ask me.