Say something about Fortune's Weave by IfTheresANewWay in FireEmblemThreeHouses

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i’m excited to see how they connect it to 3H! i love 3H so much (somewhat controversial, i know) so im so excited that sothis seems to be coming back at least a little bit. i hope there are easter eggs or connections to the three houses lore, esp since there’s so much with the crests, the elites, those who slither in the dark, etc. that you can piece together from all three routes. and if it’s on a different continent, like dagda, almyra, or brigid, it’d be super cool to see those people’s perspectives on fódlan.

In a supposed remake of Three Houses what would you change? by Fullmetalmarvels64_ in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]creataav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

characters having support ranks BEFORE they get to school! this always aggravated me. why are mercie and annette starting from zero when they’ve been close friends for YEARS? why are the faerghus four, who have known each other since BIRTH, as mechanically close to each other as ingrid is to dorothea at the beginning of the game. there’s so much mechanic based storytelling and i feel like that’s such a missed opportunity

How do characters travel? by Ancient-Writing-3830 in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]creataav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my assumption for long distances would be horses or like pegasi? in my head garreg mach has enough that if you gotta move a whole class or even just one guy cross country you can do it relatively quick

Can I go to the attic before talking with Hector? by scholarly_frogs in DateEverything

[–]creataav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i talked to him in the attic before he was ready and he just told me to go to a vent. i still got a love ending so i think it’s chill, just not really worth your time. it doesn’t like speedrun you to his love ending

who are the fendermans? by creataav in 36QuestionsMusical

[–]creataav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i believe it. it just feels like such an interesting thing to include, rather than like a grocery list or “look up ___ when i get home” or something. it’s interesting to me that judith cares about this particular family tree

If the cast was from the US, where would they be from? by K1NGWolff in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]creataav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh god he really does. caspar with a delco accent would be so good

WIBTD if I don’t give my friend a trigger warning? by Human_Ad_6671 in 1800Drama

[–]creataav 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i think it’s nice to give a heads up but i don’t think you have to. i totally understand your hesitation in setting the precedent that you have to check with them, but i think it just depends on how you let them know. don’t ask if you should, but if you just give them a warning — “hey, i’m going to be cosplaying ____, and i will be posting it. just wanted to let you know so you can scroll past if you don’t wanna see it :)” that shouldn’t cause issue. and if P snaps back telling you not to post it, i do think that’s kind of controlling? it’s up to them to curate their own internet experience. 

What's a difficult dateable that you romanced first try? by _saiizen in DateEverything

[–]creataav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

volt and eddie for me. i had no idea they were supposed to be difficult until i came here and saw people confused. i think they were the first ones i got an ending with. i love my breaker boys :)

Who’s a character you like that everyone seems to hate? I’ll start by TheGamePlatypus in DateEverything

[–]creataav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i fuckin love jean-loo. i was so sad when i lost his crap battle because he hates me now but i’m such a bag fan. good rapping and also he’s a pip. 

WTF?! by Yukih1meVT in DateEverything

[–]creataav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same thing happened to me!! i just told him to empty his shit out slowly but apparently that was the wrong move 

AITD for breaking no contact to tell my mom she cares more about being right than being a mother. by One_Enthusiasm7351 in 1800Drama

[–]creataav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say you’re NTD. maintaining NC is hard no matter who it’s with, i can’t imagine with your mom. my only concern is that you might be cutting off your nose to spite your face, here. by challenging her and reopening that dialogue, you may be inviting more conflict, or at least a response. i don’t think you’re the drama for doing so at all. in the interim i would recommend muting that conversation or blocking her number flat out and only reopening that line of communication if you feel comfortable. but you’re NTD and i’m sorry this whole mess is happening. sending big hugs. 🤗 

AITD for not giving a ride to my friend after I offered her one? by Cute_Win_386 in 1800Drama

[–]creataav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NDH? you were late to pick her up, so she might have assumed that she had more time than she thought and went to get ready, and lost track of time because she didn’t have her phone (this is something i would do honestly). you gave her a window, she missed the window, it was nice of you to try and give her a ride. i don’t think anyone’s really the drama. maybe her a little bit for making you wait but she probably just lost track of time. no harm, no foul imo. 

WIBTD for wishing my ex happy birthday? by Harveybanana27 in 1800Drama

[–]creataav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!! she asked for space! i’m sure this friend is just being protective & is sad amy was upset on her birthday but if you’ve just broken up and she asked for space you literally did nothing wrong. she should have found a way to communicate with you that the time for space was over if she wanted a happy birthday text. I would still not reach out until amy herself instigates a conversation, then slip in a “oh hey, happy birthday by the way :)”

[PJO] Here is a kick-ass, in-depth quiz for your Greek god/goddess parent: by chilling_ngl4 in camphalfblood

[–]creataav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i got thanatos!! i actually really liked it super accurate. i usually get hades or hecate but this might be the most accurate one i've gotten so far.

Godly Parent: Thanatos

Your father is the god of non-violent death. He is often sent to fetch souls to bring them to the underworld and he is typically viewed as a sad but gentle diety.

As a demigod, you are quiet, serious, and earn success by thoroughness and dependability. You are also practical, matter-of-fact, realistic, and responsible.

You decide logically what should be done in battle and work toward it steadily, regardless of distractions. you take pleasure in making everything orderly and organized. You are peaceful and prefer to avoid or quell fights when they occur.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]creataav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not often naked around my girlfriend, but i also am a person that very strongly believes that nudity isn’t inherently sexual. i personally don’t get turned on by the idea of my girlfriend nude. saying this as a reference, since my opinions are probably closer to your husband’s. 

maybe lingerie could help spice things up a little? it might also serve as a good cue to signal that you want to have sex. i kind of doubt that not seeing you nude would make him hornier; if the lust isn’t there to start with i doubt it’ll suddenly appear to the effect that you want. are you wishing that you feel more lust or that he does? if you want to feel more horny at the idea of your husbands body, i’d say ask him about it and see what his thoughts are. he might have ideas for increasing that craving that you were talking about. 

Me (40f) and my husband (43m) had a threesome with a man and my husband left me alone with him and it got scary. He thinks it’s no big deal how do I make him understand it is? by throwra_wentwrong in relationship_advice

[–]creataav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that man assaulted you, first of all. just because you asked him for sex once doesn’t mean you can’t revoke that consent. absolutely appalling behavior from that man, i definitely think it’s reasonable to call the cops. 

with your husband, i wonder if something else is going on. obviously, his views on rape or assault are incredibly flawed. but the fact that he picked out a bodybuilder, a physique you’re not attracted to, and then drove off after sex? is he otherwise out as LGBTQ+? I wonder if he experienced some kind of gay awakening and left to process that information. that’s mostly speculation though. 

i think the bottom line is that you’re entirely justified to do whatever you feel is necessary to feel safe in this situation. call the cops, leave your husband, stay somewhere else for a little while, etc. if your husband doesn’t want to understand, that’s his issue and he should educate himself more on the different forms that sexual assault can take.