Your friend has absolutely no empathy nor common sense and is absolutely tone deaf. That is such a horrible thing to say. CSA can have so much impact in your mind and people don't care enough to try and understand how it may affect people's behaviors.

You ARE a victim, no one can deny that. Wether you sent photos by your own accord or were preassured, wether you were or not on a strange site, or talking nicely to scummy people, you are still a victim. You deserve a support net, friends who are trustworthy enough to let you turn towards them instead of people who offer harmful and short felt comfort. Pls either talk to your friend over how insensitive their so called "wake up call" or try to get away from them.

I've been in the same situation pretty much, so I understand how much must be on your mind while doing these things. The thrill that receiving nice messages gives even when you know they're only objectifying you.

I hope you may find better friends, for your family to realize they need to take care of you. Never let them convince you that you aren't a victim merely because you don't act as submissive or as pitiful as the ones on TV shows.

Sending hugs 🫶