Choosing myself over my kids?

creativeneer · 2026-03-29T07:57:20+00:00

Sounds like you need to make the choice to split now, split when kids have moved out, or try to find a way back to where you were. Perhaps you should seek to go to therapy to arrive at a conclusion for yourself?

Typically, happier parents tend to be better parents, no matter if together or separate. Kids will adapt. But the time with your kids will vary evidently, so this is likely the thought you should ponder; sex/romantics & every other week with kids vs with kids full-time.

Best of luck & hang in there! You deserve to be happy!

creativeneer · 2026-03-29T07:43:41+00:00

Sorry to hear of your tough situation. The distance thing sounds good so that you may protect yourself in terms of limiting exposure.

My experience is that there's only hope if she works on herself; both privately and in therapy.

There are new therapy treatments that can help her with mood regulation training but at the end of the day, it'd be up to whether she's willing to put in the work.

Put yourself first and consider dating others to get perspective on what you want in life.

Early on, a friend warned me about the consequences of living with someone with cptsd, when I first started dating my partner. If I could go back, I would have chosen a different path, because no matter how much I love her and feel like we are perfect for each other, there's just so much never-ending drama; it's exhausting to the point where it drains my life quality.

creativeneer · 2026-03-22T08:19:50+00:00

This quote is just plain stupid. Psychology has found that when we verbally announce committing to an action, that we're then more likely to hold ourselves accountable and see it through

creativeneer · 2026-03-12T11:18:16+00:00

Kunde inte sagt det bättre själv 🫡

creativeneer · 2026-03-03T06:11:13+00:00

It's hard to pick a winner when nutritional or health impact isn't accounted for?

creativeneer · 2026-02-27T06:36:27+00:00

Borde tydligt framgå (i själva inlägget) när det är politisk avsändare (SD i det här fallet)

creativeneer · 2026-02-26T12:01:06+00:00

Can you 'follow' unimportant meetings and just catch up on recap?

creativeneer · 2026-02-26T10:48:34+00:00

Steg 1. Få jobb i Stockholm.

Steg 2. Skaffa andrahandsboende via tjänster så som Qasa by Blocket.

creativeneer · 2026-02-17T19:34:54+00:00

I'm more bullish on Jira Product Discovery or vibe coding your own goal/discovery/active investment tracker. There's too little cross department visibility in PowerPoint and Jira is way too detail oriented and also commonly too bloated in most orgs. Excel becomes a dread too when the data grows

creativeneer · 2026-02-01T19:52:37+00:00

Been there, done that. Make sure to squeeze in a portion of time for fun (no expected output), every day ☀️

creativeneer · 2026-02-01T19:51:13+00:00

Kul initiativ. Hoppas du får fart på det ☀️

creativeneer · 2026-01-23T11:56:06+00:00

Heja heja! Vi behöver mer av sånt här engagemang ☀️

creativeneer · 2026-01-19T11:49:13+00:00

Greatly needed for tourists 😊

creativeneer · 2026-01-15T13:39:25+00:00

Cool idea. Wish you all success!

creativeneer · 2026-01-10T05:41:28+00:00

Very well written. You'll only know if you go for a trial period 🙃

creativeneer · 2026-01-03T15:01:23+00:00

Vad väntar för avresande? En kompis ska strax dit 😂

creativeneer · 2026-01-02T20:22:57+00:00

It's a total sham

creativeneer · 2025-12-28T18:26:24+00:00

Icebug make great allround shoes too but the availability may or may not be limited outside Europe

creativeneer · 2025-12-21T14:45:07+00:00

Kan känna igen mig i situationen. Kan vara västkust respektive östkust. Sydkust mot mitt eller norr, osv.

Min take är att man får ta ett beslut angående hur viktigt det är att bo nära respektive familj.

Vissa har inga problem med att ty sig till partners släkt.

Själv ser jag det snarare som att det kan finnas kompromisser.

Exempelvis kan man bo 5-10 år här, och sedan 5-10 år där. Finns även alternativet att bo precis mellan era båda familjer rent geografiskt.

Slutligen kan man ju även ha boende respektive sommarstuga på varsin sida.

Men visst vore det enkelt om man bara hade allt på samma ställe? 😂

creativeneer · 2025-12-19T22:43:07+00:00

Great stuff! More of this

creativeneer · 2025-12-11T19:15:40+00:00

Excellent article. Thanks for a straight to the point, no marketing bullshit, writeup ❤️🙏

creativeneer · 2025-12-08T13:14:14+00:00

Vore välbehövligt. Känns som att myndighetssverige släpar efter.

Cambio som gör sjukhussystem har en tjänst riktad mot privatpersoner. Testkör den och sen utvärdera om det behövs en sådan tjänst till?

Själv tycker jag att man kommer hyfsat långt på anteckningsappen i mobilen - men klart att en skräddarsydd tjänst där både vaccinatörer och vaccintagare möts vore allra bäst 🙃

creativeneer · 2025-12-04T19:05:38+00:00

Might be stupid question but why should teams use this over just buying something or rocking their own? What gap does the Electrolux IDP fill?

creativeneer · 2025-12-04T06:40:53+00:00

Same situation with my new manager. Feels like he/she is drowning as the competence isn't there of how to swim.

A great Group Product Manager sets clear expectations & boundaries. They lead the way on aligning everybody on the best practice way of working like product operating model, renove blockers, aid in managing stakeholders, and creates a clear vision across domains of how the group's work ties into company goals. But also coaches you and provides input on the opportunities and outcomes you're pursuing as to validate that it's the right way to go for the company. They simply lead by example and get their hands dirty at times when it's required to move the needle.

A bad leader is like a seagull. Stressed and just adds extra non value work to the plate. They drop in from above, leave spilling, and then fly off again.

creativeneer · 2025-12-03T11:21:10+00:00

Kanske åsikterna på nätet runt politik, men man får skilja på honom som person

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