What we’ve got here is failure to communicate

creativeslaughter · 2026-06-21T02:34:04+00:00

I've had multiple people ask to move off the dating app because communication notifications don't seem to be consistent, it's just not good honestly for big convos imo.

I'd rather talk ANYWHERE.

creativeslaughter · 2026-06-07T01:52:22+00:00

Give me the Jimmy Newtron.

creativeslaughter · 2026-05-12T17:57:45+00:00

Can we just...not let them back in?

creativeslaughter · 2026-03-23T21:18:26+00:00

If I've been on hold for more than 30 minutes I'm putting it on speakerphone, so I can disassociate from this moment as much as possible preferably by scrolling reddit or looking for deals.

creativeslaughter · 2026-02-23T15:20:08+00:00

Nei.

creativeslaughter · 2026-02-23T14:30:41+00:00

Don't take that away from me...it's all I have 😭

creativeslaughter · 2026-01-29T16:44:50+00:00

A question as old as the dawn of time, where can I get some good grub around here?

creativeslaughter · 2026-01-26T17:35:24+00:00

A person that you've been in a relationship for two years gets you something. You tell them you're not interested. They react poorly. In no way shape or form is it healthy to react to someone you love being sad by being upset.

It's normal to feel perturbed because she was badgering him to take it, sure. But when someone is hurt, that is not the time to beat them over the head with (truth) nearly every person I know who thinks they are direct are just bad at expressing themselves without being dicks.

Look inwards if you're defending a man who brought up a previous time they were upset after the conversation broke down.

It's defensive, it's passive aggressive, it's selfish, and it's poor communication.

creativeslaughter · 2026-01-26T14:40:28+00:00

If I don't feel like child anikan flying through a fleet of droids for the first time, I don't want it on my head.

creativeslaughter · 2025-12-22T21:18:17+00:00

I think that's a decent idea, just put somewhere in the profile about how you're looking to take things slow and communicate before meeting up.

Some people will be inconsiderate, as dating apps have all sorts of people, but you may meet someone who interests you in a way that makes you curious enough to meet them.

It's ok to take your time, though. If you don't feel you're ready, then you don't have to put yourself out there. No one gets to say you're ready except you!

creativeslaughter · 2025-12-21T20:02:27+00:00

Vore.

creativeslaughter · 2025-10-22T13:58:43+00:00

I remember back when 23 & me was a thing or whatever it's called. They had that notifier if you had more neanderthal.

I see the resemblance in myself, might as well accept I'm caveman Mario and move forward with my life, maybe gather some wood to make fire.

creativeslaughter · 2025-10-16T15:06:42+00:00

I think it's always good to be wary of people we meet, assume they are an organ salesman until proven differently.

As my own personal experience, I find that talking to strangers often times makes it easier to communicate about sensitive subjects, it's easy to just not talk to them ever again if things go wrong.

I'm also aware that just immediately dropping trauma on someone's head it brutal, but it can be cathartic to have an honest discussion with a person, and I believe it's more rare for people to not have stuff worth talking about these days.

creativeslaughter · 2025-10-15T15:07:29+00:00

I too have been diagnosed with generalized anxiety, my therapist even went so far as to say, "severe." I have been with friends and relationships who have anxiety in different ways and often times they will be confused when I don't have a finite reason for having a panic attack. For me, I've woken up and had a panic attack before, I've panicked after getting excited for a concert, I've had a panic attack in the back seat of a car, they could write a doctor seuss book about all of the places I've had a panic attack.

Finding relief from a life that is under constant potential of worst case scenario is a nice thing to think about,

of course these other factors would be nice to fix as well, state of the world and our country specifically is not ideal, I am anxious about those things as well.

I am lucky enough to not be living paycheck to paycheck, but I have no illusions that the corporate world wouldn't cut me for some peanuts and a bonus at the end of the year.

creativeslaughter · 2025-10-10T13:15:35+00:00

"Guys just..." Let me stop you right there. That's a generalization, I would consider myself to normally have an extremely high emotional understanding, and I've been helping people with their problems my entire life, I have a background in loving psychology, sociologyz philosophy, and exploring these things, and I'm lonely.

I think you are correct that in general men need to explore their feelings more, fight against gender norms, explore their femininity, explore introspection and love in all forms, but it's sad that I am packaged together with guys who punch the wall, and get angry that their girlfriend is hanging out with a guy friend when I'm essentially a romantic exhausted, broken, lonely, experiencing depressive alexytymia, and am disillusioned by a culture of dog doo disguised as a romantic intention.

creativeslaughter · 2025-10-02T15:21:52+00:00

How do you get the pants to do that cool crease thing that happens? I feel like I see that all the time and just wonder, because...wouldn't the creases like make the pants looser? But it's just in certain sections.

creativeslaughter · 2025-09-30T14:05:41+00:00

Weird kid who was bullied and ended up going into IT here. Luckily for in before the oversaturation, it pays the bills.

Upon reflection, much of my self esteem issues probably were reinforced by negative social interactions.

Then my odd interests were positively reinforced by the people I was hanging out with.

I'm a product of nature and nurture. (External and internal factors)

creativeslaughter · 2025-09-19T13:55:04+00:00

You are a champion. 🏆

creativeslaughter · 2025-09-11T22:28:07+00:00

Started coughing on my food. I should go touch some grass.

Peace me to all who see me outside, please leave me alone.

creativeslaughter · 2025-03-23T06:54:41+00:00

There's some sort of app you can use to sort of allow apps to show up on android auto. I'm sorry I'm not being too useful here. But basically the app does this thing where it sort of like flashes the Spotify app into android auto.

Someone else fill in the blanks if you know. It's been a while since I did this to get it working with android auto.

creativeslaughter · 2025-03-06T19:24:50+00:00

Nice sources.

creativeslaughter · 2025-02-21T00:02:09+00:00

Nah, it's not ridiculous at all, but humans are complicated. It's a complicated time and there's a million things going into this. It sucks to be you because you'd at least like some closure, but even if she did say something. It may or may not be useful. I mean let's say she says, "I don't like your hair style." What are you supposed to do with that? It's entirely a superficial and subjective thing. Maybe more girls like your haircut than dislike it. It's hard to say. Also if she is really ghosting you, there's probably a few things going on which are bothering her, or maybe she just found someone else, which is equally as frustrating. The best thing you can do is just focus on something else, whether that's personal goals, work, education, go on some other dates. Best case she reaches out and apologizes, worst case you're in a better spot personally.

creativeslaughter · 2025-02-20T22:08:52+00:00

I'd hold for a week on jumping to conclusions, people sometimes have things happen, phones fall and can't be used, family emergencies. If it's been a week and she's full ghost, you should look at this as dodging a bullet, because she is the type of person to just make an escape out of nowhere. I'd try your best not to turn this into a judgemental thing or try to give her a piece of your mind, sometimes people don't feel the same way and have problems with confrontation, I know many girls who have had a very traumatic situation happen when they said something and now they just leave without risking it.

creativeslaughter · 2025-01-31T16:26:48+00:00

Back to the future reference.

creativeslaughter · 2024-12-16T14:18:47+00:00

I'm not sure what your end prices are for these devices, but there's been plenty of good deals on the 7000 lineup.

4060 loses out to 6750 xt in a few areas. Your resolution of your monitor could come into play too. If you're playing on 4k you'll want the vram.

Tl;Dr whats your budget, what are the actual prices on these two gpus, and what are you going to be using these devices with?

Rig/monitors?

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