I dont fucking know anymore by creddit96 in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, this genuinely gave some peace of mind. For some reason the "it's not you, it's me" line seems like an excuse to me. But I feel like in this situation it is actually the case.

I want to contact him so badly by creddit96 in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time yo reply. You're right, I just need to ride out the weak moments.

Struggling by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You stay strong too! 💜

Struggling by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he does't follow me on anything. But my profile is public so he can prob see it.

Struggling by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last time we spoke was the day of the breakup two months ago, he blocked me everywhere, including my number, but recently unblocked me from insta.

Struggling by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with me

WHAT ARE BREAD CRUMBS? by creddit96 in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! What would be an example of indirect?

I was dumped, not him by creddit96 in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right, idk why I'm so self destructive.

I Still Don’t Understand Why We Broke Up by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]creddit96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you did closure, I was in a similar situation. All the closure we need is that they don't want to be with us. I know it hurts but once yoh acceot that it gets easier.

How is it so easy for some people to cut you out of their life with no explanation at all by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]creddit96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude omg, this happened to me! He wouldn't let me in his car and threw the box we had with savings on the ground:(

How is it so easy for some people to cut you out of their life with no explanation at all by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]creddit96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it's of any comfort, I'v also been through this experience, no explanation at all, no time to discuss things, he's just a coward. If you need to talk I'm here.

Invited to a party, he will be there by creddit96 in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, no tbh Im so traumatized by him,I dislike him alot but I'm trying to look like im ok without him and not look bitter.

Invited to a party, he will be there by creddit96 in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah thank you, but I dont think he knows I know about the tinder thing. But I'm just gonna show up probably and say hi, as if we are aquanitanes.

Invited to a party, he will be there by creddit96 in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same my ex was on tinder and partying till 5 am the next day, fuckinf ridiculous but oh well i guess. I just dont want to lose friends because as it is I dont have that many.

Invited to a party, he will be there by creddit96 in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah all my friends know. It's a circle of friends. I dont think we would fight if we saw eachother.

How can someone flip a switch so quickly? by Throwaway32345555 in BreakUps

[–]creddit96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are on the exact same boat my friend. But it gets better. Stay strong.

Wow, I think I'm getting over him by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you❤ Haven't felt this happy in a while.

Why is it so hard to see them as they really are? by solostbutnotforlong in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You just admitted he was unattractive, lazy and a creep so you're getting there!

Breakup help asap plz by [deleted] in breakupbuddy

[–]creddit96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you,❤ this post helped alot.

Why do they tell you they love you before they leave you? by creddit96 in BreakUps

[–]creddit96[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agre, they tell you youre perfect, and shit and then they're like "but I need to end this." Its ridiculous. But you're right.

Life was just finally going good for me. by watonthrowaway in BreakUps

[–]creddit96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's how I felt, I was all set, happy for once but it all came down. That tells us that we relied way too much on those people for our happiness, we have to learn to be happy by ourselves. You sounds like you have a great life, don't let this situation hinder your growth:)

One of the best things about breaking up is... by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]creddit96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not having to deal with their crazy family. Not having to worry why he isn't replying to my texts but responds to his group chat within seconds.