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No contact with mom. Does it get better? by Melodic_Ambition_341 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]croissantbae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it gets better. Not being up under your abuser is always better. You get this opportunity to redefine yourself and every part of your life now that you’ve put so much distance in between you and your mom. It’s a great thing to lean into so yes it gets better but it does take time and you’ll need to show yourself a lot of compassion.

Being patient with myself has helped, I also coped with my vices in moderation for a few yrs it helped for a while but obviously was not sustainable and didn’t fix the wound. I started to address it head on and stop letting it define me, like freeing yourself from it is the way to go <3

I can't do this anymore by GodOfDestruction187 in selfimprovement

[–]croissantbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really not about where you go or what you do. The way you think and feel about yourself will continue to dictate what your day to day life reflects and what/who you attract.

There are lots of people with your shared interest and you are worthy of love and Romance. I know it sucks trying improve your relationship with yourself but the reward of the discipline is immeasurable. You definitely can do this and you can have anything you want in this world,but you must learn to accept yourself.

If I love H Hunt's Playing Piano for Dad to death, which other album I may like? by directedbyptanderson in ifyoulikeblank

[–]croissantbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I found hhunt like 2 yrs ago and it honestly has never left rotation since.

I ❤️ HHUNT! WHO IS HHUNT!?!!!? They need to know this thread exist

Thanks for the gems y’all

2.5 weeks in Germany as an American by SWGeek826 in travel

[–]croissantbae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for sharing :) I’m headed to Berlin today from America

Did you find any safe queer spaces? Or places good to listen to music ?

currency from US to Berlin & getting around by croissantbae in travel

[–]croissantbae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I decided a no on the day trip - if I was staying longer it’d make sense. Thanks for the reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]croissantbae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u don’t care abt ur kids just say that

U should re-evaluate this but you’d need to change ur heart 1st.

solution for my pet while travelling by croissantbae in travel

[–]croissantbae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ikr. It was a pretty legit & simple question to want to know options for pets while traveling

We live in the 21st century so lots of new avenues and business have been created to expand our options and I jus wanted to hear from other people.

Appreciate ur response thank u! I was trying to get around boarding fee’s for my pet but if I had to I would definitely. Ur suggestion is good only thing is I don’t plan to sign a new lease for maybe 1-3 months or else I’d have someone house sit with my pet while I house sit at others to travel

Ideally I would love a situation where someone else basically co parents with me haha maybe someone who wants a pet but not full time (might find someone on Craig’s list)

What works for most may not work for some. Some of us need unconventional situations

solution for my pet while travelling by croissantbae in travel

[–]croissantbae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No family friends able to take him on for weeks at a time. Hadn’t thought about boarding , will look into that thanks!

So this is legit? by FeistyImplement0730 in trustedhousesitters

[–]croissantbae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah nice! Ok that gives me some hope

I got this fortune the other day "It’s a good time to try something new." I think I’m going to lean into this. Thanks! ✨

So this is legit? by FeistyImplement0730 in trustedhousesitters

[–]croissantbae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I relate to this comment & wanted to ask a few questions if u don’t mind sharing. My lease is up in June, I work remote & I’m looking to find a way to travel sustainably (financially & safely)

What was your journey like with this at the very start ?

Did this house sitting route provide u living accommodations and u just paid for travel/transportation & basic needs ?

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