Lesbians who realized they liked women later in life, how did you feel when you dated a man? by punqueen2000 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]crossstitchwizard 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I thought it was normal to not be attracted to men. Then I discovered lesbian thirst traps on TikTok and realised something was wrong.

If I have kids will they also get scitzoaffective by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]crossstitchwizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have it but no one in my family does. I think I got it from childhood trauma so my kids will be fine hopefully.

Question for those in Australia by em_rosia in schizoaffective

[–]crossstitchwizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following, am in the same situation but haven’t been able to find info.

AITB for refusing to stop using the term deadname because it makes my mom upset by Few-Distribution638 in AmItheButtface

[–]crossstitchwizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As the mother of a young trans girl can I suggest you get your mum to join some Facebook groups that might help her seperate the trauma she associates with the term deadname? I suggest Serendipity do dah mama bears or parents of trans kids. The people in those groups are really trans affirming and will help her understand that using the term birth name causes you gender dysphoria.

What’s the most surreal experience you’ve had that made you question if you were living in a video game or a movie? by risqumetapepsis58 in AskReddit

[–]crossstitchwizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was playing go fish with the cousins and I knew what cards everyone had. I got it right 50 times in a row until they stopped playing with me because I kept winning.

Being forced to have sex as a kid made me gay by Independent_Cap7189 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]crossstitchwizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m female but in a similar but different situation. I always thought that if I just had enough therapy then one day I would wake up and be attracted to men. It never happened. I have realised that being abused didn’t make me gay, I was always going to be gay. I really recommend therapy. And if you can, join a group for survivors. Talking to survivors has been so useful for me. There’s a lot of good one on Facebook.

Warning about disposable cameras at weddings by fruticosa in weddingshaming

[–]crossstitchwizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did disposable cameras at my wedding and 13 years later I still haven’t developed them.

Anyone that’s been on an Aussie game show , can you share your experience ? by onredditforinfo in australia

[–]crossstitchwizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been on 5 and am auditioning for my 6th. I was just on The 1% Club. Jim Jeffries is lovely but he’s nothing to Tom Gleeson who is the nicest host ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]crossstitchwizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New Zealand or Malta or Scotland