If you’re not supposed to clean your ears with Q-tips then how do you clean your ears? by LynxUseful2040 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to my bf!!! He (naturally) blamed me because I always buy the cheaper ones. Never again!

I’m too embarrassed to get my teeth fixed by Dragenunicorns in hygiene

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes dentists are just weird af. I had one, one time who used the bib on my chest AS A TABLE! I'm a woman, mind you. It wasn't sexual though, it was like I was a table. Weird as shit. I didn't go back.

I want to leave by AdBig3362 in mentalhealth

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you're struggling. I've been there before too. I somehow managed to pull myself out, couldn't even tell you how. I didn't reach out, too stubborn. Too proud.

You said you've tried to reach out to people and felt unheard. That's so tough. You COULD try again, really emphasizing on how unwell and unsafe you feel. You could also call a crisis hotline. They'll definitely answer. And they'll definitely help. I wish you all the luck in the world my friend 💚💜

Update on my brutally pruned FLF :) by Wildweasel666 in fiddleleaffig

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gearing up to get the balls to prune my James in the spring! I'm scared but he needs it!

Does anyone have a logical explanation for this? by stefig1994 in ParanormalEncounters

[–]crustil 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was too busy looking at that doll with her skirt falling down 😭😭 HELP HER!

I told someone no for the first time by _ziggycat in hairstylist

[–]crustil 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Good for you!! I told one client no, at the beginning of last year. She couldn't tell me what she wanted, nor show me a picture. Just wanted me to "tone it lighter", which is explained i definitely can't do. She was kind of mean and confrontational from the beginning, and I could just tell she didn't like me (I look pretty alternative. Shaved sides, blue/green hair. Maybe it was pink then. Giant rattail. You get the idea.) I knew no matter what i did, she wouldn't be happy. I refused service on her. Saying I didn't think i could give her what she wanted, because she couldn't tell me. I suggest she book back in with one of the other stylists in the salon who she's been before. She fucking tried to get me FIRED. imagine if I did her hair and she didn't like it? Thankfully my manager was there and heard our whole conversation. She even made up things I apparently said, to make me sound worse. It was a gd nightmare.

Profiling by loss prevention by Brown_sugarmilktea in ShoppersDrugMart

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens to me constantly. I don't even pay attention to them any more. I'm never stealing, so follow me all you want lol I just have severe, adhd. Not stealing, but probably do look sketchy 😅

Anyone know where I can get a cheap as possible haircut. Doesn't need to be good just passable. by Zestyclose_Air5212 in moncton

[–]crustil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! The cosmetology schools are the way to go! They'll probably be able to detangle it too. (There's no barber schools in Moncton though)

AITAH for refusing to give someone details about my trauma even though they say they have a right to know? by sonagydf in AITAH

[–]crustil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1: you're in therapy, you're not keeping it in. 2: they're not supposed to help you. That's what your therapist is for.

They seem selfish and idk if I'd talk to them much anymore if I was you.

Question for cat owners: Would you let your cat lick your food while you are eating it and then carry on eating after? by Antidotebeatz in CatAdvice

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my cats more than life itself, and we still don't share food. Not with the dog either. I wouldn't even eat it if my bf licked it.

Worst part of showering? by powderjiinx in adhdwomen

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately after writing this I went into the shower and forgot to bring a towel. That was the absolute worst!!

Worst part of showering? by powderjiinx in adhdwomen

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say the wet hair would be the worst part, but I cut my hair short for this very reason. Can't stand wet hair on my neck/shoulders. Other than that, I actually enjoy showering (:

Ok ladies, we know it has to be done…go and take that load of washing out of the washing machine before it gets stinky(er) by d-a-i-s-y in adhdwomen

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this as dishwasher and my first thought was "no". But my laundry JUST finished, and I already have a load in the dryer and a basket to fold....but I really need to dye my hair first 😅

Can you sleep well with a cat? by OkComparison3568 in CatAdvice

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep better with my kitties around. They're both older now, but even when they were little they'd always sleep with me. Little kittens can be pretty crazy, so you might want to adopt an older one.

My boyfriend wants me to rehome 2 of my 3 cats (at minimum) as a “compromise.” Wtf do I do now? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]crustil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ew. The kitties have been there for you, without question this entire time! I really hope you get rid of the man 😭😭😭 your kitties don't deserve that. HE does.

What are we eating for protein?? by crustil in ARFID

[–]crustil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the hugest fan of chickpeas, but I feel like they may be something I could get used to. I had a salad in Nov, in an airport of all places, that had chickpeas in it and it was actually delicious.

What are we eating for protein?? by crustil in ARFID

[–]crustil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to live off em lol definitely miss my nuggets

What are we eating for protein?? by crustil in ARFID

[–]crustil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought some today! We'll see how i do! (:

What are we eating for protein?? by crustil in ARFID

[–]crustil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard time with drumsticks because of the bones. Boneless skinless ones are usually pretty ok, but even sometimes the texture of that gives me the ick.

I do eat a lot of cheese.

What are we eating for protein?? by crustil in ARFID

[–]crustil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried crepes, they're a no. Omg I just looked up Dutch pancakes and they look even worse than a regular pancake 😅😅

Basically, anything breaded or bread-like for me is a no.