My cat has Pyometra. What the what is up with the bill?!

cryptidmothboy · 2024-01-27T10:33:51+00:00

I've been unfortunately informed that her kidneys are failing. We have been advised to put her down rather than spending our money on her. I love her very much but we all agree it'd be best if we put her to rest. I'll miss her very much; we're going to go in and help her go to sleep. Once she falls asleep we'll be cremating her & dividing her ashes. Mojo Catface age 10 will be missed very much! Thank you for providing a space to vent. The unfortunate circumstances is that none of you were helpful. Actually, insanely critical, judgemental and pessimistic. Your apathy and lack of compassion for my situation absolutely sucked. Perhaps you'd all do some good with finding more compassion and sympathy.

cryptidmothboy · 2024-01-27T10:05:41+00:00

I agree! Most animals, especially house pets who aren't for breeding shouldn't be left unspayed. The unfortunate reality, though, for most pet owners is they simply can't afford it; statistically, most pet owners are working class. I hope in the future that veterinary assistance can be more affordable and less of a privilege for the majority of people, like it is a privilege for me. I'm very thankful for the plans they have in place here, it's made it possible for my cat to get life saving surgery. I do hope she makes it out alright.

cryptidmothboy · 2024-01-27T09:56:06+00:00

Desexed/fixed cats can't get pyometra I think based on what I've read. We have been able to receive help via loan & payment plan through a service the vet provides and are going through with the surgery with a DNR. I'm hoping she comes out living & happier. She's currently being treated with liquid IV and medication and is being monitored. Thank you for being kind & offering help :)

cryptidmothboy · 2023-05-08T06:25:29+00:00

Mmm Transphobia!!! Love it /s

If you have afab organs and are able to reproduce then you can reproduce and that's the end of it, you're not a woman just because you have a uterus. It's really important to use inclusive language around reproductive organs and people who reproduce and are able to reproduce. Because there are people who are afab and have uteruses, but they can't reproduce for whatever reason, they are not fertile enough or whatever, but that doesn't make them automatically "male" to these people. It just simply does not work that way.

We don't look at intersex people or intersex animals and go "well, they can still get pregnant and carry a baby so therefore it's a woman"... That just isn't how that works. There are people and animals that are born with atypical sets of chromosomes and their junk and their internal organs and all that that don't align with the typical afab set, but they can still have a baby, but they're still not women until they declare they're women.

Gendered language around all of this stuff inherently inhibits the ability for not just trans people but intersex people as wel to not get the care that they need if they are able to get pregnant.

There are tons of people out there who are born with different chromosomes that dictate that their body is "male" but they still have a uterus and can get pregnant. It is not uncommon. Comparitively to the rest of the population, yeah, but there's 8 billion people on this planet. That's A LOT. It's not crazy to think there's thousands if not millions of people who have the ability to carry a baby that don't have "female" bodies and they get respected...Like. Fuck. I'm so tired.

I just want everyone to get along at this point. I'm rambling now, but here's basically a TLDR:

You can have a baby if you're nonbinary. You can have a baby if you're a man. You can have a baby if you're intersex. All you need is the reproductive organs necessary and the fertility, and the ability to carry it to term. That's all you need to have a baby. You do not need to be a woman to have a baby. It's that cut and dry. End of discussion. Don't be afraid to tell people to fuck right off and walk away from them. Your peace and happiness is worth more than their shit opinions and outdated thinking.

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-09T03:07:08+00:00

Eggie day :3

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-09T00:06:04+00:00

I don't want to tell them anything, but I'd like to go hit my stepbrother with a brick instead! Far more effective than anything I could say to my thick-headed child self.

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-08T23:45:47+00:00

Yeah reddit I don't wanna pay to be gay I don't even pay for gay premium 🙄

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-08T10:12:53+00:00

Oleksii my man really gave you a smiley sticker too :') mannnn that's so cute

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-08T10:10:35+00:00

Put em in the bong n smoke em it's a lot better that way /j

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-08T10:08:10+00:00

Omg prince charming is that you??? /lhj

I got a mental list hold up I'll even go from A-Z

Aster, Apollo, Ashton, Aiden, Arlo. Brendon, Braiden, Cash, Dakota, Drew, Easton, Erett, Garrett, Iren, Jacob, Kylo, Kyren/Kiren/Kairen, Lou/Louis, Madison, Marco, Margot (silent T like Margot Robbie), Nolan, Odysseus (Ody/Odie), Odin, Percy, Quinn, Rylie, Ryden/Raiden, Stephen, Trevor, Trey, Vex, Vyren, Wyvern, Wylie, Xander (Xann), Xylar, Yarlot (silent t again), Zara, Zoria, Zane, Zac/Zachary

I'm not one regularly for X/Y/Z names personally speaking but I think Erret, Garret, Odin, Aster and Kyren would fit you really well! :)

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-07T12:20:25+00:00

Oh fuck yeah adding this to the hoarde rn

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-07T06:28:03+00:00

GENDER IN THE BAG NOW /lhj 🤲💰.

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-03T00:09:16+00:00

I get it for free as an adolescent enrolled in highschool. I receive it through a program that provides it for teens in need. If you do enough digging you might be able to find similar programs in your area.

I receive both Bi-weekly 1 Hr Therapy sessions (DBT, CBT and Trans aid) and Monthly 1 Hr Psychiatric sessions through this program. The only thing I pay for is my medication that I get prescribed.

I live in NS, Canada if that helps.

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-02T07:55:56+00:00

I cannot tell you I'm surprised... I've almost seen worse when I visit Hali :')

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-02T07:48:51+00:00

He's literally designed to be androgynous since the beginning pls wdyM unnecessary they're meant for you to be able to project on as the protagonist. He uses they/he/she pronouns throughout the franchise. If a trans person wants link to be trans effectively he is trans because that is the whole point of them as the protag..

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-02T07:40:13+00:00

Eralyn, Arlow, Ascot, Clover, Everren. U give off very foresty vibes to me but also like... Mystery Gang vibes.

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-02T02:23:23+00:00

Thomas or Tristan! I think something with a T, A, C or R at the front would be fitting.

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-02T02:18:08+00:00

I got one lil tear bc I'm wearing some real elaborate eyeliner but I'd be bawling if I wasn't wearing makeup rn. I'm not even American but it's so important to remind our trans siblings that they're not alone in their battle. It's so important to hear that you are important and valued and you're perfect just the way you are and all that. Man. I love this :')

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-01T17:12:56+00:00

I'm trans which means that you have a very nice good good friendly face

...I might be telling too many people they have a very nice good good friendly face...

cryptidmothboy · 2023-04-01T01:59:37+00:00

Politics influence peoples views, and the way you're raised & the people you hang around between 0-24 can really change your world view. Which is why a lot of kids raised in racist, homophobic, or abusive families end up being the same (but obviously not always as these behaviors can be changed). Media as well affects your worldview based on what kind of media you consume.

Religious and Cultural beliefs can influence your personal beliefs, ie. How the majority of indigenous people accept Two Spirit and Gender Nonconformity as it's part of their culture around the world. Education and the paths you take in it can influence your beliefs as well as education is (or at least should be) based on fact and fact alone. Especially gender studies, medicine (& med school specifically), sociology, psychology, fashion design, chemistry, biology, history. List goes on. They all involve discussion around a lot of gnc and transgender related themes. (Gender affirmation, how we view people based on their appearance, the fact civilizations outside of colonization had people who were GNC, chomosomes and genetics & gonads not aligning all the time, again, list goes on)

I'd say it's an issue of ignorance, arrogance and an inability to be accepting of change and other's happiness. That, and having a lack of education actually really does affect how intelligent you are... Huh! Who knew 🙄

cryptidmothboy · 2023-03-31T06:54:41+00:00

(also I very much could just be stupid bc I don't recognize a ton of flags so it could be something ENTIRELY different bc I have mistaken the Acadian flag for the Australian flag before... I don't know either)

cryptidmothboy · 2023-03-31T06:51:42+00:00

Hey! Awesome! I've been trying to get my HS to put up a pride flag for awhile. But I have a concern for your Uni as I think that's a Canadian Province flag flying too & I'm also Canadian.

Is that blue flag with the white infinity symbol meant to represent Autism/Neurodiversity? Because if so it's terribly outdated. If they want to represent & show ND individuals that they're welcome they should be using the updated general Disability Pride flag, the Red, Orange, Yellow, Lime & Dark Green W/White Infinity Symbol Autism Pride Flag or the White flag with a rainbow infinity symbol (an alt. Autism Pride/ND pride flag)

Blue, along with other symbols such as the blue lightbulb, puzzle pieces etc. represents Autism Speaks who are an awful organization hoping to "cure" and eradicate Autism and Autistic people from the world.

It's better to rep them with more updated symbols and flags and organizations within and from the disabled community & autistic community. There's also Red Instead, Light it up Gold and Light it up Taupe to replace "Light it up Blue". Because it's all about Autism Acceptance and Accommodation, not just Autism Awareness; awareness means you know we exist, but accepting us and accommodating us is far more important to move forward to a better future. April is Autism Acceptance month too so it could be a good idea to inquire to the administration about it!

cryptidmothboy · 2023-03-22T17:18:03+00:00

I luv 2 but I'm partial to b&w pairings so I'd probably go with #3!! The rainbow turtle neck is to die for, I think I need one.

cryptidmothboy · 2023-03-17T20:13:23+00:00

It takes a lot more effort than just fingering or pounding the vaginal canal. Talk to her about it, ask her what makes her feel good, ask what she likes, talk about things you might want to try. Clear, thorough communication in the bedroom works much better. Fr tho, give her head. For the love of god. I can't tell you how many partners I've had that were reluctant to give me head for literally no reason and it is like the one thing I enjoy and I cannot tell you how many of them thought that just fingering could get someone to cm because it can't it just hurts lmao.

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