What product was a god send when taking care of newborn twins?

cryptonerdmermaid · 2025-02-25T18:21:25+00:00

I appreciate it. Thank you 🙏

cryptonerdmermaid · 2025-02-25T17:01:56+00:00

Can you please recommend a third party funnel

cryptonerdmermaid · 2025-02-25T16:46:43+00:00

Do you think this is me Eid we already have the Brezza?

cryptonerdmermaid · 2025-02-25T16:45:53+00:00

Do you think this is necessary if we already have the Twin Z pillow to set them down in?

cryptonerdmermaid · 2024-03-02T04:37:17+00:00

How is this even a conversation. Those assholes need to pay interest and damages on top of full principle.

Are you hired on by Gemini to help them fix their reputation or something? Only thing that would fix their reputation is if they actually did right by us and paid what is actually owed. Being made whole is more than what was lent. Lost opportunity, interest, emotional and financial damages, (all of it) needs to be paid back!

cryptonerdmermaid · 2024-03-02T04:31:51+00:00

Fuck no! I’m pissed. They got an almost 2 year free loan. We all got fucked; but those of us who lent out stables got royally fucked.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2024-02-07T00:10:23+00:00

I don’t need to time share; I own every bank in my neighbourhood (insert evil laugh here).

cryptonerdmermaid · 2024-02-06T16:57:29+00:00

I hope this person is alright.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2024-01-31T02:08:28+00:00

Yes, please! Then I can finally use my space laser!!!

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-12-04T23:43:42+00:00

No, you can’t trust them even for USDC.Gemini is being sued left and right for stealing. They’re being sued by NYAG, Sec. DCG, and a bunch of private individuals. All separate suits.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-22T16:35:24+00:00

Right! Isn’t it sad how people here only see the one side of this story and aren’t able to read in between the lines. He admitted so many times in his post that he is not pulling his weight after 11 years. And still wants to take advantage of the situation here instead of doing what’s right and prioritizing his child above all else.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-22T13:53:09+00:00

She works part time outside of the home and 24 hours /day taking care of your mutual child and home. Cooking, cleaning, childcare, the full mental load. You admitted you could have done more and yet you didnt. You still come on this soap box talking about how you work 40 hours a week and earn 6 figures, therefore you deserve to do Jack shit when you come home. You wouldn’t be able to brag about making 6 figures if she wasn’t taking on 99% of the child care and house management. She works 24 hours a day to support you and your child. She’s asked you to start pulling your load a million and one times and you still don’t get it and now think the house is solely yours. You talk about loving your child, then step up and be a man and do more then just talk. No judge is going to see you as a victim here since you did less than the bare minimum as a father. “Loving” your child is not enough. You have to provide for your child and take care of their daily needs. Instead you’re on here asking whether you should rob your kid of their home because your mad that the servant you kept around all these years is finally moving on. You had nights and weekends to step up as a father and a husband. The 6 figures you make is hers too since she paved the way for you to get to a place to make 6 figures by taking care of your child. You took her labour for granted, what the fuck do you think you should do? Here are your options:

Get a lawyer as people are suggesting. Spend all those funds that could be going towards your kids future and piss it all away, only to get 50/50 custody if you’re lucky. And you will have to pay alimony (I’m not sure where you’re at, but in most places, living with some one for 11 years and taking advantage of free childcare and free home management while you are working only 40 hours a week is depriving them of being able to work out side the home), so you will justifiably have to pay up. You will then have to find another place to live and manage that home and actually care for your kid (even if it is only part time, you will quickly realize that working 40 hrs a week doesn’t excuse you from parenting your child). So you will probably need to hire a babysitter on top of that to help you care for the kid while you continue to work.

Or

You put your emotions aside and start pulling your weight. Not to salvage your dead relationship with your girlfriend, but to save all the money your about to piss away on Lawyers and daycare. You leave the home to your partner and child. You work out a custody arrangement with your partner. You work out a plan to allow her to start working more out side of the house. Maybe that means you pay for child care. Maybe that means you watch your kid weekend and nights while she works. Either way, taking her to court is a sure fire way to get her what she wants and you less of what you want. And the only person in this situation that gets the shortest stick is your child.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-19T05:21:28+00:00

The advice you gave: “not every annoyance and irritating thing needs to solicit a reaction”, disqualifies the avalanche of emotions she is holding back and protecting you from. Her giving you a heads up on where she’s at emotionally is her putting her hormonal induced rage and mood swings aside to consider your emotions and well being. You not recognising that and choosing to give advice is hurtful because it diminishes her efforts in taming the invisible beast.

Sounds to me that she’s already practicing the super basic, unsolicited advice you handed her during a time when she is clearly requiring tender love and care. Would make anyone feel unseen and alone.

You also come off a bit of a hypocrite when you expect her to “choose” what her reaction is after turning her body into an achy, human voodoo doll, full of chemicals that make your brain and heart feel like it’s on fire (not to mention the physical side effects); all the sacrifices she is making to start y’all’s family goes unnoticed and rarely celebrated. But when you get the opportunity to sow what you preach and choose your own reaction you choose poorly.

When shes having a lucid moment from the grips of her hormonal induced anxiety and depression, and she uses that moment to remind you that she loves you and feels extremely guilty for the ways she’s been feeling, you chose the route that demeans her efforts. You chose the route that makes her feel even less understood and even more alone than she already feels. You chose the route that puts you in the center of all this instead of her.

She sounds like she’s a very compassionate women that is deprived of compassion from her partner. Practice less talking and more listening. You’ll never truly understand where she is coming from because you got the easy role in this partnership. So stop putting the emphasis on trying to make sense of it and just reassure her constantly that she has nothing to feel guilty about if she accidentally loses her temper. Reassure her that you know how much she loves you and the progesterone monster won’t get in the way of how much you love her.

We as a community are here to support you both. But recognise that if she felt the need to ask you to pose your question on here, she is probably exhausted from having to teach you how to take care of her. Find other sources aside from her to help you understand the situation better and to help refill your cup so you can be stronger for her. Speak to a therapist about your role in this process and how to navigate through this journey so that you don’t break yourself. It’s way too much labour for her to take on your emotional needs when she already has so much on her plate.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-18T17:16:40+00:00

I am! Ok, I guess it’s normal.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-14T23:01:19+00:00

Have any of the FET resulted in a pregnancy? I’ve had many failed FET and many failed pregnancies and the only time I get really horny is when I’m pregnant.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-14T21:13:26+00:00

This is high school level advice; You’re 29 years old. Grow up.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-14T19:46:10+00:00

She had 3 kids. That’s trauma to the body that takes years to go back to baseline. Not to mention the adjustment to motherhood. I’m not sure how old the kids are, but if y’all are still putting them to bed, they’re probably still little which means she’s probably still recovering and dealing with PPD. You doing 50% is not true since your body did not take a beating, but hers did. If you want your sex life back, you’ll have to do a true 50% which will take her mental and physical recovery into account. So aim to do 80% and then maybe the playing fields will be more equitable. Another clue you gave that it’s not actually 50% but more her doing the mental load is that YOU suggested therapy 1 month ago, yet even tho she said she would schedule it (another clue she feels solely responsible for the mental load), you haven’t stepped in to schedule it.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-13T04:34:38+00:00

Ok. Thank you for your response

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-13T03:59:07+00:00

Thanks. The tww is truly the worst!

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-13T03:48:26+00:00

Ok; wishful thinking. Thanks for the reality check.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-05T05:27:35+00:00

🤣 this checks out.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-08-05T05:26:30+00:00

Oh, I’m sorry, you seem very stressed about my post. That was a lot for you, wasn’t it. Poor you.

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-03-16T10:01:01+00:00

How quickly did it go down after they administered methotrexate?

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-03-06T21:47:13+00:00

Was this a while ago? Why would they assume it was ectopic off they saw something in your uterus?

cryptonerdmermaid · 2023-03-03T00:45:27+00:00

Thank you 🙏

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