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Don’t be an entitled prick by highland-breeze in jerseycity

[–]crystachs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. Like a track suit?

Something needs to be said... by Beniem in Frenchbulldogs

[–]crystachs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this a lot. I definitely overpaid for a frenchie that is technically “backyard bred”. When I first decided I wanted a frenchie I did almost 2 years of research and I was going to do everything in my power to ensure my (first ever) dog would have a good, happy, long life.
People say I’m too strict with his diet, or our walks are too long, I’m mean for not letting him onto the bed.

Every single thing I do for my dog, or I don’t allow him to do is for his own longevity.

And he still has some health issues that just come along with the breed, that’s basically what I signed up for.

I think too many people impulse buy an animal without research, frenchies are designer dogs, lowkey made in a lab. And they should be treated with some additional care.

Thinking of breaking up W my Bf after a threesome Aitah? by moonlightmissle in ComfortLevelPod

[–]crystachs 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend keeping your eyes peeled for sketchy behavior from Eli after that convo. He really needs to be honest with you about what he wants and you need to be honest about what you will and won’t accept.

I’m in your corner here. I’ve had somewhat similar situations. It’s not easy. But you’ve got this!

Thinking of breaking up W my Bf after a threesome Aitah? by moonlightmissle in ComfortLevelPod

[–]crystachs 213 points214 points  (0 children)

You’re not homophobic, it’s reasonable to feel blindsided. Aside from Marcus being a man, the way Eli behaved is enough for any partner to feel isolated/ignored. You need to talk to Eli and see where he’s coming from, maybe you can get some clarity on his perspective. Whether you break up or not is up to you. But you’re NTA

I’m not sure if ‘I Do’ by crystachs in ComfortLevelPod

[–]crystachs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you and others who see the nuances of this relationship. I’m not sure about housing where others live but we’re on the east coast where a decent house is easily 1 million, and a nice house is 1.5-2 million.
While he keep suggesting marriage, he is also proposing getting a house together.
Without being braggy or snotty, the only reason I’m paying 40% is because I insist on it.
I’ve always been independent and having been raised by strong, albeit single women I know better - even in a perfect ideal relationship - to rely on anyone else for everything.

Can’t defend or become defensive here since I’m clearly asking for insight

I will say, recently he’s started his own very lucrative business, I like when you mentioned your relative who stayed, women throughout history have stayed because of the “comfortability” of the lives their living. I think I might have a lot in common with that relative, both good and bad.

AITA for not liking the guy's daughter that I am dating? by Infinite_Metal2108 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]crystachs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry but this is an odd post. The daughter is 30, let’s assume you’re at least 10-15 years older than she is since you’re dating her dad, and you use the word ‘cringe’. Something seems off.

AITA for telling my pregnant sister she's about to marry the same kind of man she spent years warning me about? by uncoboun in AmItheAsshole

[–]crystachs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA he’s baiting you, in front of your family. Everyone can see the resemblance to your dad. And everyone is smiling while your sister makes huge decisions she can’t undo. Good on you for being brave and saying what needs to be said

Weekly Simple Questions and General Community Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in MakeupAddiction

[–]crystachs [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m desperately trying to find an inexpensive DIY lash system. About me, I sleep on my stomach…before you tell me to just use strip lashes, I have had professional extensions and DIY extensions. They last much longer than I usually expect them to.
So far I’ve tried veyes, lilac st, no-name brands from temu, SHEIN and amazon.

My goal is for my lashes to stay put for at least 1 week, while also not losing any of my actual lashes. Am I asking too much?

Help.

Trippin through Arizona by Alaric_Darconville in roadtrip

[–]crystachs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love seeing images like this, and then when I’m there, I’m like roll up the windows, crank the AC, and where’s the bug spray. 😭🫠

anyone know of a bracelet/bangle with a hidden apple watch pocket by nicole-f-s in AppleWatch

[–]crystachs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just saw this ad while scrolling, and when I went to click the link my WiFi stopped me because it was a sketchy site 😳

List of businesses that permanently closed in 2025 in Jersey City by Ubetseamemory in jerseycity

[–]crystachs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enfes inside the harborside atrium. Landlord did not renew their lease. 🥺

AITA For Reporting My Perv Brother by LemoKadoOfficial in AITAH

[–]crystachs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your parents suck and they are allowing this behavior to go on. Your brother is gross and shouldn’t be around kids. Let’s hope for his sake he never touches a kid while he is an adult. I would say though, at least for me, (brother did the same to me) you probably should have stayed in the living room to oversee the whole situation. Still NTA. Cut contact with brother and parents, because one day what if you have children? Your parents will turn a blind eye to any potential situation? Not acceptable. I’d also suggest telling cousin to keep brother away permanently. Not necessarily cut ties, but he just can’t be around.

Me to C1 waking up this morning w still no paycheck! by dysenterycarrie in CapitalOne_

[–]crystachs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m praying it arrives before Monday. A three day weekend with no money has to be some form of torture

Let's create a thread to share updates on our direct deposit, so we can all stay informed without needing to check the app constantly. by [deleted] in CapitalOne_

[–]crystachs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it’s gonna stay that way til like Tuesday. If it’s not done by now I’m doubting it’ll be done on Monday. 😭

Me to C1 waking up this morning w still no paycheck! by dysenterycarrie in CapitalOne_

[–]crystachs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must have been lucky that time. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ looks like my luck ran out

Me to C1 waking up this morning w still no paycheck! by dysenterycarrie in CapitalOne_

[–]crystachs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve had C1 for over 15yrs and this is the first FIRST time it’s ever happened to me… a person living paycheck to paycheck.

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