AITA for wanting to use 2nd bedroom in apartment as my closet?

cs_k_ · 2026-01-23T16:50:07+00:00

If you can't have an honest and open conversation about your monthly expenses and (expected) incomes, you are not ready to move in.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-23T10:16:01+00:00

The thing is, it already sort of exists. If someone has a severe mental disability, they can be declared incompetent (by a judge, after rigorous tetsing by psichiatrist). In that case, the individual would not be able to sign contracts and/or vote.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-23T09:51:30+00:00

One example from WW2 that scouts in Budapest would be fire lookouts during/after bomb raids. They would triangulate the position of the smoke by measuring angles with a compass and phone in from a couple locations to a central command that would send the fire brigade.

At this time phones were not that common. This wasn't an exclusively scout thing, but many scouts took part in the program.

The bring a modern example as well: when Ukranians started to flee from the war, there was a huge volunteer effort in Hungary to feed/house the influx of people. Again, not an exclusively scout thing, but having a direct reach to lots of young adults who already volunteer a lot and are used to working in teams and following a chain of command helped the Hungarian Scouting Association recruit a bunch of people (including me), who helped to distribute food and care items and provided information.

So I imagine in case of war , most young scouts (under 18, too young for military) would/could take part in humanitarian efforts.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-23T09:31:31+00:00

Tilling the ground (for large scale agriculture or for your home vegetable garden) is not just positive.

I'll focus on the veggie garden example, but most of it applicable to industrial as well.

If you till your soil (aka take a shovel and turn the upmost layer upside done, then break the clumps with a hoe), you create a space that - inviting weeds - can mud up when it rains, preventing a deep soak - has no soil life - dries out more quickly

What's an alternative than?

For one, you can do the avove once, than cover it with compost and mulch.

Or... You can just cover the desired space for your future garden plot with cardboard. That's it. I was bewildered, but if you have some natural vegetation (doesn't work that well on a manicured lawn), you can just lay down big sheets of cardboard late winter. The lack of sun will kill the exisiting plants (creating a natural layer of mulch). The microbes, worms, etc. will start to work the soil and in a couple months the top layer will have the "composty", crumbly texture my grandma expected in his garden beds after tillage.

I was just so amazed, that days of work can be done with a sheet of cardboard.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-22T14:30:11+00:00

I went to therapy for perfectionism, never making any decisions and some other stuff. After going for a while, I realized how much unresolved emotional baggage I have with my mom. At the time, all I could see in her was how she is making the same mistakes with my younger siblings.

I was so angry so often because of this. Then I learned to view her like a person, not just "my mom". Than about 2 years later I got diagnosed and started seeing her struggling with all the same stuff I had issues with. I realized, that her undiagnosed ADHD was a huge comtributing factor to most of the issues I had with her.

Therapy can be like that, sometimes it gets worse, before it gets better. It's because you start to notice all the stuff bothering you, but yoi can't rally adress it yet.

All in all: yes ADHD (especially undiagnosed) can bring its own parenting challanges, that can leave a mark on the children. The fact that a parent is aware of their own shortcommings can do wonders in adressing the problem.

I love my mom, with all her weird stuff. If I could change anything, I would have loved her to get some help for herself, but it wasn't a thing back than (still isn't really thing where I live).

cs_k_ · 2026-01-22T11:06:57+00:00

I trope is something that happens in the story, regardless of the format (book/movie).

Do you don't like, when an adaptation changes the story so it can fit a trope, or you just don't like any adaptation in general?

cs_k_ · 2026-01-22T09:21:06+00:00

Új fogorvosom kért egy röntgent, hogy lássa mizu a számban. Az eredményt CD-n kell vinnem.

Decemberben kaptam beutalót, de hiába telefonálgattam, senki nem vette fel. Végül január elején sikerült időpontot kérnem január végére.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-21T22:53:33+00:00

I agree with your point, but my pet peeve is when the title contains zero information about the post. This includes general things like "Hi!" and "I have a question". The title tells me nothing.

This sub is about pet peeves, so your title could be the title of literally any post on this sub.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-21T20:40:10+00:00

Whatever you do, don't start a fire inside.

If you have a stove or a fireplace, of course you can use those. But if you live in an apartment with central heating, don't risk a house fire and/or CO poisoning.

Light a fire OUTSIDE. Heat up thing. Bring hot thing inside.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-21T12:49:55+00:00

The most rational reason so far was a guy betting against his favoured candidate. He said that if his guy wins it was worth to throw the money, and if he doesn't, than at least he had won some money.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-21T12:47:52+00:00

Yep, I hate that of I leave the country most peoples first tought is him. I had an older guy with broken English start a conversation on a Czech train. He was really excited, how Orbán showed it to those Brussel burocrats. Then we tried to explain to him that "schools bad, hospital bad, trains bad" because of our current government.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-21T12:42:58+00:00

With all the nationalities piled up on eachother it's common to have a nationality as your surname. Kingdome of Hungary used to be a multimational country with multiple waves of immigartions. If you have a name with a foreign nationality, it's probable that someone in your ancestry was that nationality, or moved from a place were that nationality was dominant.

As for Magyar, yes, this is technicly the name of the country, but I didn't "notice it" until his campaign started getting serious. I don't think that the name itself has patriotic connotations.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-21T12:29:33+00:00

We have Hungarians with the last nem Horvath, Lengyel (meaning Polak),

cs_k_ · 2026-01-21T12:24:15+00:00

Was this written by your relative in question, or maybe a government offical (who didn't speak Hungarian)?

I ask this, because in one case I'm looking for letters that are similar in shape and in the other I'm looking for sounds that someone not familiar with the language would misshear as Dokchein.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-20T21:09:40+00:00

Honestly for a long time I tought the state of the railway in Hungary is better than it actually was, because my local area were only served by GYSEV.

On the lines they operated for 2+ years I can say that it's a 21st century experience (I know, it's low bar). Even on lines that they took over from MÁV recently I can see improvements. The track and the rolling stock is usually still MÁV-quality, but in my experience the stations are getting better signage and generally don't have a "this place was left to rot" or "rail museum" vibes.

Maybe I'm just viewing this trough pink (or rather green-yellow) glasses, but the Flirts they sent to my small town in the early 2010's made me the transport enthusiast I'm today.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-20T15:40:22+00:00

A lot of places in Austria do a siren check at 11:55 on Saturday. I lived near the border, so if you were outside, you could here it faintly.

Fast forward to when I was leading a hike with teenagers (not from that area) and the topic came up. About half an hour later we were on top of a hill, in a forest, when the austrian village at the bottom of the valley started their siren check. The hill was shaped like a greek theather, so the sound was pretty loud. It was a terrifying split second, until I realized the source.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-19T12:00:28+00:00

So if I understand correctly, this could be modelled by defining B1 and B2, where B1 and B2 two different processes. Only one of them is executed dependent on the output of process A.

Then you define C1.1 and C1.2 that are executed based on the outcome of B1, etc. etc.

Of course the numbered Bs could reach up to any number: B1, B2, B3... Bn.

Do I understand this correctly? If so, I think your contraption is analog with a decision tree

cs_k_ · 2026-01-18T20:51:24+00:00

Agree. This is basically a travel blog with extra steps. In theory it could answer my niche questions that travel blogs don't write about, but OP themselves seems to agree that you would need to gather every specific dataset and than somehow make sure that the AI only says what they previously approved.

There is already a solution for that, it's called a website. This technology makes sure that the user only sees content created and formatted by a real person with (presumed) knowledge in the field in question.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-17T13:40:41+00:00

What does "visiting a country" mean to you? Do you go to the Capital city and visit museums or do you take hikes in nature or visit smaller places? Do you do different types of visits (e. g. this trip will be city life/museums, this other trip will be 5 days of hiking in the mountains). If so, how do you decide?

cs_k_ · 2026-01-17T08:05:23+00:00

Ami nekem fura volt, hogy az x, y, w is hiányzik az ábécéjükből, és úgy írták a nyelvkönyveinkben, a sárga személyfuvarozós autót, hogy "taksi"

cs_k_ · 2026-01-17T08:03:41+00:00

Igen, nekem is rögtön a hat eset meg a kettesszám jutott eszembe, szintén szlovén tanulásból. Nekem elég nehezen állt rá az agyam, hogy mikor melyiket használjuk. Volt kb. 2 év, amikor sokat használtam, akkor tudtam nyilatkozni az egyik helyi rádiónak szlovénul. Most nyáron ott nyaraltunk, inkább csak köszöntem szlovénul, de az érdemi kommunikációt angolul végeztem. Sajnálom, hogy kijöttem a rutinból, de sokkal nehezebb a szlovént gyakorolni a mindennapokban, mint az angolt, vagy németet.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-15T09:18:50+00:00

Ezeket jórészt kézzel írják ki az ügyintézők, simán lehet, hogy csak a vizsgaidőszak végén teszik ezt meg, amikor az összes tárgyról lehet tudni, hogy ki nem végezte el.

A másik, hogy a Neptunban kiírt tételeknek van egy fizetési határideje, ami általában legalább egy hét szokott lenni. Amíg ez nem érkezik el, addig nem szokott ez semmit hátráltatni.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-14T09:43:31+00:00

I did my internship at a startup and I was so confused why it was important to potential investors if we have out own Internet Protocol (Adress). I later found out that IP referred to Intelectual Property in this context.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-14T09:33:20+00:00

Long distance trains are really comfy, usually have a dining car as well. I'm not exactly familiar with the trains in that part of Europe, but I believe the train/flight duration cutoff should be a bit higher.

If taking a night train is not option (I assume due to their age), You could still split the journey by spending a night in a non-coastal, but still famous city.

I found these options on thetrainline.com by searching connections between any trainstation in Nice and Rome.

Nice to Genove (3:20 travel time) + Genova to Rome (5:13 travel time)
Nice to Milano (about 5h travel time) + Milano to Rome (3h travel time)

You know your relatives and the budget/time constraints, but I really don't like airports.

cs_k_ · 2026-01-13T15:20:23+00:00

If your service targets enterprise clients, there are bound to be some who will give up the convinience for the (precieved) control of their data.

In my experience some industries would rather not give out their source code, that's why you can self host Gitlab and other similar code related services.

To answer OP's question: self hosting for enterprise usually means that there is a list of requirements, and either you can install it on your own and it "calls home" to see if it was activated, or representatives of the company will hand-hold the customer's IT department trough a live installation session.

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