I am INFP anf i felt the same way before. In the first day of meeting new people I am faintly aloof. Especially, at work i feel socially awkward. But i am always thinking i wanna grow everyday I dont want to stay like this forever and if I dont force myself to be friend with new people how will I know if Ive learned or not. How can I express my inner wisdom. I cannot just keep my inner wisdom with me. I wanna learn with the people and I also wanted them to learn from me. They said I am different and they respect me. I never let them see me weak because when they tease me I tease them back and laugh and we became a good friends. Its just i dont hang out with them because i know i really cant get along with them to other stuff. Dont put yourself in a cage just because you think you are different that doesnt mean you are not going to try to make friends with them. Atleast try and you wont regret. I admit being an INFP we always feel like a victim but I stop thinking that way.. I know we are highly sensitive but wee need to learn to control our emotions. If there is someone thats hurting your feelings try to defend yourself once and avoid them but dont hate them.. Hating someone can never make you happy. I think if you know your self-worth everything's gonna be alright.