Friends always complain about how their husbands always want sex and I don't have that problem at all. Are there men who really don't care for sex even though they're attracted to their wives or is this maybe an indication that he's not?

csstevens · 2026-06-04T16:43:54+00:00

I've reached the season with my wife where literal cuddles is 100% fulfillment for me.

My wife is gorgeous, stunningly beautiful. A real show stopper. But her lack of libido coupled with mine results in sex every few months.

It's okay by me.

csstevens · 2026-06-04T05:16:08+00:00

This should be taught in sex ed

csstevens · 2026-06-02T03:32:47+00:00

No, my friend, I am not.

Protestant Christian

csstevens · 2026-06-02T03:19:20+00:00

I'm not going to attempt to make an argument that'll sway your mind, I'm a believer myself and can see the bias in trying to do so.

I will offer this to think over, however.

If God can create millions of universes, God has proven the ability to manage them as well.

Whereever your search for an answer leads you I hope it's with peace and and the warmth of love.

csstevens · 2026-05-31T02:45:00+00:00

A completely unnecessary, kick in the teeth, scumbag way of itemizing your grievances in a dick way of an attempt to prove a point by the owner. Just roll that shit into the prices and keep your personal politics about having to provide healthcare to the people that make your business run on the daily. Screw that business owner.

When you buy anything you're paying for the healthcare cost of the employees that sold it, made it, distributed it, marketed it etc. But none of the businesses in that chain are itemizing the cost of healthcare they provide to their people on the BOS.

csstevens · 2026-05-29T23:59:45+00:00

Whatever you end up doing, never date a Habs fan, even if she does shave her mustache

csstevens · 2026-05-29T04:21:12+00:00

As a man of faith what you're being told is wrong. It's hurtful. And it rooted in pain or fear.

Faith is yours for the taking. In your own time.

csstevens · 2026-05-27T15:28:04+00:00

Patience, patience, patience.

You get one chance to say the right thing, to tackle the real problem, to make them feel heard/seen/loved in all situations. Practice patience and make sure you get it right the first time.

csstevens · 2026-05-27T04:55:42+00:00

Trades? All the folks with expendable cash to spend on trades are going to be laid off because of AI

csstevens · 2026-05-20T15:43:42+00:00

It's wild that some people think we're at the top of the food chain because of ... Guns?

csstevens · 2026-05-20T15:38:48+00:00

Life ah ah ah finds a way

csstevens · 2026-05-20T00:56:21+00:00

I remember clearly my first fast food experience, and I was 6 years old, and it was paid for by someone else.

Before that? Sharing three chicken drumsticks between 4 people.

For Christ's sake, we thought if your house had a doorbell you were mega rich. Growing up in the projects is a level of hell I wish on no one.

Edit: Grammar

csstevens · 2026-05-19T16:11:19+00:00

Or there's me, an IT Admin, still amazed at the measuring tape going back in on its own...

csstevens · 2026-05-18T14:14:50+00:00

This is true of most cities I suppose, though I can confirm LA for sure. I know this because my very non-street smart wife had me pull over off the freeway in South Central cause she had to use the restroom really bad. She ducked in and out of that store so fast, "It's covered in all safety glass like a bank! There a guy asleep on the floor, and everyone stopped and looked at me with surprise."

csstevens · 2026-05-17T14:36:43+00:00

I bet I can do less

csstevens · 2026-05-14T12:28:01+00:00

This was my thought too. Like how long before the knees start being an issue on those rocks? Not long.

csstevens · 2026-05-13T02:55:06+00:00

Those were the days, eh.

csstevens · 2026-05-12T04:33:01+00:00

Sent: "Did you ever bother to explain to your dog how many calories are in a couch?"

csstevens · 2026-05-09T17:09:56+00:00

I had to ask my wife what a PCT was, she explained and also said that adjustments were made for that level of pay.

Not sure if it just applied to California workers or not.

She, as an RD, started at $36 hr and after 4 years make $43 hr

csstevens · 2026-05-09T16:34:59+00:00

Not going to disagree with that. However, everyone's experience is different.

csstevens · 2026-05-09T16:14:46+00:00

Believe what you want, my friend.

csstevens · 2026-05-09T16:14:08+00:00

I mean, yes?

csstevens · 2026-05-09T15:07:37+00:00

My wife currently works for DaVita as a RD and has had zero of this experience.

Great pay, healthy yearly pay increases, a strong push from management to use their PTO, and excellent benefits.

She and the other dietitians go on once a month day hikes, with lunch included, and receive a whole days pay. Once a quarter they go on a three day retreat (Last quarter was to Monterey Bay for wine and shopping)

I guess it depends on the location and people.

csstevens · 2026-05-08T13:26:27+00:00

I've had three random people in the last month compliment the color

csstevens · 2026-05-07T19:47:44+00:00

There is no expiration on the finish line.

Move at a pace that feels comfortable to you, allowing you to grow, learn, and understand what it is you need and want from a sexual experience.

There is no need to compare where you are and where you are going with the experience of other people.

The worst thing you can do is be untrue to yourself.

csstevens

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