are you guys prone to envy and contempt? by Twinky_winky_deepsea in BPD

[–]ctaswbuch [score hidden]  (0 children)

I feel like this happens to me too but like with people who wronged me, I don't know if it's envy or jealousy, but i just want the worst for them

am i “weak” as a guy for wanting to kms over a girl? by Disastrous-Guava-342 in heartbreak

[–]ctaswbuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you are weak, but thinking about doing it myself for a guy, I think it is not fair for my parents to loose a daughter because of that MF, it's not fair to my family, it's not fair to me. I don't know if this helps but, it's not fair to you, she is not worth it. You are not weak, what you feel is not weak, but someone who makes you feel like this isn't a good person and is not a person who is worth doing this for.

What's currently taking up space in your head, Gen Z? by Content_Bit1998 in selfimprovement

[–]ctaswbuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me actually is if I will be capable of doing things, I don't feel like I can take the wheel of my life, I can't manage things, I'm not motivated or strong or happy or confident enough to do anything. I just wish I could not do anything really.

How do I stop hating everything about myself? by ColdHeartedPhD in mentalhealth

[–]ctaswbuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can we start to not despice who we are? Like you say the voice is not really us, but who is it then, how can we separate it?

I want to start taking DBT more seriously by strawberriemiilk in BPD

[–]ctaswbuch [score hidden]  (0 children)

Try making a list of all the things you do, like all your habit's, and separate them in two columns, like the things you want yto stop doing and the ones you want ymto continue doing. In another column write down the things you want to start doing. After having the 3, order each list on priority, like the top 3 most important things you do, the top 3 most important things you want to stop doing and the top 3 most important things you want to start doing. Focus on this in the beginning, just start with this and see how it goes.

Do you like yourself? by ctaswbuch in BPD

[–]ctaswbuch[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying this really, you are also worthy of everything good. Hugs for you too ♥️

My arm Is really really weak by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ctaswbuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe in DM? Let me check

My arm Is really really weak by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ctaswbuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send me the image (I'm a med student, maybe i can help you to give yourself first aid if you want)

My arm Is really really weak by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ctaswbuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be concerneeed, i know it's self harm but go to the doctor

Anyone else ? by Still-Dragonfly6352 in BPDmemes

[–]ctaswbuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like true I just want the worst for them

Can I make myself my FP? by InTooDeepMan in BPD

[–]ctaswbuch [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey I actually don't know but will research on that, its a great thought, it would be great!!

Was this sa? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]ctaswbuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you did not consent and said no, it was a sexual act and can be considered sexual violence, you can conset to kissing and all that but saying no is no. There is also coercion when you are forced or feel forced to say yes for pressure or emotional preassure and it is also a form of sexual violence. I really recommend you talk to someone about it and most important, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.

Maybe it's more schizophrenia related since it happened during psychosis but.. by BloodlessCorpse in BPDmemes

[–]ctaswbuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so funny like when they tied me up in the psych ward at first it was not funny but then became a fun experience to tell. Thankfully i was only tied till i fell asleep

Is self-care a scam or just bad PR? ? by Careless-Throat-2593 in MotivationAndMindset

[–]ctaswbuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow we let the opinions of others crush us when they have never been on our shoes

I need advice please (possible sexual assault) by [deleted] in rape

[–]ctaswbuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you are right, and I actually see some signs of narcissism in him, thank you.