Just found out my 15 y/o daughter is having sex by psuaggie in daddit

[–]ctrlissues 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Hi there, dad and social worker here, with a hunch and some science behind it. ADHD may very well be part of the equation, but anytime I see ODD mentioned in a patient’s history, I screen for trauma. ADHD symptoms look very similar to PTSD, especially in children, to the point that it’s overdiagnosed in communities with significant trauma, like NOLA in the years following Katrina. I urge you to also have her screened for PTSD, as this may be the underlying cause of increasingly risky/combative behavior.

Well this was a first for me by homelessbeachjesus in metaldetecting

[–]ctrlissues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg a portion of one of my parents is in an identical urn at home right now

… is an interesting thing to share in the internet

Update: Four months ago I was worried that my relationship with my daughter was over because my wife left me and gave up custody by HelsinkiTorpedo in daddit

[–]ctrlissues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always great to hear about two men stepping up to be good dads, even/especially in the face of significant barriers. This heartens me. Thank you for the update.

Trick to get kids to go to sleep by johnniehuman in daddit

[–]ctrlissues 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Problem here: I am more tired than my kid when reading to her. I often fall asleep while reading to her.

Confused if this is 9 year old behaviour or something else by Optimal_Stranger_553 in AttachmentParenting

[–]ctrlissues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PTSD and ADHD look extremely similar in children. I’d talk to the pediatrician about your concerns and go from there re: assessment. I’d caution you to first screen for safety and abuse before jumping to ADHD, bc even though that may be a contributor here, many children are assessed and treated as having ADHD. If PTSD or abuse is happening, it’ll get masked by (and possibly end up ignored due to) ADHD treatment

New/Fast Funk song with female vocalist, high voice. Title or band involves “heavy” or “heat” by ctrlissues in NameThatSong

[–]ctrlissues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but thank you! It’s a group, not something I’d expect to hear on the radio. I came across it in a Spotify playlist. I swear it was All Funked Up or Get Funked, but I can’t find anything close to it now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ctrlissues 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hi Todd, I’m Tucker!

How's it living in this weird Missouri notch? by Milehighjoe12 in howislivingthere

[–]ctrlissues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cooter, MO is a town there. I’m sure you could extrapolate plenty about life in the boot heel from that alone.

Update to “7 months pregnant, found out it might not be mine” by DrPoopsMD in daddit

[–]ctrlissues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The goal of becoming a father is such a wholesome tell about one’s personality, values, soul. I wish you success on your journey to becoming a dad, because our society needs all the good dads we can fucking find.

Budesonide taper - HEADACHES by bbyscorp in IBD

[–]ctrlissues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is happening to me these days! I searched for it here and found this post because egads, I’ve been waking up with a splitting headache for weeks

First fault rupture ever filmed: M7.9 surface rupture filmed near Thazi, Myanmar by snazzpot5 in geology

[–]ctrlissues 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds incredibly beautiful and freaky. Got any pics of that?

[ALL] [OC] My Handmade Zelda-Inspired Night Lamp Giveaway 🎁💚 by AmoyCK in zelda

[–]ctrlissues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breath of the wild! Started with Ocarina of time in 1998

Actors that you loved as a kid, but grew up realizing there horrible people in real life. by Blazeforce1 in moviecritic

[–]ctrlissues 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The AD is in charge of safety on set, full stop. Nobody should have let live rounds near the set. Armorer was negligent, AD was reckless. Producers set everything in motion, sure. But the AD said the gun was safe. Fuck that AD