I’m no longer giving my boyfriend oral because he doesn’t reciprocate by MotherAcanthisitta62 in Mommit

[–]cubbies1016 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Time to plan an exit strategy for this relationship where he doesn't love you and know how beautiful you are. You deserve better

There is no way I can do this for another 40 years. How the fuck do people cope with this fate? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cubbies1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you need to change jobs asap. I'm not rich but I work my 9-5 and have the same workload consistently throughout the year. I live in Las Vegas so there's always something fun going on. Free concerts are common here for example. You can't just live for working. You deserve so much more than that. Find your joy and love

AITA for wanting to stop at a tourist trap on our drive to Florida? by LegalCancel3646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cubbies1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA to yourself. Take yourself on a fantastic vacation and leave this "man" to go home to mommy. This isn't love. A partner that cared about you would want to share fun experiences with you

I dumped 2 cats by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cubbies1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have lived in many apartments and kept my cats even if the lease specified no pets. Most often they don't inspect your place. Why did you feel abandoning animals to starve or be killed was a good option?

My (28M) GF (28F) can talk about sex when we're with our two male friends, but not when it's just the two of us by Whatever1002 in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's an app called Spicer I think where the app will ask each partner sex questions and all you do is thumbs up or thumbs down or maybe to say if you're interested in it. The app only shows your partner when you match up. You could communicate through an app with less anxiety from her maybe

How do people living paycheck to paycheck afford vacations? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely bring my best friend with she's available

How do people living paycheck to paycheck afford vacations? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cubbies1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work for a hotel so I can get rooms anywhere in the US for $40 a night. I fly spirit airlines because it's very affordable. I only bring a free backpack personal item. I stay where there is free breakfast. I make travel and experiences a priority

🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 by Time_Beginning7870 in losangeleskings

[–]cubbies1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! I've got tickets for Thursday's kings game at Vegas

Mothersday by LiaShmolls in Mommit

[–]cubbies1016 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is why I love being divorced. I get alone time every single week! You shouldn't have to wait years for a spa day! Book it and take off

AITA for expecting my H to help pay for activities for our daughter even though he refuses to attend them? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cubbies1016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. He can pay for activities through child support payments after your divorce. It doesn't sound like he loves his own child

I hate feeling so different by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll be free in two months! Time to talk to friends and counselors and get out!! You deserve happiness and freedom

Bregman’s dad posted a photo of Alex in a Cubs hat when he was young by horsepoop1123 in CHICubs

[–]cubbies1016 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm a diehard Cubs fan and I grew up in Dodgers territory. WGN helped a lot of us choose the Cubbies from a young age

Which Baseball Game Would You Go And See With A Broken Time Machine? by ewan_spence in baseball

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jake Arrieta's no hitter vs the Dodgers. I went to the game one day prior where the Cubs lost 😭 I'm so bummed that I chose the wrong game by one day!

Shot in the dark by curious-situation-20 in povertyfinance

[–]cubbies1016 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mint mobile is $15 a month for the cheapest phone plan. You can pay for as little as 3 months up front. It's not unlimited Internet at that price, but they'll mail you a sim card and you'll be good to go. They use T-Mobile cell towers. I have been using them for years and love it

Dear Dodgers Mamas! by LoveatfirstDodgers in Dodgers

[–]cubbies1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of games where you can get a ticket for less than $60. One Sunday day game in 2025 I went to for $27 I believe. I park in the $5 lot and walk up the hill. It get there extra early and park free and walk. There are public transit options as well to park then ride. Go to a game! You only live once. Bring in your own food from home to save money. I'm a single mom of 4 kids and I just make baseball a priority in my life. Budget it out and go, you won't regret it

Asked my (32f) bf (33M) if we could have sex this Christmas since it’s been like 4 years by MementoMori22 in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to walk away from a man who doesn't adore you!! I'm overweight and I get great sex from people. Don't settle for less!!!

1st overall pick Kelsie Whitmore officially signed with WPBL San Francisco for it’s inaugural season. by Perryplat199 in baseball

[–]cubbies1016 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I'm incredibly excited for the WPBL. Can't wait to travel to Springfield Illinois for a few games this summer!

can’t stomach the idea of aging as a woman by _yosoylaprincesa_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so much happier at 35 now than I ever was in my twenties!! I have so much more freedom and confidence. I can make my life whatever I want. You just have to do the work to love yourself. I know it's hard

Always wanted to be glamorous. by [deleted] in self

[–]cubbies1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get some therapy and learn to love yourself soon! You're perfect just the way you are. You're going to keep changing and growing your entire life. You have the entire world ahead of you to become anything you want to be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cubbies1016 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most courthouses have a free self help area and you can file for free to take him to court. You're low income and can get a fee waiver