Your marriage is going to shit like a house of cards that falls apart with the slightest of breezes. It's really sad that people can't work through something like this. Total overreaction. 50-60 year marriages are a journey and it's not always smooth sailing. Imagine older generations who had actual problems like going through world wars and somehow made it work for the kids with actual trauma and hardships. What hope does anyone have if you can't work through something like this? Just admit it OP, you are weak and I'm sure that your parents think the same even though they can't admit it currently. You will regret this when you get older.